Need a miracle
@lologirl2021 (5542)
United States
May 23, 2018 9:28am CST
Today i need something good to happen to me and my boyfriend.
Either he needs to get a new job or stay with the company and work 3 hours away. Trying to look at the pros with him working 3 hours away. I just need to stay positive and be happy and stop crying over these things that just happen.
Of course we can always meet in the middle in orlando and have some fun weekends, he will have to come home sometimes of course as i can just keep always going to him. We have done it before why not again.
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@porwest (92418)
• United States
23 May 18
Sometimes you have to take the good with the bad. If the job is a good paying one with good benefits and he likes working for the company, I say stick with it and make the move. Perhaps you might be in a different situation and have the ability to one day move closer? Love always finds a way.
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@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
23 May 18
I dont want to move far from where i am. I may move north like 30 minutes or south 30 minutes but i like my job and am not going to loose what i have at my job to move closer to his job. He has a good job so i may take the good with the bad but i hope after that road job is done they can place him here local again to work as that would be alot better for the both of us and for his family as well.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
23 May 18
@lologirl2021 Is he a construction worker? My son in law works in road construction and sometimes he is away for weeks at a time. My daughter works in the city and enjoys her work. She doesn't mind getting a bit of solitude while her husband is away. 
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
23 May 18
@Starmaiden Yes he is a construction worker. There are alot of jobs all over where we live but of course they dont need him on those jobs they want to send him away again. Oh well is all i can say when we arent together its ok i just can stay on here longer, stay at work longer, and then work on line to make more money since hes not around. I guess in the long run its better anyways.
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@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
23 May 18
I think he may go talk to someone after work about a local job which would be nice but not exactly sure until he gets off work to talk to me about it. If he does go to tampa i will tough it out and we will make arrangements on the weekends to see each other.
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@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 May 18
You're in Florida? I live in Gainesville. What area do you guys live in, and where will he be working? Also, what kind of work does he do?
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
24 May 18
South Florida we live in. He does road construction. At least he hasnt got North way up were you are or i would really be mad then.
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@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
25 May 18
@moffittjc Not to far from me. I like where i am. The more north i go the more cold it is and i am not a fan of that at all.
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@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
25 May 18
@lologirl2021 Oh cool. I'm from Boynton Beach originally, and lived in Wellington for a while before I moved north to Gainesville.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
23 May 18
My brother and his girlfriend live in Nova Scotia, but he works in British Columbia, 4000 miles away. He is a truck driver and spends 6 weeks on the road, then two weeks off at home. Their relationship has lasted through both thick and thin of this arrangement. I think it has something to do with trust?
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@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
23 May 18
Well its just he was gone for 6 months and has been home for a month maybe 5 weeks now and they want to send him away again. I guess i just have to deal with it and take the good with the bad as well.
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