Is it true? Friendship over is more painful that relationship over? Why?

April 27, 2018 9:07am CST
I do believe in that saying because I am one of those person who experienced that kind of pain, the feeling of losing your Friend/Bestfriend. After having FO with your friend, it feels like your heart is really heavy and can't even sleep just because of thinking of what you just wasted. That's why, if you have a trustworthy friend, never ever dare to over your friendship or else you would regret it at last.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
27 Apr 18
Yes that's right I feel you, I also lost my best friend , just because of one guy, she loves the guy but the guy loves me.
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27 Apr 18
Oh! I think that was a really hard situation my dear. But just always remember that, there are persons that are more deserving for you. @Jessabuma
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• India
27 Apr 18
It's sad! It's difficult to choose one when both are equally important..
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
27 Apr 18
@Itsmenermin yes that's right..
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
27 Apr 18
If it's a real friend then we can always work things out. That's what real friends do!
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
28 Apr 18
@Itsmenermin What do you think could happen that two real friends can't overcome?
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28 Apr 18
Very well said @1hopefulman but, there is a lot of things that might possibly happen. We don't know...
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28 Apr 18
@1hopefulman Maybe they will regret because in just a single reason, they end their friendship.
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@snowy22315 (179734)
• United States
27 Apr 18
I would say it depends. It is hard to get over a friendship where you have shared alot.
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• India
27 Apr 18
Agree.. But sometimes it just happens and we can't help it..
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28 Apr 18
Exactly @snowy22315
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28 Apr 18
@anamika161088 just try to accept my dear, try to accept.
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
29 Apr 18
I can't sleep for years, the memory of our good friendship suddenly over attacks me until i have depression and schizophrenia.
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• Malaysia
1 May 18
@Itsmenermin yes, all my life is happy because of them.
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1 May 18
Because you know by yourself that those memories are the things that made you happy for the most of the time.
2 May 18
@wongchoiyee that's good to hear then. :--)))
• India
27 Apr 18
Yeah.. Losing a frientis very painful. I have experienced it in my school days..
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• India
28 Apr 18
@Itsmenermin Agree.. It works as an obstacle for believing in others and making new friends..
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28 Apr 18
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28 Apr 18
And that pain will just stay in heart forever.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Apr 18
Of course it does because you cannot find a friend such as that person. Romantic relationships can be easily replaced.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Apr 18
@Itsmenermin Thank you, Nermen.
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30 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 no problem my friend.
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28 Apr 18
I agree @mlgen1037
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• Philippines
29 Apr 18
I guess it happens. And i know how hard it is. I just don't know why people can't forgive and forget things. Maybe they were badly hurt also.
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1 May 18
Forgetting all the memories that you made together is the hardest thing to do when you end your friendship. So much pain.
@LeaPea2417 (37334)
• Toccoa, Georgia
27 Apr 18
I understand the sad feeling.
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28 Apr 18
Thanks friend!
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
1 May 18
I am sorry for whatever happened with you and your friend. Really hope you can patch up. Trust and love is everything. Whether with a best friend or partner, fallouts with them really hurt! Too much fallout in my life makes you see the world through a different lens.
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• Kolkata, India
1 May 18
@Itsmenermin totally....happy memories are forever...
1 May 18
@ria1606roy and forever is because of endless love. :--)))
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1 May 18
Thanks my friend. Yeah, it's hard to forget especially when you both made many happy memories.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
29 Apr 18
Especially if U have been friends for 20 years!! Sometimes U can get back in touch after a while and they will be happy to see U again!! U will be back together again!!!
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1 May 18
Ohh! Sad to hear that my friend. :--(
@aninditasen (16334)
• Raurkela, India
28 Apr 18
Both hurts a lot. After all we are social animals.
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@aninditasen (16334)
• Raurkela, India
3 May 18
@Itsmenermin Don't we belong to the animal kingdom? FO with a friend can be made up with time but time seldom heals relationships.
1 May 18
Animals huh. FO is really hard
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• Abuja, Nigeria
27 Apr 18
Yes bro when i lost my friend it take me long to come back to my sence
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28 Apr 18
Sad to hear my friend @Abdul61010
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Apr 18
Any relationship will be same painful..it's about the how close and bonding with the person..
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
28 Apr 18
@Itsmenermin yeah my dear friend
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28 Apr 18
I see...
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@pashab (13)
27 Apr 18
I agree that we should care about our friends as they are our treasure .
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28 Apr 18
Yeah. We must treasure them while they are still here with us.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
28 Apr 18
You do everything with a best friend, when you lose that friendship it feels like a part of your heart left with it. I am sorry you went through that, I too gave up my best friend after over 50 yrs and it tore me up.
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1 May 18
Yeah. You even brake most of the rules together and yet are not scared to get caught because both of you will also get reproached.
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@Itspaul (95)
28 Apr 18
yea it depends on the situation. if you love your friendship then you get hurt. well its true some time its more painful the friendship over than relationshit! hahaha
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1 May 18
The words tho friend hahaha but yeah, I agree.
• New Delhi, India
28 Apr 18
Absolutely
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1 May 18
:--((
15 May 18
Good friends and hard to find, so when you have a good friend it is best to hold on tight and try not to mess it up. However, I think it is more painful when you lose a boyfriend/girlfriend than your best friend, but that is just my opinion.