Do you believe in Love at First Sight?
By Herlyn
@Herlyn123 (374)
May 11, 2018 3:25am CST
Can you truly love someone from meeting him or her the first time? I believe that love takes time to develop, it is not about the physical, the way he or she smiles etc. but most of all it is through time. The longer the time, the more it blossoms. Let me know your thoughts whether its true or not. Also share your experience if it happened to you once in a while.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 May 18
I don't think you can't have love at first sight...all you can have is attraction at the first site! Love requires lot of understanding, mutual cooperation, dedication, sacrifice, mutual faith and trust. It should be devoid of selfishness and false egos.All these things can't happen in first sight @Herlyn123! Thanks1
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 May 18
@Herlyn123 , Could be , I can't say about it! Thanks!
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@Cristi_Ichim (3743)
• Bucharest, Romania
11 May 18
Yes. It is not necessarily love at first sight but it can be attraction at first sight
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@Herlyn123 (374)
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11 May 18
True. It needs communication, time and physical presence. But it some cases, it might actually happen, regardless it was a happy ending or not, that- we don't know.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
11 May 18
No, I don't believe . there's no such thing..
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
11 May 18
@Herlyn123 Love grows over time; no question about that. It's not quite an emotion that can be felt automatically..
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
11 May 18
Not love but only a crush. Love has a deeper meaning.
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@Herlyn123 (374)
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12 May 18
So tell me, have you ever experienced that? and still in good terms with that person?
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@Paradon (2063)
• Pattaya, Thailand
14 May 18
@Herlyn123 No! It was a lie at first sight! Long story but I survived.
@Herlyn123 (374)
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14 May 18
So, was your wife happen to be love at first sight?
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@ThinkGratitude (263)
• United States
11 May 18
Yes. I believe you fan fall "in love" with looks. You have to be attracted to a person before you will even give them the time of day, but actual "true love" is impossible until you get to know a person and their personality. You can learn to love someone and the traits they have, but the physical attraction has to be there first.
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@choijungeun (2631)
• Hangzhou, China
11 May 18
i believe,when you burst into a good-looking girl at first sight,you'll be obsessed by her pulchritude.Boy has a crush on girl.it always because that girl is very hot and nice-looking.The appearance of a girl decides how many men will be crazy about her.Like Scarlett Johnsson Nina Dobrev,they're having many fans.But if she is just a common girls,No man will fall in love with her at first sight.Unless she's princess
@star_disgate (779)
• Phoenix, Arizona
15 May 18
I think there is some truth to love at first sight. But I also believe that you can build a relationship after that, which allows you to fall even more in love with a person. Sort of like a flower blooming.
@kaphokz (202)
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11 May 18
Hmm I think if it is love at first sight it is in her/his appearance. They love the appearance first before the attitude
@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
11 May 18
I totally agree with @AKRoa24(12039). Love if it's mutual and keeps blossoming is deep and everlasting. True love is fantastic, hard to find for it must be reciprocated.
@cindychris33 (139)
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15 May 18
I think it is something called lust at first sight, when you see someone who is so attractive that you tell your self this person must be the one. However, to love someone is to know them personally.
@LetsTalktogther (15)
• Cote D'Ivoire (Ivory Coast)
14 May 18
Not really. More like a person catch your interest you learn about them and step by step you fall for them or not. Sometimes you watch someone from afar, you find them attractive and you want to talk to them
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
11 May 18
No, I do not. It's confused with lust at first sight.