The Sad Faces of our Future Generations
By Mrs.Pumpkins
@MrsPumpkins (466)
Philippines
April 3, 2018 10:49am CST
My son's school had their recognition day today. I was saddened to see that many of the students who got awards have no parent or even a guardian with them. There were students who were teary-eyed upon receiving their medals. One student caught my attention when my son asked him if was his photo taken by the official photographer. He said he wasn't able to pay for it and his mom didn't come. He looked like his tears were about to fall. He said he had no one around.
Parents should try to appreciate the efforts of their child, may it be big or small. This kind of day comes only once in every school year. Parents and guardians should give importance to this affair. The awards given to the students (academic or non-academic) serves as motivation to continue to do good in school. Being able to see your child's efforts to stay in school is a big achievement. This also makes our child feel the love that they needed. They need our presence, our attention, love and care.
How about you? Share us some of your thoughts about this.
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10 responses
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Apr 18
It is sad to hear those kinds of stories. It is truly disheartening that some parents couldnt even give time to their children yet demand so much from them. That is the reason why I did not have children yet. That I cannot be there for them because I am not physically, financially, mentally and psychologically ready. I want to give them the love they need and provide the care that they deserve. Do not have a kid if having a kid is just a burden.
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@MrsPumpkins (466)
• Philippines
3 Apr 18
Yes having children should be planned if you are not yet ready, that's okay. If you are ready, then go! Hehe
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
8 Apr 18
It's parents' or guardian's duty to support their children whenever they need.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
3 Apr 18
I agree with you.Parents should make the time to be present at such occasions.The kids feel loved.I always made it a point to attend such occasions when they were kids.
@MrsPumpkins (466)
• Philippines
3 Apr 18
Yes it makes them happy that we pay attention to them.
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@JudyEv (342110)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Apr 18
That is a shame that some parents weren't able to attend the ceremonies.
@petatonicsca (7070)
• Japan
4 Apr 18
I had a kindergartener who was the only one whose parents did not come to the music program. He was very sad too.
@deba12 (2946)
• India
3 Apr 18
When you have given birth, you should have taken care of your kid. I am saying this to all moms. Winning an award is a valuable moment for any kid. How could moms think of not attending such an event? How could they be so heartless?
@MrsPumpkins (466)
• Philippines
3 Apr 18
Some have reasonable excuses like they have a full time work or parents are all working... but if i am a parent, i would've ask my mom,dad or other family member to attend. But others just don't do... its sad.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
3 Apr 18
I have seen children like that, too. There are a lot of them here in the states. It's a pet peeve of mine that both parents so often work--they have a nice house, nice cars, nice clothes, even sometimes a boat or a travel trailer but their kids have no parents except for a couple hours a day after work.
For what it costs to send a mom to work she could (or he could) stay home and be a parent and homemaker. Working needs transportation, clothing, lunches, paid child care, etc. Too busy to cook so they get fast food or a meal service. They hire a housekeeper maybe to clean and do laundry because they are exhausted and can't do the work at home. And in years to come they'll wonder why their kids are distant or why they get into trouble. It's because they were raised by strangers or raised themselves. Most working moms, unless they are highly paid professionals, are barely breaking even by working and some are actually spending more than they make.
Now, I know all the working moms will jump on me and pound me with protestations that their kids are great, they're setting a good example, they absolutely have to work because they are single--those aren't the moms I'm talking about but I'm sure they'll jump in anyway. I'm talking about the ones that work because they are "unfulfilled" or they want their kids to have nice clothes or the latest toys. They are destroying their children.
@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
3 Apr 18
This is really sad. I have legal custody of my granddaughter. I go to every school play, every sports day, every assembly and anything else she is involved in. It's so important to them that you turn up to support them.
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
4 Apr 18
I received a few honours when I was in primary school and somehow, my parents managed to attend...
I agree with you that parents or the guardians must prioritise the children ..
The really sad part about the Philippines is that there are many parents who work overseas and their young children are left behind.. Some of them grow up without really knowing their parents and vice versa.. That is the saddest thing about the children of OFWs..