A Very Sensitive Pregnancy

@teltel (184)
September 21, 2018 7:57pm CST
So, after 8 years of marriage (and 7 yrs. of relationship prior to that), me and my husband was finally blessed to have our first baby! Of course, we're not just the ones excited but our whole family and even our friends as well! I was a happy preggo, until 1 day I saw pinches of blood after visiting the toilet, my doctor gave me medications for the baby to keep him on his position and I was advised to have a bed rest for a week. And it became 2 weeks to 1 month long. My employer was kind enough to just have me work at home online so we can assure the baby's safety. It was very scary because until the very last semester, there are still small patches of blood on my liners and it's not really a good sign. Sometimes, I would cry and ask God why this is happening. And as if I'm not yet frightened enough, 1 day I receive a call from my Father, he's not feeling well and his tone was completely different from the usual. I will write the whole story on my next post, but to give an idea how much painful it was, my Father passed away that month.. :( I started stress eating which is a big no-no specially during the 7th to 9th month as it will be difficult to deliver the baby normally when the mother is overweight. My mind wasn't really stable but with the help of prayers, and strictly following my doctors advise, I was able to give birth to a healthy baby boy! We nicknamed him after my late father, Bienvenido. We call him Baby Bien <3
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22 responses
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
22 Sep 18
I´m so sorry for your loss. And congratulations for the birth of your baby boy. Bienvenido means welcome is Spanish and it is the best name that baby could have
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
22 Sep 18
@teltel Having a healthy baby is a blessing. Enjoy.
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@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Wow, I got teary eyed! Thank you for telling me Marguicha~ That's so lovely!
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
23 Sep 18
Glad that you still welcomed Baby Bien despite the challenges
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@snowy22315 (182000)
• United States
22 Sep 18
I am so happy you had a healthy baby..what a blessing!
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@mesbakh (2284)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 18
i think it is a very good news for all. my wife was so sensitive when she was spregnant
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Congrats and huge respect to your wife and for you who kept by her side. Thank you so much!
@mesbakh (2284)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 18
@teltel it wa so hard. she had ceaser operation twice
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
@mesbakh that's more though and painful. I hope she and your kids are all well.
@rakski (125882)
• Philippines
22 Sep 18
Welcome! Congratulations for the baby. I am sorry for your loss
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@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
22 Sep 18
You lost someone but had someone to get back that smile.
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@pitstop (14044)
• Australia
22 Sep 18
Hope you find strength through the tumult and joy through your baby. God bless and enjoy parenthood.
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
I drowned myself with prayers when there's no one who can help me but myself. Thank you so much, pitstop! God bless you too!
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@pitstop (14044)
• Australia
22 Sep 18
@teltel I had a couple of major typos in my response. Didnt realise it didn't make sense.
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
@pitstop No worries, I got what you meant anyways ^_^ Thanks again!
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@allknowing (137597)
• India
23 Sep 18
That wait was worth it. Can imagine how patient you had to be to get that bundle of joy. Sorry about yoru father
@teltel (184)
23 Sep 18
You're right~ thank you so much, keep smiling! ^__^
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@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
22 Sep 18
How old is Bien now?
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
24 Sep 18
@teltel Take care of him. A mother's love is something he will treasure forever.
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@teltel (184)
24 Sep 18
@toniganzon I love what you said, thank you very much!
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@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
He just turned 1 last June~ ^_^
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
22 Sep 18
That is very common for women to have spotting through a pregnancy you probably has a small tear in the umbilical cord or the thinning of cervix those can leave you with spotting. Bed rest is the best so the doctor was spot on with that. It’s good that baby was born health that is what matters the most.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
24 Sep 18
@teltel your welcome! I’ve had some pretty hard pregnancy with my 3 kids
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Yes, I was really thankful for having a very nice and caring doctor. I heard about that and glad I surpassed. Thank you very much C!
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@Shavkat (140103)
• Philippines
22 Sep 18
Things happen for a reason. Congratulations for having your first baby.
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
I believe that, you're right! Thank you, Shavkat!
@Shavkat (140103)
• Philippines
26 Sep 18
@teltel No problem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Sep 18
Thank God, you are able to surpass those days. Your Father surely is happy of you and your baby.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Sep 18
@teltel Yes, prayer is powerful.
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@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Yes Bhem, it was hard. All I need was pray. Thank you so much!
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@sarik1 (7284)
22 Sep 18
congratulations great news. but please do not upset.please take care for you health and your baby. i understand that sad news for your father..
@sarik1 (7284)
23 Sep 18
@teltel That is good talk. and i will prayer to god for you and your baby health.everything will be all right.
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@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Thank you so much, Sarika. There are times pospartum strikes, but I just keep myself busy and pray. Thanks again!
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
22 Sep 18
Congrats for your new baby. Wish you both a healthy life full of happiness.
@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
23 Sep 18
@teltel The pleasure is all mine
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@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
That's so sweet, thank you Babes ^_^
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Sep 18
Congratulations on your first baby. I can feel your happiness.
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Oh wow, it's Skrillex! Thank you so much!
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@Kuttu_007 (1940)
• India
22 Sep 18
Wow... congratulations...
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Thank you!
@BloggerDi (3113)
• United States
22 Sep 18
You went through a very difficult time physically and emotionally. I'm sorry that you lost your father. Congratulations on your new baby!
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
It was very though and sometimes I want to give up already but I know my baby needs me, that's what matters most. Thank you so much, Diana!
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@Janet357 (75646)
22 Sep 18
Congratulations on that! Im not yet a mom but i have heard the difficulties mothers go through during pregnancy.
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Yes, huge respect for all the moms! Thank you, Janet!
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• Philippines
22 Sep 18
So happy to hear that, Tel. Congratulations!
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Thank you so much, Mary Grace!
22 Sep 18
Congrats on you baby an everything turning out OK in the end
@teltel (184)
22 Sep 18
Yes, so happy. Thank you Toniann!