Who do you rely on when in trouble

@Berrygal (5834)
August 5, 2018 10:52pm CST
We have our different ways of dealing with nerve wrecking situations and most times we might just need a shoulder to cry on,it will give us the needed relief. I depend a lot on my parents especially my mum when I need someone to help. Who do you reply on or do you think it better to sort it out within one's self and if so,why?
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
6 Aug 18
When I needed someone to help when I was a kid I depended a lot on my parents. Now I can depend a lot on my hubby.
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@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
That's right it good that way
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@augusta123 (6649)
6 Aug 18
I depend on God
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@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
that's right
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
6 Aug 18
Having stayed alone on the farm and being head of the family I learned how to keep my head balanced when a nerve wrecking situation arises! I keep myself composed and by keeping cool I try to get the solution for the problem! Thanks!
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
7 Aug 18
@Berrygal , Yes I am now habituated to it!
@Berrygal (5834)
7 Aug 18
good one ride on
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• Philippines
6 Aug 18
I just solve it myself. Im shy to share my feelings to my parents and aside from that, i dont want them to be bothered in anything.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
if you can solve it then good
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
6 Aug 18
I also have the same attitude. I dont want to burden my mom with my problems especially if I can handle it. I know she has wnough problems of her own
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• Philippines
7 Aug 18
@yoalldudes good to know that
@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
6 Aug 18
When my Mother was alive I'd definitely depend on her. Now she's gone, I deal with things on my own.
@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
7 Aug 18
@Berrygal Thanks! Life goes on. My colleague suggested to start a journal, since being alone now. This helps too.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
you will be fine
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7 Aug 18
Me, myself and I. I don't trust anyone, except highly trusted ones.
@Berrygal (5834)
7 Aug 18
better if you can resolved it all
7 Aug 18
@Berrygal Sure, all would like that, wouldn't they?
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
6 Aug 18
I wish I have my parents to rely on but I don't have them. I mostly sort things out on my own because I'm just so used to doing that and I think that when I ask other people I'm sort of bothering them and I don't want to bother anybody.
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
6 Aug 18
@Berrygal It always goes well for me.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
if dealing alone goes well then that's fine
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
6 Aug 18
Most of the time I will rely on myself. The bad news are that even through sometimes I manage to solve the situations, I only barely do so without too much leeway left. The good news are that I don't owe anyone favour.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
great for you all the same
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• Russian Federation
6 Aug 18
My husband and me. My parents become older, so I try to make them calm always
@Berrygal (5834)
7 Aug 18
Way to go
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@deba12 (2946)
• India
6 Aug 18
I rely most on my mom when in trouble. She is a bit nervous kind of person though. But to see her face makes me relax.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
mums can be so helpful
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
6 Aug 18
I rely on God...literally. He is the only One that has ever been there for me. When I had really bad anxiety, I would calm myself by talking to God. He "rocked me to sleep" most nights, you could say. He has helped to get me through many challenges in all aspects of my life. There is no one else.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
God's faithful at all times
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6 Aug 18
If it's something emotional, I depend on God for comfort but in case of earthly things, I mostly depend on myself and at times my family members.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Aug 18
family can be helpful
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
6 Aug 18
You are lucky you can open up to your mom. I have learned to rely on myself and toughen up.
@Berrygal (5834)
7 Aug 18
yea I do