So my question is do you get someone to talk about the actual rape or just leave it alone. I am not a counselor but I am trying to help as much as possible. If anyone counsels could you please send me a message.
i also have not basis for comparison. Any traumatic event must be approached carefully, and pushing for answers will drive them away. I think the best thing to do, is to be a friend and that will lead to them confiding in you