Is it true that people with anxiety or panic attacks can't be helped?

@dya80dya (36769)
September 10, 2018 1:31pm CST
Today somebody told me that I have to deal with anxiety by myself. He can't help me. He can't decide for me. He also told me that I have to overcome this problem alone. But what if I can't? I tried to overcome anxiety by myself, but I need help, I need support. People don't understand. Maybe they think I am crazy.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
10 Sep 18
@dya80dya I am sorry that you deal with anxiety! I am sure you are at least aware that you are not alone in this. Many people can overcome this solo but doesn't mean you HAVE to. There are many sources out there to help with anxiety. If you are someone who feels you need more support then I would suggest you look for it elsewhere and not whoever told you that you have to deal with it by yourself. I have no doubt that people do think people who suffer are crazy but that's usually because they have never faced these issues before. So they make really harsh remarks and ignore the ones who need help. Those, again, are the people I suggest you stay away from in regards to your issues. I have no idea your severity of your anxiety nor what gives you anxiety or your methods of trying to handle it but I am willing to throw myself out there for you if you ever wish to talk about things. Of course that is your decision but I only say because I am someone who suffers with quite a bit of what is labelled "mental illness" and Anxiety is one of them. It can get so bad to the point I start believing in things that haven't even happened. Or maybe won't ever happen. Or I have issues breathing. Heart rate goes too fast and hard. I must say, I admire you coming out telling your issue as well as asking for more support. That is not always easy for people to do so please pat yourself on the back for that! I am here, as well as many others. Please feel free to message me at any time, I am not trained but I have been getting support from professionals for quite some time now that I at least know some techniques. Wishing you the very best. Remember, you never have to be alone!
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• Perth, Australia
10 Sep 18
@dya80dya No worries at all. I look forward to your message. Just please remember again, that I am personally not trained in any of this but I am trained enough just by being a human. And I will let you know what I have been taught along with doing some more research for you. If something isn't working out for you, I will be here to keep trying. I also wont be letting anyone else know anything you tell me as I also understand that people, myself included do not like personal issues being thrown around as gossip. So I hope you will feel comfortable talking to me.
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@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
@VivaLaDani13 I messaged you.
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@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
Thank you so much! I will message you. I also believe in things that never happened or won't happen. My anxiety is severe. I can barely eat and drink water. I admire people like you. You want to help other people without even knowing them.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
10 Sep 18
Did you see a professional?
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@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
Yes. I visited four psychiatrists.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
10 Sep 18
@dya80dya That's good that you have seen them. You are not crazy. Don't pay heed to those people who say that you are crazy. Did those professionals suggest some kind of exercise like breathing exercises etc for anxiety?
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@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
@Daljinder Yes. They suggested breathing exercises and exposure therapy.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
10 Sep 18
Look for somebody else that will help.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
11 Sep 18
@dya80dya I hope you do find someone who can and will help.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
11 Sep 18
@dya80dya Is there a group of people that have the same situation that meets for mutual support in your area?
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@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
I will search. I don't know if I will find.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
11 Sep 18
That's not true. People with anxiety of panic attack can be helped through therapy and medication.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
12 Sep 18
@dya80dya Whic therapy did you go through?
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@dya80dya (36769)
12 Sep 18
@shubhu3 Cognitive behavioral therapy.
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@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
I tried both, but the problem is still there.
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep 18
Two words for you...beta blockers. They work for me maybe they would for you
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep 18
@dya80dya I take them for irregular heart beat but they've been shown to help anxious people...I had panic attacks and they've stopped now.
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@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
@Mike197602 And did you take other meds? I have irregular heart beats. And many times I feel pain in my heart or chest pain, even if doctors say that the heart is healthy.
@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
I haven't tried them until now.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
10 Sep 18
Is it a medical professional a doctor saying this? You should have medicine to help. I feel the professional is not helping.
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@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
No. He wasn't a doctor. I take medication. It helps, but it's not enough. I feel sleepy all day. I am young and I have to live sedated. Some people drink coffee in the morning and I have to take sedatives in the morning.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
10 Sep 18
@dya80dya I wish they would prescribe a good medicine that would not leave you sedated so much.
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@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
@Courage7 They prescribed an antidepressant. But it increases my anxiety. I need sedatives. I don't know why they prescribe antidepressants for anxiety.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Sep 18
you can be help there.I was.Are you on medication there to help you some relief
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Sep 18
@dya80dya Is this helping you there?
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@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
Yes. I am on medication.
@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
@amadeo Not too much.
@rakski (126056)
• Philippines
10 Sep 18
I think you need to go to a doctor. You need a professional to help you.
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@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
I went to 4 doctors.
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@rakski (126056)
• Philippines
11 Sep 18
@dya80dya and what did they tell you?
@NJChicaa (120143)
• United States
10 Sep 18
Go see a doctor. My psychiatrist put me on medication that totally stopped my panic attacks. Haven't had one in like 4 years.
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@dya80dya (36769)
10 Sep 18
I take medication.
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@aninditasen (16501)
• Raurkela, India
11 Sep 18
Meet a neurologist and get some medicine. A walk inhaling fresh air can also solve the problem.
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
11 Sep 18
Some doctors are not trained enough to deal with each and every case. Please see some professional who has already helped someone. Never let others judgments affect you, you will be fine.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
11 Sep 18
@dya80dya you are doing awesome I hope it works for you
@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
Thanks! I will try therapy once more.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
10 Sep 18
People with anxiety are helped every day with the right medical professional. Myself, for example. In 2012 I fell into a panic/anxiety attack that wouldn't leave. I lived that way (in total fear of the outside world) for two weeks until I realized it wasn't going away on its own. I went to my doctor, he gave me a form with a number of questions for me to answer, and from my answers he diagnosed General Anxiety Disorder. He put me on a medication, (Citalopram) which took another 4 to 6 weeks to begin working. Once it kicked in and started to work, I haven't had a problem with anxiety. Your friend is full of BS.
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@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
I take Escitalopram. You were so lucky. Do you still take medication?
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• Canada
11 Sep 18
@dya80dya Yes. I take 20mgs per day. (1 tablet) I am fortunate to not have to take more than that. I guess everyone is different.
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• Philippines
11 Sep 18
I have anxiety/panic attacks every now and then. Just two days ago, I woke up in the middle of the night (around 4 AM) feeling cold and sweaty, and my heart was racing. I was feeling scared/nervous without knowing the reason why. There are times when I am in the middle of something like (working online), then I would suddenly feel scared/nervous. I guess I need help but I don't want to take any medications for it because I am already taking a lot of maintenance medicines.
@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
11 Sep 18
I hope things are not so bad.
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@dya80dya (36769)
11 Sep 18
Unfortunately they are.
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@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
11 Sep 18
@dya80dya I am very sad, hope will be better.