How do you feel about marriage today?
@Raybowja (21)
July 14, 2018 8:23pm CST
This generation isn't engaging in marriage like the older generation. We are untrustworthy, dishonest and deceitful,living in this world today. Do you trust what the world says about marriage"living together as a way of not committing to one another,to escape the responsibility of taking care of a wife, husband"or children.We are not guided by the spirit of God,Who knows best God or man?.
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@thislittlepennyearns (62103)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
15 Jul 18
I don't think marriage is for everyone. Ive been committed to the same man for 5 years. We love each other and have been through more.than most married couples. I don't need a piece of paper to know that he loves me.
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
15 Jul 18
@Raybowja I find your comment quite insolent. I think the member @thislittlepennyearns is capable of deciding for herself how she wants to live.
Good for you that you know the way to heaven, but you shouldn't preach to other members who haven't asked for it.
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@stapllotik (1933)
• India
15 Jul 18
@Raybowja nice post. What do you call those people who enjoys their singlehood sleeping with so many partners and also get success in marriage?
@Raybowja (21)
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15 Jul 18
Marriage isn't going to work if you go by your own understanding. If you be guided my God's word then you and your spouse will have a happier married if you believe and trust God's word and apply it to your life.
@Raybowja (21)
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19 Jul 18
O so sorry i hope one day you will get married and be able to have children we just have to pray to God that you will carry a child full term. I had a miscarriage too,and often wonder if it was a girl. I have 3 son's and no girls so i spoil my grandchildren the girls.
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@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
15 Jul 18
I have an experience in relationships and living together. It was good. After two partners, I have a husband now. I trust myself, it means that I will never let him do something bad for me or my family. And I am 24 y.o. Maybe the youth you communicate with is silly or untrustworthy, but there are many smart and thoughtful people in the world, just change your circle
@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
15 Jul 18
@Raybowja I am not interested in "some people." The majority is good. I have a decent religious education
@Raybowja (21)
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15 Jul 18
@MashaVickina. I am so happy you are educated in the word i just wish everyone were. I know what you mean I'm not married either. I was supposed to be married to this guy and the day after we got married,a friend from his home town came over and told me," you know he has a wife in Georgia" I was shocked because he told me he never been married. So i called the court house in Georgia and asked about his marriage there and they said to write a letter to get the information about his marriage so i did and he was married. So i got a divorce. I never married anyone else. After i became a Christian i learned about marriage and that is why im not married today because everyone can't get married a second time. Som people don't know the truth so if God send some one my way that's a Christian and marriage able i may consider ir again but until then i will remain single.
@Raybowja (21)
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15 Jul 18
I never said all people are guided my wordly lust. There are real people who actually do engage in marriage that is good. But some people engage in marriage and they are married to some one else husband or wife and they don't know these things did you know that. Information in the bible please study.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
17 Jul 18
I'm not getting married because there aren't enough rich virgins around and I hate doing dishes.
@Raybowja (21)
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19 Jul 18
Hey if you don't want to get married that is fine. Im kinda set in my ways too. I was looking for a husband but as time went on the older i get the less likely i will engage in marriage,unless I'm smitten by love and he is able to marry,and yes i hate doing dishes too.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
16 Jul 18
We should not marry for "fear of God", but because we feel that we trust the person we want to live with and we are ready to give them our love, our patience and our trust. I know many NON married couples that are hundred times better than those married just to please their families and to appear "perfect" in the eyes of people.
@Friendlypink (3805)
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15 Jul 18
My marriage to be honest is so so. I am okay if we are together or end up living separately. But honestly I am not inlove anymore. I dont feel beautiful I don't feel myself, but I can live like this but I don't know until when. I guess it is better to feel numb.
@Raybowja (21)
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15 Jul 18
Sorry to hear that you're not in love anyone. Some time our spouses don't treat us well i understand that well . I had one two. But i learned to trust God's word to guide my life not my own understanding If i every get married again i know how to love my husband and to treat him well. The scriptures said love your wife as you love yourself if you love yourself you will know how to love your spouse give God knowledge a try maybe you will love yourself and spouse again.
@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
16 Jul 18
Some people do things that are pleasing to men and women themselves than what is pleasing to God...they walk by sight not on faith...by the way welcome to myLot..
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
15 Jul 18
Hello! Welcome to myLot and hopefully you will enjoy your time here
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
15 Jul 18
@Raybowja you're most welcome and I am glad to hear that you are enjoying here. Happy mylotting!
@ruthokemwa (121)
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16 Jul 18
Marriage is sacred but people no longer respect it.Try just take it for fun.No one is to be trusted either a man or woman..