How do you feel when you love someone,does not love you back?

@amadeo (111938)
United States
May 23, 2018 9:58am CST
How do you feel when you love someone who does not love you back? that is a good question there.Tell us. I have never got in this predicament. I am sure they are lots out there going through. Starting out my morning with this subject. photo online
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@LadyDuck (471506)
• Switzerland
23 May 18
It never happened to me, but I think it must be depressing.
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@LadyDuck (471506)
• Switzerland
23 May 18
@amadeo This is what I think, a sad experience.
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@LadyDuck (471506)
• Switzerland
24 May 18
@lnillerman If it never happened to you, you are also lucky as I am.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@LadyDuck yes it could be very depressing there.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
23 May 18
I do not know - because I have felt infatuation but not really in love with anyone.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@Kandae11 I see thanks.
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• Eugene, Oregon
23 May 18
Long ago it happened and I got over it. I was on the other side of that question once too.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@JamesHxstatic I see thank you James
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 May 18
I can tell you it hurts. After 21 years of marriage, he told me he never loved me.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@just4him oh so sorry there Val yes this hurts.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 May 18
@lnillerman Yes, it was awful.
• Quebec, Quebec
23 May 18
It never happened to me before.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@jean_phil12 and hope not
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 May 18
Hi Alfredo. How are you? I would feel pain as it is hard to accept the fact that this person I love cannot love me the way I love him.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@migen hello Louise I am okay.Off and on.Are you talking about your boyfriend there?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 May 18
@amadeo That is good to hear, Alfredo. We are always here for you. I am referring to an ex-boyfriend who just used me before and me being the stupid one always believes his lies.
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 May 18
I think if it is love then it should be mutual! if it is single sided then it can be liking or infatuation! This is my very personal opinion dear friend! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 May 18
@amadeo , Thanks!
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@AKRao24 that is fine you have your personal opinion.
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@Juliaacv (51193)
• Canada
23 May 18
I cannot say that I've ever been in such a situation. I would imagine I would feel very defeated. But I'm glad that I've not experienced that.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@Juliaacv good for you there.
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• United States
23 May 18
I was never in this position but I think if I loved someone and they didn't love me back I'd move on.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@Marilynda1225 yes so will i.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
23 May 18
I haven't been through this, thankfully. But feel bad for all those who have.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@Courtlynn huh what?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@CourtIynn I see.So things are okay now?
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
23 May 18
@amadeo huh?
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
23 May 18
Disappointment that could turn into despondency or you could accept it and move on.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@josie_(645) yes if this happens move on
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@thelme55 (77061)
• Germany
23 May 18
Gladfully it didn't happen to me. It must be depressing.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@thelma55 it could be
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
24 May 18
It s a good question!! I would like to answer it on a different perspective. Love and relation is a part of all relationship. I feel bad with my mother-in-law. My father in law reciprocated well to me with same love and acceptance and we shared a great bond. I really miss him as he passed away recently. My mom in law stay with me for 8 months in a year. She is still indifferent towards me and my one sided love and care for her. It has been long 18 years and I am still waiting for a good response from her. It hurts!!
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 May 18
@ArunimaSingh wow.Why is that .Does she know how to express her feeling?that is tough there. Nice to meet you
@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
25 May 18
@amadeo Some little issues which are still lingering because of lack of communication
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 May 18
@arunima25 I see.Hope you can work it out.
• United States
23 May 18
More than once. It's not a good feeling.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@ThinkGratitude yes it is not a good feeling.Sorry.
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• United States
23 May 18
@amadeo It's okay, something better is on the way for me
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
24 May 18
This is definitely not a good feeling. Fortunately, I have never felt this way.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
24 May 18
@amadeo Thanks.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 May 18
@caopaopao good for you.Stay that way
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
24 May 18
I will leave them be with much regret
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
24 May 18
It is a smart but painful move I would guess
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 May 18
@id_peace yes smart move
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
24 May 18
I had many admirers and still do who loved me, but I did not love them back!! I may have loved a few, but there was a lot of hesitations and reasons why I didn't!!!
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 May 18
@db20747 that is interesting.Why not love back.Something going on with your inner self?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 May 18
@db20747 Okay.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
25 May 18
@amadeo I'm going to send u a message and tell u why!!
@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
23 May 18
Oh wow. Good for you that you haven't had this. It's terrible. It makes you feel unworthy. Unlovable. Like you're not good enough. In reality all it means is that you're not a good match for that person
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@FayeHazel yes oh he or she has a headache
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
24 May 18
@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
23 May 18
Its demoralizing and I tend to lose my self-esteem somehow
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
23 May 18
@aureliah why is that you lose your self esteem there?
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
27 May 18
@amadeo Like I'm not that good enough of which I cannot be to everyone
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
27 May 18
@aureliah oh!you should not feel that way.
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24 May 18
My feel... Im feeling so sad and depression but then I think 'I love and I cant control my self about that feel, so I cant force someone love me back when I cant do...' I choose to be best friend for him and Im trying to move on, I know its so difficul....
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 May 18
@ARlumintang have a good one there.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 May 18
@ARIunintang whatever your doing sounds right.Very nice to meet you
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26 May 18
@amadeo Thank you, and nice to meet you too ^_^