People Give Away Their Privacy at Starbucks

Photo of a Starbucks taken by author
Laguna Woods, California
May 18, 2018 5:01pm CST
Many of us worry about having our identities hacked when we use our computers or cell phones. However, this morning, while having coffee with a friend, a man who was sitting at the next table completely gave away a great deal of personal information about himself. We ended up learning far more than we wanted to about his personal life. There he was, sitting in Starbucks, talking loudly on his cell phone, and shopping for a new health insurance policy. As a result, he gave the agent on the phone (and anyone in Starbucks who was interested) the following information: Name Address Phone numbers Age of both him and his wife Occupation (Financial Advisor) Income (yes, out there for everyone to know) Current monthly insurance premiums Current insurance carrier Why he wanted to change insurance When he wanted to change insurance (ASAP) His health history (recent cataract surgery and he is on cholesterol medicine) His wife's medical history (hip replacement surgery five years ago; she's doing fine) He was still on the phone and talking loudly when my friend and I left. If we had stayed long enough, we would probably have gotten his Social Security number and other information, too! I cannot believe that anyone would announce all these things loudly at Starbucks. If he gets his identity stolen, he will probably blame some foreign hacker, not his own carelessness! Some people are just hopeless!
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
18 May 18
This reminds me of a woman at whose table I was sitting in an open air cafè. She told a friend the most intimate details about her horrible boss on the phone in a loud voice including names. I could have informed this man about everything she had said!
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 May 18
@MALUSE - People never cease to amaze me! I think if you sat in one of these cafes long enough, you could write an interesting book! LOL
@LadyDuck (471271)
• Switzerland
19 May 18
People should make those calls from their home. This is something that makes my husband crazy, he gets up and goes out.
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@LadyDuck (471271)
• Switzerland
20 May 18
@DeborahDiane Those people are incredibly rude.
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• Laguna Woods, California
21 May 18
@LadyDuck - Yes, they are rude. Not only are they loud and obnoxious, but they have a tendency to disturb other patrons in these cafes. However, if you say anything to them, you only make matters worse.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 May 18
@LadyDuck - Like your husband, this man's conversation was making me crazy, too. I could not believe it. I agree they should make these calls from home.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
26 May 18
Some people don't seem to have a clue. Then there are others who get their privacy violated in ways they have no reason to suspect. Did you see what happened with amazon's Echo? This is kind of scary. I'm glad I never got one.
The call that started it all: "Unplug your Alexa devices right now."
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
30 May 18
@DeborahDiane I just read a post today from a tech magazine on how one can prevent this from occurring, but you have to call Amazon support to change a setting that you can't change by yourself.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
2 Jun 18
@DeborahDiane Don't talk to her around Alexa until she does.
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• Laguna Woods, California
1 Jun 18
@bagarad - I'm glad I do not have one of those devices. My sister does. I hope she calls Amazon and gets her settings changed!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 May 18
yes they are.They want to be heard.lol
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 May 18
@amadeo - Yes, he wanted to be heard! He's just lucky that I wasn't a criminal. I hope there were no criminals sitting at other tables! LOL
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@rakski (122043)
• Philippines
19 May 18
True. People at times forgot bot to talk too much
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@rakski (122043)
• Philippines
20 May 18
@DeborahDiane oh so true! They talk like they are in their private office of room! lol
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• Laguna Woods, California
21 May 18
@rakski - Yes, some people act like Starbucks is their private office!
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 May 18
@rakski - Yes, some people talk too much and too loudly in the wrong places!
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 May 18
It's a shame he was so careless. I would never do that in a public place, only in the privacy of my home.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 May 18
@just4him - I agree! If there was some reason not to do it at home, he should have made the call from his car. I could not believe he was sharing all this information for everyone to hear!
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• Laguna Woods, California
21 May 18
@just4him - I agree. This man was definitely not thinking! Very often, people do dangerous things without thinking.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 May 18
@DeborahDiane He most likely wasn't thinking.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
18 May 18
I don't understand why he did it. He's probably just not being defensive.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
19 May 18
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• Laguna Woods, California
19 May 18
@caopaopao - You are absolutely right. He was definitely not being defensive!
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
19 May 18
That was not very bright of him, not the kind of conversation you hold in a public place.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 May 18
@DeborahDiane No me either!! Loose lips and all that !!
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 May 18
@BelleStarr - This man said he was an investment advisor. I could not help but wonder if he talks about his clients on the phone when he is in Starbucks. I would not want him handling my money!
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• Laguna Woods, California
21 May 18
@BelleStarr - I agree! Loose lips! His behavior was just not very smart!
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
29 May 18
That is incredible.
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• Laguna Woods, California
29 May 18
@valmnz - I was amazed by what this man was saying out loud, too!
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@moffittjc (121546)
• Gainesville, Florida
21 May 18
I hear people all the time at Starbucks just blabbing out their private information without a thought or care in the world! It's no fun having your identity stolen, so these people will learn soon enough to watch their private information like a hawk!
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@moffittjc (121546)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 May 18
@DeborahDiane This world has gone completely mad...no common sense left whatsoever!
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• Laguna Woods, California
25 May 18
@moffittjc - You can say that, again! I agree that far too many people have absolutely no common sense, and they they complain when they have problems.
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• Laguna Woods, California
22 May 18
@moffittjc - I agree! People seem to have lost their common sense.
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@JESSY3236 (19912)
• United States
1 Jun 18
wow. He should have saved that phone call for later.
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• Laguna Woods, California
2 Jun 18
@JESSY3236 - Sometimes, people just amaze me ... and not in a good way!
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
19 May 18
Its not the kind of conversation you hold in a public place my dear friend...
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 May 18
@icydoll - I completely agree ... this call should never have been held in a public place!
@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
25 May 18
I can't understand this type of people. It is an issue that he should deal with at home. It is not a topic to discuss on phone at a Starbucks.
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• Laguna Woods, California
26 May 18
I agree! People need to use more common sense when they are having a phone conversation in a public place.
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19 May 18
@DeborahDiane Great observation! Unfortunately a lot of people do not pay attention to their surroundings. We have so many things to do nowadays and so little time to do it that often time we're giving out personal information in public settings just to save time. Also you have those attention seekers who are loud on purpose just to have people paying attention to them.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 May 18
@Ladybug8608 - Ahh! You are very smart. I agree he may have been loud to attract attention. However, if he ends up with his identity stolen, it will certainly be the wrong type of attention! LOL
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@nela13 (58599)
• Portugal
19 May 18
People always think that the danger is only on the internet but I think it is everywhere.
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• Laguna Woods, California
20 May 18
@nela13 - I agree that the danger is everywhere, and we all need to be smart about that.
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