He ended his life

Philippines
July 19, 2018 2:01pm CST
Some one told me a few days ago but one of the former mylotters here had committed suicide. There was news about it's not in english and it was just a message from his friends. I didn't really know him that much. But when I search his last post it was about a family problem. Didn't think it was that serious at the time. Maybe if he had only share this problems lately, we might have talk to him, at least here.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
19 Jul 18
In fact,I just had a discussion about him with @vandana7 who also come up with a post about him. He was a brilliant young man about 38 year old and well educated too.He was working as Asst.Professor after his Doctorate. From his posts I gathered that he was a ardent animal lover and was in a love affair with a girl. From his posts it looks that he was not sure if he would be happy after te marriage. He was a person living in his own world and couldn't take it when practical things have started smashing his dreams. for such people everything in life is Utopian and they have their own kind of self esteem which can be evidently seen in his discussions! Poor man couldn't adjust between the practical life and a dream life! This is just my observation and opinion! May be I am wrong! May his Soul rest in peace!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
19 Jul 18
@kepweng , he was from my country India!
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
19 Jul 18
@kepweng , No dear he was from India!
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
You know I didn't made this post when I found out from another mylotter because I know some one was going to make a topic out of it @AKRao24 but I just couldn't find the post. Thanks for letting me know.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
19 Jul 18
that's very sad may I know his name ? May his soul rest in peace
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
19 Jul 18
He was Shibham, just you can search for him here dear friend @Icydoll
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• Philippines
19 Jul 18
He was from your country, I didn't know him that pretty well @Icydoll
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
20 Jul 18
@AKRao24 yeah I had searched.. looking like very old mylotter .that's really sad ..
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
19 Jul 18
I am sure everyone here is willing to give advices if he ever tried to post a discussion generally and not take it as his own. I know Mylot can be a friend and family to everyone who needs it. Life is precious....May he rest in peace.
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• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Unfortunately, his last past was three years ago, the year mylot stopped paying and almost every one left the site @chavezrmc
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
21 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015 I see, I hope somehow we can be of help to fellow users here just giving our positive opinion on everything that we respond to. We may never know if that can be of help to everyone's thinking.
• United States
19 Jul 18
Yes. I commented on that post on FB too and I thought it was very sad. I am not sure that we would have been able to help him but we would have certainly tried. Of course we can never tell when a person feels so badly that they end their life. A person with that much sadness in them is very good about hiding it from others as they feel as if it is a burden they should carry on their own.
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• Philippines
19 Jul 18
Yeah, we had to find out from some one else if they have passed on or not @ScribbledAdNauseum which is even sadder.
• United States
19 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015 Yes and I believe they found out by the news in their country. It has shocked us all as I remember them being friendly and happy.
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• Philippines
19 Jul 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum I wanted to watch it and know it ended that way. It was so shocking because he was a family.
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20 Jul 18
That is so sad. I hope he open up here so we can atleast comfort him and enlighten him. It is sad. Really.
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• Philippines
21 Jul 18
Hello @Friendlypink He won't be doing that anymore, he was not around for a long time.
@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
19 Jul 18
Oh my God ! May he rest in peace.
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@snowy22315 (182257)
• United States
20 Jul 18
I am sorry to hear that. It is always difficult for those left behind.
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@snowy22315 (182257)
• United States
21 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015 Yes, that is tough..not sure why people do such things..when they have young children. I guess he felt he had run out of options.
• Philippines
21 Jul 18
Hello @snowy22315 most specially for their child he left behind.
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@rakski (126114)
• Philippines
19 Jul 18
that is such a sad news to hear.
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• Philippines
20 Jul 18
It was really sad for all of us here @rakski
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@just4him (317245)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Jul 18
That is so sad he did that, and didn't find this as an outlet he could come to.
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• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Sadly, he wasn't active since mylot stopped paying back in 2013. Some one should have helped or at least encourage him to go back to mylot @just4him
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@just4him (317245)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015 Yes, I agree.
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@Shiva49 (26779)
• Singapore
20 Jul 18
That is indeed sad, taking this extreme step - siva
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• Philippines
21 Jul 18
Hello @Shiva49 I'm sure it must have taken a lot before he made that decision. but if only he had on open.
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@Shiva49 (26779)
• Singapore
21 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015 Agreed, I have had my moments of despair but then it is up to each of us to soldier on. I read in obituaries the line "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." We should not lose our will to live especially when we leave a child behind - siva
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
19 Jul 18
Sad to know about it. Maybe he was too depressed.
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• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Hello @acelawrites That was a possibility, he had a wife and kids.
@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
20 Jul 18
that is so sad, he was quite young
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• Philippines
21 Jul 18
Hello @nela13 Yeah, he should have been mature before committing such act..It's the first time I've known a mylotter die like this.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Jul 18
Very sad. Was that problem so serious?
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• Philippines
20 Jul 18
I don't know what was the problem exactly, @dya80dya but I'm certain he gave in.
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
20 Jul 18
Ohh that's very sad and heart- breaking news. May he rest in peace..
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• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Hello @Jessabuma well, nothing we can do to help, except probably pray for him.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
20 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015 yes, that's right..
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
27 Jul 18
but most of the people who are in this pain and in this struggle with their pains and troubles usually will keep it to themselves. As i have personally been such a heartbreaking struggle in my life i have many many thoughts going on in my mind and there was a time that i considered ending my life too. I felt no one would understand me anyway so i kept it to my self. I felt people will only judge me with the pain i feel and will belittle it. I guess that is the same for other people having troubles. I really wish and hope we can pray for them and if noticed, comfort these people without asking what is wrong, just make them feel good and it will make a huge difference.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
11 Aug 18
Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I am a long time poster in here and I have seen a lot of post in here maybe I came upon his posts. I am just sad that he ended his life. I just wish that he will find peace where he is right now. It’s no use blaming him because he has his own reasons why and I respect that.
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
22 Jul 18
I am so sorry to hear this. Prayers for his family.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
25 Jul 18
This is a very sad news. May his soul rest in peace.
@Sojourn (13837)
• India
19 Jul 18
So sorry to hear that..... may his soul rest in peace.... Is his profile still around here?
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• Philippines
19 Jul 18
yeah his profile was still here @Sojourn I can't image what happened to the others. So many have left mylot three years ago. @Shibham 's last post was three years ago and it wasn't clear to me.