Barry Chadwick
By Jeanne Marie
@Jeanniemaries (8237)
United States
April 28, 2018 10:17am CST
By now most of you probably know, one of our fellow myLotters, @asylum has passed away. He was diagnosed with cancer last summer and bravely battled it with great concern for those who might be distressed about it.
He was a favorite of mine and one of the first people I followed after Belle Starr introduced me to myLot and recommended Barry. She told me he had a great sense of humor and she enjoyed his discussions.
Barry and I became pen-pals of sorts. He knew I liked postcards so I was added to the list of those who received postcards from his travels and he traveled so often I sometimes received four or five in a single month! But rare it was that I didn't receive one because he sent them from all the local places he visited as well as his holiday trips.
I often sent him postcards as well, although my trips were fewer. It was always fun to pick out a special card that I though he would like. He didn't collect postcards but discovered it was fun to receive them as well as send them.
He often sent me little packages of British ephemera for my journals. They were so fun to open, just interesting little things like colorful labels on British food packages, stickers, train stubs, colorful brochures. He was always a bit puzzled about why they were interesting to me! As most of you might wonder as well, but that is a THING with junk journaling and he merrily gathered up what he thought would be fun and these packages would be so delightful to receive. I shared much of it with other junk journalists that I swapped with.
Sadly, I followed his progress with the cancer and the last exchange we had was at Christmas last year. Shortly after that he really slowed down his posts and I believe late March was the last time I saw him respond here. His posts here were always very enjoyable and I'm so happy to have been not only a follower but his friend.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
28 Apr 18
It is correct, he left a comment mid-March to say he was not active because in pain and confused. I am so sorry he did not make it. I know he did his best to fight the cancer, I fear it had already spread too much when it was first diagnosed. Barry will always be in my heart.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
28 Apr 18
@Jeanniemaries We loved so much to exchange opinions, he was so funny, he had a great British humor.
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
28 Apr 18
You and he always had lively discussions, a treasure is lost.
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
28 Apr 18
@LadyDuck He certainly did! You often had quite long interesting and humorous discussions!
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@marguicha (223101)
• Chile
28 Apr 18
I looked forward to his posts and comments. We will all miss him. RIP
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
29 Apr 18
@marguicha yes I do too, I like his mild mannered style of conversing.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
28 Apr 18
R.I.P. Asylum and thank you for informing and updating all of us
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
28 Apr 18
@Jeanniemaries the member search does not seem to let me find the specific member when I type his username, anyway I'm nor really sure if he was part of the old Mylot but the name seems to ring a bell but I'm positive I had interactions with him several times.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
28 Apr 18
@louievill You can type Koalemos @Asylum under users,and you can see the profile.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Apr 18
He fought a hard battle and I was sad to hear of his passing. He was a wonderful man. I was reading some of his past discussions and shredding a few tears. His pen has come to rest but he will live on in so many people's memories. May he rest in peace.
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
30 Apr 18
Yes, his pen has come to rest. Beautifully put.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
I remember him telling us in a discussion about his cancer. I'm sorry. I was away in mylot and didn't know he passed away.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
28 Apr 18
@asylum Will be missed by all members here.
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
28 Apr 18
Oh so true! It's been quite some time since he posted regularly.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Apr 18
It is so sad about him, did he say what kind of Cancer he had?
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
30 Apr 18
It was in multiple areas already when discovered,
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
30 Apr 18
I certainly thought that his treatment would extend his life. The cancer took him fast.
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@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
28 Apr 18
That's sweet ,jeannemarie. I considered him a friend too. He was quite helpful regarding computer problems and willing to share his knowledge.
He will be missed by all.
What exactly is a junk journalist?
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
30 Apr 18
Yes, he will be missed. Creating journals out of junk mail and other things one might throw away. Barry was always puzzled about it, but collected many very fun items to send me!
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
28 Apr 18
Yes , I have read /heard about this sad news .. May he rest in peace and condolences
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
30 Apr 18
It is sad news, I wish him peace now too.
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@LilyBeBack (1994)
• United Kingdom
28 Apr 18
I didn't know about this until just now
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@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
30 Apr 18
I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news. He was very well liked here on myLot.
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