if a man wants you, he will come and get you

I love him. But im not sure if he loves me too

I do always understand him. Even the way he treated me kills me everyday.

@Waterlilypretty May be he is not understanding you. If this is the case then make him understand you because understanding from both the partners is necessary for a successful relationship.

@anamika161088 i dont know . Its hard to understand him. Sometimes he is ok. Sometimes no. This is hard

@Waterlilypretty Have *you* started a conversation to clear up the situation? If you haven't, do it! Ask him directly if he is avoiding you or not.

Im always sad everytime he is pushing me away. Or he is avoiding to talk to me. ??

@MALUSE we talked about it. I already ask if he does have other girl thats why he is doing this. He said he has no other girls and im his last. Its just he doest want to be selfish and he wants me to be happy. But on what hes doing make me feel sad everyday. He said i should believe me its for me.

@Waterlilypretty You asked a series of questio if he is sick or has cancer. You should go to him but if he is not then he should come to you.

What do u mean?

@bela360 its just hard for me to stay with him as he always saying that i should go out and dont focus with him aa he sick coz he wants me to be happy. If i found a guy its ok with him he said he is not selfish.

@Waterlilypretty I think he still loves you, and just keep comforting him, by being there for him, I know ir means lot to him...good luck...

Yeah thank you so much. That is what im doing for almost one year. And im always praying for his healing. But sometimes i feel very sad everytime he is saying to open my heart. And when the time i told him that i want a breakup. He just ignored me and he changed the topic . I dont undertand him anymore

@ARN4567 really Sir? Thank u so much. I need more patient i guess . And yes ill stay with him coz i know he needs me. Thank you Sir.

@Waterlilypretty I know it is a different situation but the last time I've said those line to my Exs, my love is fading. But surely, it is a different scenario. Since you've become BF-GF I think you know him well.

@simplfred maybe he doesnt love me anymore thats why he wants me to look for other guy ??

Yes he is .

Yes and everyday im so sad ?? and dunno what to do if i will just go and leave him, or stay and comfort him even everyday im sad.

@Waterlilypretty No. Ignore him for you do not deserve someone like him. He only remembers you when he needs you. That is not real love.

@mlgen1037 i guess . He doesnt love me ??

Ignore like i should go away with him like he wants me to do?

@Waterlilypretty It means he loves you truly because he wants to see you happy

He said if ever there is a man out there who like me , grab the opportunity as he is sick. I said i love him. But he said its for my own happiness . Sometimes i feel that he doesnt want to talk to me

@Waterlilypretty I am sorry for your hurt but sometimes you have to respect his decision . Nothing you can do .Just go on with your life and like I said if you are meant to be you'll find each other. Take care my friend and hope for you the best in life

Thank you so much. Its just hurt everyday . I dont know what to do. If i am going to stay or follow what he wants. If i will stay i am just torturing myself . If i leave him its like im selfish coz i will leave him sick

@Peach10 thank u . U are right. I guess its time for me to go away as he wish??

He is the same. And still the same. I dont kbow what to think now. All i want now is to wish him to get better.