what your take on marriage
@bebeautiful (39)
Lagos, Nigeria
April 7, 2018 8:14pm CST
hello everyone, I would like to know our take on marriage, I got married at the age of 22, to most people 22 is too old, and to most too young, but I did because I felt i was ready in terms of age, not realizing you have to be emotional and physically ready, so tell me what age do you think is ideal for marriage?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
8 Apr 18
Age is just a minor consideration in getting married. One has to be physically, emotionally, mentally, and financially stable to survive the challenges of marriage.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
8 Apr 18
I married 21 years old and if i have to give my experience then yes it's a very young age to marry. I think for women an ideal age is 25 to 30. That is the time when you are a little stable in life and in your way of thinking. I mean maturity. Your thinking when you are 21 and 25 is far different. So if you can hold on a little longer to ready yourself then it will be good. It's not only the financial side that is important. You must be ready emotionally too.
@bebeautiful (39)
• Lagos, Nigeria
8 Apr 18
yes you're right you really have to be financially and emotionally stable to embark on the journey
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
8 Apr 18
@bebeautiful You must add as well that you both know each other's character well. And knowing both your families is a big plus.
@faithhhyyy (322)
• United States
8 Apr 18
To be honest, it should not matter what age the person is. What matters if they are in love and committed to the other person or not. It is so adorable to me when I see people actually wait and learn more about the person that they love instead of rushing into a marriage. I do not judge and that is their prerogative. Everyone has their own time to know when it is time to get married.
