Dealing with heart break

Ya ... A few weeks ago only.... . Just one sentence came up in my mind when I was feeling so F_O!..

Of course. Hehehe I let the pain run my system because I need to heal from that. And then I go out with family and friends to ease the pain of all those memories. I travel too. And all of a sudden, I am over the heartbreak.

Goodness, you are full of serious questions tonight!! I have had my heart broken so many times that it is too scarred to love again. After my divorce (19 years of marriage) I thought for some years and concluded that I cannot choose a man that is good for me. I choose toxic men. So I made the decision to never love again and I'm quite happy that way. I have my children, my grandchildren, my brother and sister and their families, and I'm great friends with my ex and his wife. Life is great without men to complicate it and break my heart. If you are young, by all means look again for love. But before you do, try to pin down why you chose that person that broke your heart. Did the person make you feel safe? Relieve your loneliness? Complete you? Then make sure you don't choose the next one for those reasons for those are the wrong reasons. Nobody can complete you, you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. It's too late for me but you can find out why you choose the wrong people and correct it and have a life partner that you can share happiness with. But you have to do the work!

Just move on

Fortunately never.

Yes I had been heart broken before. I Just allow moments to myself to be sad ( but don't feel sorry for yourself), I stop beating myself, I distract myself by hanging out with friends . And I ate sweets like ice cream or chocolate , it made me calm and relaxed .

@Berrygal Yes, I have had my heart broken. After I get over it and realized it was for the best at times I move on.