Loaded but lonely.
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (54986)
August 30, 2018 8:39am CST
Maybe it is because I am not in that position, but I can't imagine myself having loads of money and being unhappy or lonely - but I guess it all adds up to what the individual wants from life.
There are women out there who appear to have everything - husband, houses, cars, kids, and loads of money to spend - yet complain that hubby is always busy with his job , and is hardly ever around. Some have even divorced because of this.
What would be your choice? Would you rather have a husband whose 9 to 5 job barely covers expenses , but he is home every night or one who is rich and always on the go? Same question for men whose wives or partners hold the top position.
Would you be lonely with loads of money? I don't think I would.
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@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
31 Aug 18
Oh come on Alfredo--tell the truth. You are Mike's boy toy and he keeps you! (I'm just jealous!)
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@LadyDuck (471217)
• Switzerland
30 Aug 18
I know a woman like the ones you describe. She has plenty of money to spend, a beautiful apartment in the center of the city, a house by the sea and she complains because his husband is always busy at work. When he is at home she complains because she is not free do to what she likes. I think that some people only like to complain.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
31 Aug 18
What is the point of having money if the woman I love is never there? So, I'd rather just be scraping by but be together with the woman I love a lot. 
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@Kandae11 (54986)
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31 Aug 18
@hopefulman. You are correct - that would not be the ideal situation when one is in love.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
30 Aug 18
as long as you have access to the money and you're not forbidden to do your own thing. if you're only given enough and forbidden to go out, or strictly escorted, maybe for security reasons, then it's like being in a golden cage.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
30 Aug 18
Better to be lonely and unhappy with money than lonely and unhappy without money.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
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30 Aug 18
that goes without saying - but in any event , I can't see myself being lonely and unhappy with money - unless like @hereandthere says - there are restrictions to my freedom.2 people like this
@proseprity68 (331)
• United States
6 Sep 18
The 2nd one could be the worst thing a person could ever be in.
I agree with what you said though, better to be lonely and unhappy with money, because when you have money you can either eat at your favorite restaurant by yourself. You can also watch a movie by yourself. You can also go on a vacation by yourself and enjoying the delicious food that you haven't tried.
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
31 Aug 18
Yeah Kandase that's why I chose to work with my wife in the same company
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@snowy22315 (180286)
• United States
30 Aug 18
I may have been in that position a time or two, but it depends on what you mean by "loaded" lol.
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
30 Aug 18
I think I would feel lonely and develop diseases of the rich, which I read are many
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
30 Aug 18
@Kandae11 I could eat all the good food that there is, that´s a good thing about being rich
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@Kandae11 (54986)
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30 Aug 18
@quantum2020 Yes indeed.,healthy food is expensive. In my country if the label says organic - you know it will be expensive. Apples and grapes are expensive too.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
31 Aug 18
You are right but at least you are having problem and loaded at the same time vs no money and still having a lot of problemw
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Aug 18
@Kandae11
Exactly. I have a cousin who married a wealthy man, they have a nice house and a service but they don't have their own kid, they only adopted her sister's child. At first, they are very happy because they have someone to look forward to every day because of the kid until they lack passion for their relationship because of the kid. They only both cared for the kid.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
31 Aug 18
Could we have a balance of both....The dream man
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
31 Aug 18
@Kandae11 he can go an earn...Lots and lots but still come back on time...(.Letting his able assistant sit on at the office)...And take me out to dinner and dancing.. .. he he he
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@Kandae11 (54986)
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1 Sep 18
@responsiveme If he lets his heart rule, if he is deeply in love - yes he will make the time to be with you.
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@lovebuglena (44504)
• Staten Island, New York
31 Aug 18
My hubby is pretty much always working and not a 9-5 either. He is not around much and I hate it.
I think a person can be loaded and still be lonely or unhappy if the person has no hubbies or interests and spends most of the time home and home alone. Or if the person doesn't know how to live/enjoy life or what to do with his/her money.
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@lovebuglena (44504)
• Staten Island, New York
31 Aug 18
@Kandae11 Or what to do with their money, which makes them unhappy. Or they are loaded and they spend all their money, which leads to their unhappiness.
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@aninditasen (16370)
• Raurkela, India
31 Aug 18
It's not a matter of money but responsibilities. Husbands holding a responsible post cannot give much time at home and wives have to accept it. Where loads of money is concerned, money comes along with responsibility and you have to accept that loneliness.
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@aninditasen (16370)
• Raurkela, India
4 Sep 18
@Kandae11 Yes, that's right but in India, top officials are not that rich.
@Kandae11 (54986)
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31 Aug 18
I agree with your point. If the husband's job requires that he spends time away - then so be it. He is providing for his family. If his rise to power and money came after they were married, then one can say she didn't know when she married him that he would have had so little time for her, but she would have to accept it if she wants to continue with a lifestyle of plenty.
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@arunima25 (87755)
• Bangalore, India
31 Aug 18
I would not like to be lonely. It is no use to have loads of money, if I don't have loved ones to spend it on.
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@arunima25 (87755)
• Bangalore, India
31 Aug 18
@Kandae11 That is a good idea. I do spend on needy people even now with my little saving. But I can't imagine a life without my family and friends. They are precious.
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