How I wish I have a sister instead of Brothers.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 19, 2018 6:28am CST
Some of you know that I have 5 Brothers and I'm the only girl in the herd.
I remember Father shared something about us. I have a sister, supposedly she is the 3rd, but she died when she was 2 years old because of dehydration. Father's parents blame my Mother because she did not take care of my sister during those times. She thought it's just a fever.
I always wanted to have a sister so that she will be my best friend. While Father wanted to have a girl, he ends up having 5 boys instead and he called it magic 5. He was not lucky to have a girl next to me. So, he pours his love to me and I was his favorite.
Today, our youngest Brother hurt my feelings and I'm badly hurt.
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15 responses
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
@Starmaiden
Really? And how hard was it?
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
19 Sep 18
@JustBhem Mine used to beat me up when we were kids. 
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
19 Sep 18
When we were younger, we used to fight a lot. We're 7 girls and a boy. I am lucky to be the youngest. If you are fighting you will outgrow it for sure.
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
19 Sep 18
@JustBhem well things will be fine as you get older, believe me, I thought we will never be friends (my siblings) but we are now.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Sep 18
@Mavic123456
We have a hate-love relationship with my siblings.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
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19 Sep 18
I have three {and a half} brothers, but no sisters. I always wanted a bona fide sister - I have two stepsisters - but now i quite enjoy being the only girl.
We fought like very fighty things when we were growing up, but we're close now.
How old is your youngest brother?
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@Poppylicious (11133)
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21 Sep 18
@JustBhem Wow, you don't look 35! 25 surely?? He is young. I think 21 year olds these days are more immature and less savvy.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Sep 18
@Poppylicious
Yes, I am 35. Born in 1983. Yes, he is young but doesn't have a good taste of which one should take.
• Spain
19 Sep 18
I never had a sister nor a brother. How i wish I had both. But if I gotta choose, I'd still choose both hahahaha
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
Yes, she was irresponsible then because she did not watch my sister. That is why she was to blame.
Mother was so irresponsible even now, plus she is selfish, has a bad attitude, a gossiper and a lier too.
Yeah, and Mother was jealous of me because my I was my Father's favorite and not her.
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@popciclecold (39951)
• United States
19 Sep 18
I know how that can be. I hope you get over it soon.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
19 Sep 18
I hope you youngest brother would be nice to you again.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 18
I wish I had an elder sister. I have a younger brother.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
19 Sep 18
Hello Bhem it is indeed so good to have a sister. I am just glad that I have a sister with me and would you mind if i ask how come your youngest brother hurt your feelings?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
We always remind him that every time he wakes up he needs to cook rice so that we can just buy food outside. He always forgets it or I should say never mind it because when he wakes up, he will have his tab facing in front of him. He always prioritizes his transgender girlfriend who happens to work in Germany.
I was talking to him earlier and instead of giving me a good reason, he said something that makes me mad. He said that I always started the commotion every time when in fact I only just remind him.
He was influenced by his transgender girlfriend, he is not respecting us anymore.
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@freelancermariagrace (28886)
• Philippines
19 Sep 18
Hi, Bhem. It is true that it's nice to have an older or younger sister because you can share secrets with each other, borrow things (clothes, makeups), etc.
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@allknowing (142240)
• India
20 Sep 18
Strange that your brothers do that to you specially since you are their only sister.
