Strict Parents

@chicnthin (3031)
Philippines
June 17, 2018 7:22pm CST
I grew up with a strict parents. I have to admit that it was kind of annoying but lately i've realized that it is their way to discipline me. Which I'm glad that they did. I wouldn't be the person that I am now without their guidance. And I'm thankful for that. Now, they are not as strict as they used to, maybe because they have trust in me. Do you have strict parents?
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@NJChicaa (120074)
• United States
18 Jun 18
Yes I had strict parents and that is why I got excellent grades in school, went to college, and now have a good job, own a house, etc. They wouldn't tolerate any garbage and I'm glad for it. Parents who spoil their children and enable them. . . they wind up with losers for kids.
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@NJChicaa (120074)
• United States
18 Jun 18
@chicnthin Nope. Spoiling them isn't a good thing. Trust me.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
Parents have differents way to discipline and raise a child. Maybe those parents who spoil their child is their way to show that they love them. Although too much is never been good.
@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
@NJChicaa i see what you're pointing in, and I agree with that.
@rakski (125892)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
Yes, somehow and I am also thankful for that.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
Yeah they are just trying to discipline us.
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@rakski (125892)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
@chicnthin true. My grandma was strict on us
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
@rakski you're lucky you were able to experience the love coming from a grandmother
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
That's good that despite finding them that way, you are appreciating them. Some children aren't like that and it is sad that they defy their parents' strictness and go wayward because of not being obedient to what they like them to be.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I always obey them, ofcourse on what i think is right. I just think that they are doing what they think is the best for me. Maybe some child have really strict parents in which they couldn't do what they want to do. Luckily, my parents learn to trust me.
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@Shavkat (140110)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
Yes, my parents do during the younger years. They just want us to focus more on our studies.
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@Shavkat (140110)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I know, and I understand that. They want the best for us.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
18 Jun 18
We had freedom!! But they knew when 2 draw the line!!!!
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
That is good. They know how to balance it.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
18 Jun 18
Yeah my dad is very strict ..and friendly one too
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
Thats good to know that he knows how to balance it.
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@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
18 Jun 18
Yes, I don’t think people realize how thankful they should be for their parents discipline until they grow up and have children of their own. That’s when they realize that discipline is necessary, and it’s really hard to be a good parent.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
There is no perfect parent, they have flaws as well but to raise a child is a hard thing to do. People need to be greatful and must stop being a rebel
@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
18 Jun 18
My parents were strict about certain things but not everything. Good manners and etiquette were of utmost importance.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
True. They only want the best for us. They let us do what we want with their guide and advice that they could give to us.
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