why do men cheat?

Philippines
June 14, 2018 10:32am CST
I always ask myself, why do men cheat?
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
14 Jun 18
They are not contented, it happens too in women.
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• Philippines
14 Jun 18
yes they are not contented even we gave everything to them?? and you are right it happens too in women.. some women doing it not just because they are not contented.. they want a revenge to their partner
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
14 Jun 18
@sweetbaby88 even if we gave almost everything they still crave for something that we never give. Im just saying the possible reason why one person cheat. I dont get them, why dont they just break up with their partner instead of cheating. They are just making the mistake bigger.
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• Philippines
14 Jun 18
@chicnthin yes you are right. why don't they just break up with their partner if they are not happy anymore.. why some of them love to see their partner hurting and crying and begging to choose her
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
14 Jun 18
Why not just ask the guy who cheated? It makes no sense to lump an entire gender together and act like they all have the exact same reason for behaving as they do
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• United States
14 Jun 18
@sweetbaby88 They might or they might blame you or if you're lucky they're be honest about it. But you can't rely on other men to tell you why another man cheated
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• Philippines
14 Jun 18
@cupkitties exactly!
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• Philippines
14 Jun 18
even you asked the guy who cheated.. they will not confess.. they will just deny it
@akalinus (43334)
• United States
14 Jun 18
They cheat because they are men. That is what men do.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
14 Jun 18
So women cheat because they are women and that's what women do?
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
14 Jun 18
@akalinus I never said that you were but women cheat too, you know.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@owlwings I was not the one who cheated.
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@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
14 Jun 18
Its not like that men only cheat, women also cheat. It just depend upon person ethics. If their ethics are weak then they can think of cheating and might also cheat. This can be done with men as well women.
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• Hyderabad, India
14 Jun 18
@sweetbaby88, yes thanks. we shoudl not differentiate between men and women. Both are human being and both are having their ethics and both can do cheat
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• Philippines
14 Jun 18
I agree with you.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
14 Jun 18
Hi Rochelle. Most people cheat. SOme are just good in hiding it.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
15 Jun 18
@sweetbaby88 Thank you, Rochelle.
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• Philippines
15 Jun 18
yes you are right! mostly good in hiding
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
14 Jun 18
Maybe they are not contented to one woman. Welcome to myLot! Enjoy your time here
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
15 Jun 18
@sweetbaby88 you're welcome
• Philippines
14 Jun 18
yeah maybe they are not contented.. thank you for welcoming me here :)
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
14 Jun 18
For much the same reasons, presumably, that women cheat.
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• India
14 Jun 18
Hello and welcome here on mylot. Men cheat and so women too.
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• Philippines
15 Jun 18
hi and thank you :)
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@bela360 (2006)
• Saint Lucia
15 Jun 18
Some cheat because their brains are like poop. Or they feel its ok to hurt women.
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• New Baltimore, Michigan
15 Jun 18
Men like variety. Why just drive the red car when you can drive the green car...and the yellow car...and the black car...and the silver car...and the gold car...and so on and so on and so on
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• Philippines
15 Jun 18
and why do they stick to t-bone steak.. why they want to taste another food
@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
15 Jun 18
Maybe they tend to do what is pleasing to both men and women themselves rather than what is pleasing to God....
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
14 Jun 18
I'm not sure but maybe if one person get values when he is small these nasty things won't happen.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
14 Jun 18
For the same reasons women do I suppose. They can't control their lust for a pretty/handsome face. Or it could be something missing in their relationship. Don't tag ALL men/women as cheaters.
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• Philippines
14 Jun 18
I agree with you ??
@sh2ker (503)
• Bury, England
14 Jun 18
I would imagine boredom.Relationships can become boring and predictable.I would imagine it is an attempt to recapture the excitement of first meeting someone.Not that I condone cheating or would do it.Though this is what I’ve heard.
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• Philippines
14 Jun 18
yes maybe one of the reason
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
17 Jun 18
I always ask myself why do pets cheats.
@reskyyandi (3608)
• Indonesia
18 Jun 18
And I always ask myself, why do women likes to playing victim?
• Indonesia
18 Jun 18
By the way, welcome to mylot. Also try to response other discussion as well.
@Peach10 (1920)
17 Jun 18
It's not only men who cheat even women do. It's really hard on the other party concerned and reasons may vary like no real love exist but only lust so you see we just have to move on and find someone who will stick with us.
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
16 Jun 18
Maybe because something is missing in the relationship.
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
16 Jun 18
@kepweng yes maybe there is no spark anymore.
14 Jun 18
I'm not sure, but I also don't know why women cheat either. Zizek offers an interesting take on why people cheat
Slavoj Žižek discusses the 21st century fear of falling in love.
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