No energy or motivation
@GardenGerty (161940)
United States
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
We eliminated a prescription and an OTC that he chooses to take as they may interact. He says he is better this morning, but not 100% yet.
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@much2say (56970)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Jul 18
@GardenGerty Oh - but it's good that he's better . . . hopefully by eliminating the possible culprits, he is on the road to 100%!
@marlina (154129)
• Canada
9 Jul 18
@GardenGerty That's a bit of a good news. Maybe it will show better in a few days,.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
8 Jul 18
No, not really. I am afraid we may be on a long road. OR he could be having problems with some of his prescriptions.
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@rebelann (113175)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 18
I'm so sorry @GardenGerty I hope things get better for both of you soon.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
@rebelann He is better but not 100 % this morning. He hates feeling like an invalid.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
We are leaving off some medication as we think it causes the problems.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
@GardenGerty I suppose it's with the doctor's advise that you are leaving off some medications?
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
8 Jul 18
I know that you have some worries as well. I think there may be quite a few of us.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
@jaboUK I was not even elderly the first time around. With my dad and his wife, her family is caring for her and my brother is caring for him. They are not able to be together at this time.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
9 Jul 18
@GardenGerty Yes, and have you noticed that with elderly couples it's usually the woman who looks after the man, not the other way round?
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
Somewhat better. We will talk with the doctor today. I know some of this could be side effects from his meds for his heart.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
11 Jul 18
@DianneN
Getting off of some meds.
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@DianneN (247183)
• United States
9 Jul 18
@GardenGerty Good to hear and I hope the doctor can help even more.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
9 Jul 18
@GardenGerty
How is he now? What happened about the job?
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
11 Jul 18
@Hannihar When I printed out all the side effects for his four prescriptions we saw more that we had not attributed to medicine, but it is. The doctor has discontinued two of them. He had a yearly physical yesterday with some blood tests as well so we will see how he is really doing.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
11 Jul 18
@GardenGerty
I hope it will go well. Please let us know here. I am interested in knowing.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
Today is better for us, I hope for you as well.
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@rakski (130961)
• Philippines
9 Jul 18
@GardenGerty Aw. At least you are okay and better than him. You will take care of him.![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
8 Jul 18
He is napping. I need to earn some online money and do a major cleaning and organizing, but my mind just will not stay focused.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
@sallypup There are tons of online promises, but also some tutoring and call center jobs.
@sallypup (62625)
• Centralia, Washington
8 Jul 18
@GardenGerty Good luck on earning money on line.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
We are working hard toward that result.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
8 Jul 18
I am hoping that mainly it is side effects from some of his prescriptions. He has been having certain problems since May.
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@Icydoll (36716)
• India
8 Jul 18
@GardenGerty oh then you have once consult doctor ..then change medication for him.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
8 Jul 18
Ohh I am so sorry to hear that. Hopefully he will be fine soon
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@Kasjnak (4489)
• Romania
9 Jul 18
I think you should do something to get out of this mood. You can't really help if you worry too much, it's not good for you... neither for him. I hope these problems dissapear fast, I've been through some health problems with my loved ones and positive thinking did wonders for us all. Take care, hopefully you'll both feel better soon
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
I have taken care of one husband, who ended up dying. This one has been sick off and on for a year and a half. I cannot make him think positive, but we can think about solutions.
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@Kasjnak (4489)
• Romania
9 Jul 18
@GardenGerty I can understand that. Your situation is indeed not that common and I'm really sorry you had to go through this kind of ordeals. I can't do much and no one here really can, but I'm sure everyone here prays for you and they are sending their best thoughts. And so am I, I really hope things get better for both of you
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@allknowing (140088)
• India
9 Jul 18
Good you know your worrying will not help your hubby but it is easier said than done. Do try and handle it the best way you can.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
He is somewhat better this morning. We think we know what is causing the problems.
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@RasmaSandra (82219)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jul 18
Hope he feels much better soon. I just settled in Daytona Beach Florida in my friend's house. I am on the second floor but they are all downstairs and everyone is coming down with some kind of virus. I am staying well clear of them.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
I hope you stay well. You are likely to catch everything that comes along until you get some exposure to stateside germs. I am glad you are settling in.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
9 Jul 18
I hope all is well with him soon.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
Thank you, I hope so too. The things that are happening seem to be very scary and involve bleeding. Which is why we think some of the trouble is from the warfarin he takes.
@andriaperry (118052)
• Anniston, Alabama
9 Jul 18
I hope he feels better now. I have to mow here too.
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@GardenGerty (161940)
• United States
9 Jul 18
I did not mow. It is morning and I will still not mow, there is some billing issues with the clinic where he got his cancer treatments, over a year ago. We are going IN PERSON to deal with this. It is the second goof up of this nature this year.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Jul 18
Try to have a pleasant rest of your day.
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