Why are married people still looking at somebody else besides their spouse ??

United States
August 27, 2018 9:35am CST
When married people look at somebody attractive besides their spouse, what does it mean ? This is "just a discussion", I am not starting an argument here or putting out any jealousy issue
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
27 Aug 18
It means that he's a healthy male with a normal appetite. If it bothers you, then it's almost certain that it's you that has the problem - with unfounded jealousy. Better deal with that first because it makes most men want to look elsewhere.
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• United States
27 Aug 18
I don't have any unfounded jealousy. I am confident with what I am :-) Thank you :-)
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
27 Aug 18
@proseprity68 I was speaking in general, of course, not in particular. As JJ said, many women do the same!
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@Janet357 (75646)
28 Aug 18
@proseprity68 they still look for other women or men because infidelity is in their blood. and i believe this is abnormal. and should not be tolerated. cheating is a sin in the eyes of man and God.
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@Meramar (2695)
27 Aug 18
When people get married, they usually don't get blind. Who doesn't look at another person, when he or she is beautyfull? The important point is, that our attitud is limited to have a look, but don't become unfaithful.
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@Meramar (2695)
27 Aug 18
@proseprity68 Thinking before acting may avoid many bad decisions!
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• United States
27 Aug 18
I agree with what you are saying. Knowing one's limitation is really very important. Knowing the consequences of an action or decision should stop the person from giving into what he or she is thinking.
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@yecall (208)
• United States
27 Aug 18
I think it's normal
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@1creekgirl (41424)
• United States
28 Aug 18
I think that men especially are designed to enjoy looking at an attractive woman. It doesn't mean he's going to be untrue to his mate.
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@genpius (466)
• Nigeria
28 Aug 18
Lol, as long as people remain as matter(science) the eye will always see them. A spouse looking shouldn't be an issues but making a move more than looking should be the issue
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@moichan (666)
• Philippines
28 Aug 18
I think it's okay to appreciate beauty but not to the extent that he'll flirt. I'm very much confident on how i look and how i am as a wife and mom to our kids. I'm not the jealous type.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
27 Aug 18
Well there’s many reasons why I can’t spill them all out in here but I could mention a few. Most common is men’s appetite for more adventures in his married life. Infidelity starts when men give in to the call of their biological urges. I am not saying this as the truth but it is what is commonly happening in marriage that encounters problem in their marriage.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
27 Aug 18
It's natural to look but if it goes beyond that then it means they are selfish, unkind and unloving!
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
27 Aug 18
It's but natural to appreciate beauty, married or whatever.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
27 Aug 18
That's a reaction, kinda when I see icecream!!! I left a guy on a date once for looking at other girls!!!
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@Kandae11 (54999)
27 Aug 18
Because they have wandering eyes.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
27 Aug 18
Well I do not believe that looking at other people ever stops.
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