Grow Old Gracefully?

@gnatsmom (2437)
April 27, 2018 11:08pm CST
We have all heard the cliche "grow old gracefully". Well I refuse! My plan is to be that unpredictable, spirited , older woman who never fits into the traditional mold. I want to live life to the fullest and love with all I am. I pray that I always live out my faith and never compromise. I want to continue to pursue my dreams like a kid graduating high school. I will keep dying my hair and wearing clothes that express my mood and personality. I will play on the playground with my grandbabies and keep learning to play new instrument. I want to live until I die. How about yall? What are your ideas on growing old?
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• United States
28 Apr 18
i hadn't really thought much about it.but i do know if i get a chicken neck,i'm covering that crap up
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@gnatsmom (2437)
28 Apr 18
LOL I told my daughter, the other day, if I get chicken neck that I will wear turtle neck shirts even in the summer.
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@vandana7 (100251)
• India
28 Apr 18
I am fine with wearing clothes that are contemporary provided I am comfortable in them. But I will be damned if I will dye my hair. I like pure white hair.
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@gnatsmom (2437)
28 Apr 18
I dye my hair every 3 weeks. I freak out when I see a gray hair. My husband, on the other hand, embraces the gray hair.
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@vandana7 (100251)
• India
26 Nov 18
@MALUSE There you differ from Ms. Valentine. She had salt and pepper. My idea of old age is.. I really love this picture of Nafisa Ali. It is an old picture, but there are a few others that have made me realize there is beauty even in gray. Leela Naidu is the other lady..wearing hair right matters. https://www.cinestaan.com/articles/2018/nov/19/16908/actress-nafisa-ali-suffering-from-ovarian-cancer
https://www.makeyourbiography.com/celebs/leela-naidu
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
26 Nov 18
@vandana7 I've had my hair dyed for many years. It's still thick and healthy and I'll go on having it dyed until my last days.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
28 Apr 18
I want to enjoy growing old. That's what I am seeing with my granny at 99.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
1 May 18
@ramapo17 She doesn't have any medical issues. That makes me amazed.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
30 Apr 18
Wow, 99 is a great age. I wouldn't mind getting that old as long as I didn't have any medical issues.
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• Portland, Oregon
27 Oct 18
Don't you think perspective changes as you move into a new decade? I know mine sure did when I hit the 80's and I'm not sure if I want to test the 90's or God forbid the 100's.
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@gnatsmom (2437)
30 Oct 18
I think it does, but aging is not the only factor that changes our perspective. I believe it is also life circumstances.
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
28 Apr 18
I can say I am like you. I grew up with a lot of friends and I met most of them when I was 9 years old. I am now 75 years old and we are still good friends and are in touch with each other very often even though we do not all live close to each other. When we get together we are the craziest group of "kids" that never grew up. Most of us went to church together as well as school. After graduating and many of us going on to different schools, we always keep in touch and I know that it will always be that way.
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@gnatsmom (2437)
28 Apr 18
I am 49 and my 2 best friends are 50. We are so busy taking care of our families and aging parents that we don't get to hang out and just have fun much anymore, but when we do, age is not a factor. We have fun. I am at the beach now with one of those friends and my youngest daughter. We are as full of life as my daughter, so I understand exactly what you are saying.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
30 Apr 18
@gnatsmom I hope you had a great time at the beach. You deserve it.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
7 May 18
@gnatsmom I just want to live my life and find peace of mind.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Jul 18
I have the heart of a curious child. A longing deep down inside of me, to be learning something new, until God says 'common home!'
@Daelii (5619)
• United States
28 Apr 18
She's my dream version of me when I'm older! I really love the painted details on the fences!
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