HOW DOES SHE THINK WOULD I REACT?
@ilovemyhubby (429)
China
June 18, 2018 9:14pm CST
If she has insulted my parents.
~ Just yesterday,my aunt message me and she was badmouthing my parents for unreasonable things(i am sorry,it is very confidential so i cannot mention it specifically. ) I am my parents child, so it was really hurt in my part. I can't just stand it knowing that my parents is being insulted by her.she is so pathetic because she puts all the blame to my parents since she's afraid to confront this other people and she even told me that don't act so proud, I don't know why does she think of me that way, so in other words, I answered back and defend myself and my parents.
they are more favored than us, yet they still want to pinch us.
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8 responses
@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
19 Jun 18
@cintol you're right too. yes, sometimes we answered back and argue with them but other people not even those powerful has the right to insult or badmouth them, As I felt then, I could not help but cry. It really hurts me.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
19 Jun 18
@ilovemyhubby I understand, those are your parents, they protect you and you protect them. Its what we do. My uncle used to badmouth my dad so I told him if he couldn't say anything nice, not to call or talk to me at all. He stopped talking about my dad
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@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
20 Jun 18
@cintol you've done it right. Me, I really hate creating such scenario because I always think, at the end of the day we still see each other and in time we'll get back to normal and that would be awkward, but, my uncle's wife, exceeds her limit.
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@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
And don't let others judge or belittle you because they don't like your parents. Sometimes children are caught in the fight between parents and relatives even if children are innocent about it. I hope everything will be ok between your parents and your aunt.
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@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
19 Jun 18
@neelia If I did not stand for my parents, it is possible but now it's different.
I hope so, but it takes time. Thank you!
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
Even without you telling I could sense it's about money, most family problems are rooted on money and at times inheritance. I would cut off ties temporarily if I were you to cool it down but pray for her as well.
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@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
19 Jun 18
@louievill well, it's something like that but quite far from the situation. but you're right,.everything can be solved by help of God through prayer..Thank you![em]
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
19 Jun 18
I understand family drama, trust me.
I am sorry that yoiur aunt is acting in this way and you had every right to defend your parents. I hope that this tense moment will blow over.
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@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
19 Jun 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum yes, it is very common.
I really hope so. Thank you!
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
any child would feel and do exactly as what you did. It's not righteous for other people to bad mouth our parents.
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@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
19 Jun 18
@sw8sincere yes,you're right. I can accept no matter how much of it but just don't do it with my parents,I won't really tolerate it. I can be the most wicked of all.
@ihasaquestion (8275)
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11 Jul 18
Many a times, I get people slurring and swearing against my parents each time they want to vent their anger at me. I always say, my parents don't deal with them so why badmouth my parents like that. Anyway, if their upbringing allows them to say derogatory remarks against my parents, I have nothing else to say.
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@deba12 (2946)
• India
19 Jun 18
There are some people who are interested in torturing others. Let them say what they want. But as you said they are blaming your parents and you have opposed it, you did the right thing. But don't let their words occupy your thoughts. Ignore them.
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@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
19 Jun 18
@deba12 yes,you're right. knowing that they are ahead of others, they take this opportunity to humiliate them, which is not right. No matter what is our status in life, we still have the right to be treated right. I am getting over now.
Thanks a lot
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
19 Jun 18
Time to cut the family ties I think. You don't need anyone badmouthing you or your parents. 
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@ilovemyhubby (429)
• China
19 Jun 18
@Starmaiden thank you for your concern but I hope we won't go that way. I already defended my parents and made them realize what they have done to them, I think i've done enough too. I just hope that it would serve them a lesson but, if for the second time, that would really be time to cut family ties.
but I hope we won't go that way. I already defended my parents and made them realize what they have done to them, I think i've done enough too. I just hope that it would serve them a lesson but, if for the second time, that would really be time to cut family ties.1 person likes this
