How can I say “See you.” to my son?
@IchinokuraMasamune (15)
Japan
May 28, 2018 6:41pm CST
Left him in kindergarten on this morning. When I release baby stroller and left him in inside of kindergarten in which many of kids, he started to cry and yell..... I felt sorry and want to keep hugging as much as abailable time till I go work.... Finally, I said him see you. He still crying though nurny hugging him. I felt so sad but I have to go...... Is that best solution to say “see you” him?
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
29 May 18
My daughter took to kindergarten right away. I don't even think she missed me. 
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@IchinokuraMasamune (15)
• Japan
5 Jun 18
Really!? He might be enjoying kindergarten.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 May 18
Just hug him and reassure him that you will be back to get him when the day is over. It is hard for them at first but they adjust once they meet new friends and settle in.
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@IchinokuraMasamune (15)
• Japan
5 Jun 18
He’s, reassure him is important! This morning he seems like crying but once he found out teacher he started to smile and reach hand to teacher.
Thx!
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@IchinokuraMasamune (15)
• Japan
5 Jun 18
Ha...yes this is right. If he cry when he grew up junior high school then people call him ......
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 May 18
I have never experienced this thing but maybe I will just hug him/her and I will say i will surely come back.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
5 Jun 18
@IchinokuraMasamune hehehe!!! Explain to him in a way he can understand
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@IchinokuraMasamune (15)
• Japan
5 Jun 18
Good!
Surely come back! I will say to him though he migh can’t understand what I am saying since he is 1year.
Thx!
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@AnnieY (210)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
30 May 18
It's normal I felt like crying like a baby when I first had to leave my son at daycare but I did my best to keep it together and show him reassurance that I would definitely be back for him so I just tried explaining to him that he would stay there only for a little bit, he would play and draw and have fun with the other children till I came back. So I would just tell him, I'll be back a little later for you, and that I love him of course and a big hug and kiss.
On the third day he didn't cry anymore and would simply walk in and wouldn't even look back, that's when I cried the most lol! XD
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@IchinokuraMasamune (15)
• Japan
5 Jun 18
Hi Ana. Thx for your comment. Your suggestion is might be work when he grew up. Since my son is only 1 years old so he can not understand “I’ll be back” though he can understand BYE.... Let him relax that I learn from you. So now I am mailing and bye bye with hug and kisss..
Thx!
