Should we continue being helpful to strangers when some are not so friendly?

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Sometimes I go out shopping and as I go by those who look like they are having difficulty reaching for something and are apparently disabled, I ask if they need assistance. Usually, in most cases, the stranger is glad to get some help. So for that I continue being helpful to others. But, today I was shopping at a Kroger store and when going outside to find a shopping cart, I saw a courtesy clerk, who was trying to push a row of about 8 shopping carts and seemingly doing it with difficulty. I grabbed the front of the carts and attempted to assist but was met with opposition. The lady pushing the carts insisted she did not want my help. Twice was all it took. The first time I was about to stop helping but when she said it a second time, I realized she was opposing my help. I withdrew my help and let go of the cart and as she struggled to push those carts into the lobby, she was going in at the wrong angle and had even more difficulty trying to turn all of the carts to the left at about a 90 degree angle. For what it was worth, I later finished helping my wife with her shopping and we both walked out together, but as we exited, I noticed that same courtesy clerk in the cart lobby. I looked up at her as I walked out and said to her, "Have a nice day." She seemed non responsive and was looking down at the ground as if ignoring what I was saying. So, I felt like she might be having a bad day or maybe was told not to allow customers to help her. For that reason I understand perfectly. But although I sometimes get rejected for offering help to others, I really think I should continue doing what I feel in my heart is the right thing to do, and that means I must continue to be a helpful person because I know that is what God would expect of me. And every day you will find people who oppose you for whatever personal reasons and will not want help of any kind from you and they may become angry for you trying to help them as they have pride and they have troubles of their own. Don't let it worry you and don't decide to begin acting just the same way as they do, because, to be a better example, continue to be a courteous person to strangers because that is the right thing to do. I know it can be hard at times and sometimes you can get mud in your face, but better to be as good a person as you can, rather than to give in to trying to do to others as only a few do towards you. It's hard sometimes, I know but at the end of the day, you will sleep much better at night.