When I let God to write my love story
By mayrah
@mayrah (1144)
United States
October 11, 2018 8:41am CST
So as I have promised, I am going to make a separate discussion on how I met my godly man. After being depressed for while. It didn't really take me a long time to be ready to start dating again. I don't know how I did it, but I knew at that time I have totally moved on from Johnny. I met few guys that are not really into me after breaking up with Johnny. Well God was with me all along, he was telling me that there is hope. I always remember this verse from Him. " For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future" That was meaningful to me and I know that God was talking to me through that verse. I appreciate how God answered all my prayers.
So eventhough I was at my lowest point at that time, I still manage to continue my life. I was working as nurse and imagine how hurt I was everytime a workmate or friend asked me about why my the wedding was put off. I didn't tell them that it was cancelled. But I have to inform them one by one that wedding was put off because I already sent invitation to them through social media. Good thing that my parents was very supportive to me and they want me to be happy again. They just let me stay inside my room after getting off from work. So I stopped communicating with Johnny and I accepted that it wasnt really god's will after all. Then I started chatting with guys again from the dating site.. I met Mark, He said he find me attractive but he was looking for someone who lives in the province. There was a specific province in the Philippines where he wants to retire. He said that he was involved in a project there and plan to live and retire there. I like that he is very honest and straightforward. So after three weeks of reactivating my profile I received a message from Bry, a cute and younger guy. At first I didn't take him seriously cause he look so young on his photo although he is about 40 y/o at that time and I was 35. I just thought that he would be able to find girls a lot younger than me. Later on Bry confessed to me that he doenst want a very young woman. He just want someone close to his age so they have something in common. He also said that I didn't come out of his matches in that dating site but he while was browsing, my profile kinda zoom in and all other women's profile kinda faded away. Then he noticed my profile pic where I was smiling while hugging my mom. He said that he likes my kind eyes. I became excited everytime I received a message from him. We started with talking about our work and hobbies. He told me that my career as a nurse is more than just a job its a calling. He also mention that he likes to stay healthy and that he was planning to get a rowing water machine for working out. And then one day he told me he wanted to talk on video. At first it was a lil adjustment for me since johnny talks clearer and slowlier than Bry. But bry has a good sense of humor and very interesting to talk to. We enjoyed talking everyday. He is a very thoughtful guy, like when I wasn't feeling well he was calling me on my phone and he doesnt mind about long distance charges just to make sure that I am okay. We kinda take things slow, we didn't force the relationship to happen. It just happened. Then around november he told me that he wanna see me soon, he said that he was planning to come on january 2018 and stay for a week. So he booked his flight around the end of november 2017 for the January 3-10 vacation. We were still videocalling everyday until the date of his arrival.
On his arrival date I was excited and a lil nervous cause I know that things might be different in person.
He told me he was wearing a coffee brown stripe buttoned shirt. So my dad was with me at the airport while waiting for him. Then for some reason Bry wasn't able to make a call or even go online using his data. I saw a tall cute guy standing beside the stairs on the airport. My dad told me it must be him, then I told dad, " no dad, he said was wearing a stripe not a checkered. Then a second later Bry was calling me and I was shocked that he was the same guy standing beside the stairs. I started to feel a lil nervous as we walk close to each other. He is so tall about 5'11 while I am only flat 5. But for him height doesnt matter. We were both physically attracted to each other. So we drop him off to his hotel which was just about less than one kilometer from our house. The whole week that he stayed in the Philippines, we were able to get to know each other more and we had so much fun being together. He also got sick because of the sudden changes of the environmental temperature. I took care of him and he was grateful about it. Then after five months he came back to the Philippines again to propose to me. Now we are engaged and waiting for our papers to get approved so he can marry me in the US. And I could say that Bry was the best among all the guys that I have ever met. When I let God write my love story it was well worth it. I love everything about Bry and he has all the qualities I am looking for in a husband. How about you guys? Would you consider joining a dating site to meet your soulmate?
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@mayrah (1144)
• United States
11 Oct 18
Thank you courage. God is so good to me. He didnt judge me with my past. About 5 years ago I was involve in a wrong relationship, I didn't know that the guy I was with has another gf and had a daughter with her. When I learned about his dark secret I chose to stay because of love. However I didn't have peace and I wasn't truly happy and that guy was 15 years older than me. I was trying to fight for that wrong love. If I didn't let him go I would not be found by an amazing man that I am with now. God was really amazing. He answered my prayer.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
11 Oct 18
@mayrah You learned to let go of the man who could not fulfill you. He was wrong for you. So I am happy now you have met this great guy and living in Gods light.
It is okay, we all have made mistakes in life. It is God´s forgiveness for us that we can depend on.
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
11 Oct 18
A detailed article but a very good one .
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@mayrah (1144)
• United States
11 Oct 18
Yes Lyp thanks for reading our love story. Yes I agree I never thought I would be this lucky. Cause he is not an ordinary guy for me. I know he is not perfect but he is supportive in everything. He is also like a bestfriend to me. I can tell him anything and he doesnt judge me
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@mayrah (1144)
• United States
11 Oct 18
@Freewings thank you so much. I appreciate that
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@Freewings (399)
• Xian, China
11 Oct 18
@mayrah I sincerely wish you two can go on happily forever.
@Christinedefensor (60)
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11 Oct 18
Indeed, a God-centered relationship is the most genuine relationship!
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