Should we listen to our parents when choosing our life parter

@augusta123 (6649)

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1 Apr 18

I think we should so that we wouldn't regret it they might know better

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@augusta123 (6649)

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1 Apr 18

@Berrygal well,it might just be infatuation and not love.

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

@augusta123 that's a new one,infatuation, in my case it was love

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

But supposing we love our partner so much?

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Jessa Bumagat

@Jessabuma (31700)

• Baguio, Philippines

1 Apr 18

I will listen to their advice of course because they know what is best for me but if they want me to marry a guy whom I don't love, then I will not listen to them.

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@augusta123 (6649)

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1 Apr 18

Yea,it worth listening to them

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@augusta123 (6649)

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1 Apr 18

@Jessabuma yea

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Jessa Bumagat

@Jessabuma (31700)

• Baguio, Philippines

1 Apr 18

@augusta123 very well said dear friend

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Jill_H

@Jill_H (147)

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1 Apr 18

They know what is good for us.

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@augusta123 (6649)

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1 Apr 18

@Berrygal let your parents words be law

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Jill_H

@Jill_H (147)

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1 Apr 18

@Berrygal Your partner will try his best to make your parents satisfied, otherwise he will not care about their feelings and your situation. That is not true love.

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

Exactly my thought, but supposing we love our partner so much?

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Diana

@dya80dya (36481)

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1 Apr 18

It depends. If we love our partner we should stay with him/her, no matter what.

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

Supposing they see what we can't see because of blinded love

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Diana

@dya80dya (36481)

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1 Apr 18

@Berrygal Yes. This can happen. We don't see anything bad when we are in love. Then we should listen to our parent's advice because they have good intentions.

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

@dya80dya sure,but it never easy when we are in love with our partner's

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Swayamsiddha Dash

@Swayamsiddha (4354)

• New Delhi, India

1 Apr 18

I am not gonna leave my partner.

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

That's Right, but remember sometimes our parents could be right

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Beth Jumawid

@Betxie1221 (469)

• Philippines

1 Apr 18

for me, even if that person means so much of you but part of u is still undecided.. well, better to listen to your parents.. and if your still too young it's a must to listen to your parents...

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Beth Jumawid

@Betxie1221 (469)

• Philippines

4 Apr 18

@Berrygal thanks

@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

Agree with you

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Silvermist

@silvermist (19702)

• India

1 Apr 18

Whether you do as they wish or not,always take into account their advice.

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Marlina

@marlina (154131)

• Canada

1 Apr 18

We should choose our own partner.

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

But parents can atimes be right don't you think so?

Essjayd

@Essjayd (1567)

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1 Apr 18

No you're the person who has to live with your partner not your parents. I reckon parents need to let their kids make their own mistakes and just be there if it all falls apart! Often the partner a parent dislikes is actually the right one in the end. My parents weren't keen on my first serious partner at the beginning but a few years on he was like a son to them. They were devastated when we grew apart and split up but he's still one of my best friends.

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shweta s

@saiama (872)

• Mumbai, India

1 Apr 18

it differs from situation to the situation sometimes parents could be wrong in selecting a life partner for you sometimes they could right, always listen to your inner instinct it's you who has to live a life with your life partner and not parents

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@Berrygal (5834)

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1 Apr 18

Yea right Buddy

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Icydoll

@Icydoll (36717)

• India

2 Apr 18

No wrong in listening to parents advice but the final decision should be yours ..as you should live with him lifelong

@Berrygal (5834)

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3 Apr 18

Well stated

Masha Vickina

@MashaVickina (2184)

• Russian Federation

2 Apr 18

No, we should not listen to anyone. First of all, you will not be able to blame your parents for your choice if you will have problems with your life partner. Second, parents will never be involved in such topics as intimacy with this person, so it is only your responsibility to use your own head and make a decision. The same thing is with the divorce - only you must decide whether to divorce or keep the family.

Masha Vickina

@MashaVickina (2184)

• Russian Federation

2 Apr 18

@Berrygal No. I have my own eyes. I have made a perfect choice and live happily with my husband

@Berrygal (5834)

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2 Apr 18

But sometimes they might see what we can't see,don't you think so

@Berrygal (5834)

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2 Apr 18

@MashaVickina great one dear.keep enjoying

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Debashri Das

@deba12 (2946)

• India

1 Apr 18

We should consider their opinions but give priority to our choice. Actually,I woulds suggest we should find someone who can impress you as well as your parents.

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