Does This Happen With Your Discussions Too?

@AKRao24 (27424)
India
October 16, 2018 8:12am CST
Sometime I devote lot of time in researching on a subject to prepare an interesting / informative discussion on Mylot. I subject it to spell check. I check the punctuations. I decorate with smileys. And expect a lot of responses for the discussion. But unfortunately many a times I don’t receive many responses to such discussion. On the contrary when I prepare a discussion, very casually and post it surprisingly I get many responses! It happens with you too? If so, what do you think the reason behind this?
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@josie_ (10032)
• Philippines
16 Oct 18
If I knew the exact formula for writing a post that attract a lot of response I could be making more in terms of earnings. It's a hit or miss process for me.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
Yes, you have got a point there dear friend! I think more than the discussion it is the confidence people have in you to get the response back from you many a times which attract the people to your discussion! May be I am wrong too?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
@Mavic123456 , That happens many a times! We get frustrated with such situations, no?
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
16 Oct 18
same here, i tried to be intellectual, funny, corny, it is still a hit and mostly a miss. i even put pictures
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
16 Oct 18
so now you know.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
Yes, of course... still you have doubts?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
20 Oct 18
@Mavic123456 , That is right, on the contrary we get more than expected people to interact with!
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
18 Oct 18
@AKRao24 so we will just put a discussion of whatever haha. at least if there will be a few responder we didn't waste much time creating/composing it.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
18 Oct 18
It has always been the case, some discussions that you judged "interesting" get very few responses and others get many responses with no reason for that.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
20 Oct 18
That is true....that is why I was keen to know , if any one can respond to satisfy my query!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
21 Oct 18
@LadyDuck , Yes, I believe that! Otherwise the people knowing this would have made a big earnings here!
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
21 Oct 18
@AKRao24 I think that nobody knows.
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@JudyEv (342145)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Oct 18
This happens with me. It just seems to be the nature of the site. Something that you think isn't particularly interesting will get lots of interest and vice versa.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
I think , basically people come here to participate and have normal gossip as they have in their routine life after a day's serious work! So they relax here with such light discussions!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@JudyEv , Yes, new , curious things are always interesting! Like the posts you made about your traveling few months back and also the last two posts about the Kangaroo and the Kookaburra! Such posts always draws the attention as people are learning something new in an informal way!
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@JudyEv (342145)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 I'm sure that's true but sometimes I'll learn something that is incredibly interesting to me and everyone seems 'ho hum' about it. At least this place is a great leveller.
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@Shivram59 (36463)
• India
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 Yes,it does happen with my posts,too.Contrary to my expectations some of my posts receive very few responses whereas other posts get a lot of responses.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
What do you feel....why it happens so?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@Shivram59 , Yes, some times these things they happen apparantly with no reason!
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@Shivram59 (36463)
• India
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 Once again,no idea.My last discussion received has received only 2 responses.My expectation was 10 responseso at least.
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@dya80dya (36769)
16 Oct 18
I know what you mean. Serious discussions aren't read.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
Yes, do you agree with my views?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
@dya80dya , i think having tired with daily life's problem, people come here to have some relaxed time with some fun filled moments so they want to keep themselves away from such serious talks!
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@dya80dya (36769)
16 Oct 18
@AKRao24 I agree. I wonder why interesting dicussions receive fewer responses.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
18 Oct 18
Yes it does happen with me , the ones that have received the maximum number of responses are the ones concerning day today activities ..
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
20 Oct 18
Yes, I think people don't like serious discussions and they come here just to enjoy some time having some fun with their virtual friends here! No?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
21 Oct 18
@kiran8 , Yes they can correlate themselves and get connected immidiately to respond!
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
21 Oct 18
@AKRao24 yes I agree ...members always have something to contribute when it is topic that concerns our day today activities
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@DaddyEvil (137602)
• United States
1 Dec 18
Yes, that happens with everyone on myLot. The more effort we seem to put into a discussion, the fewer respondents we seem to have on that discussion. Although, I have found that since I write discussions so rarely, people will finally respond when they can't find anything newer I've written!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
1 Dec 18
That is really funny but it is true!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
2 Dec 18
@DaddyEvil , yes, but I think that is hitting below the belt in the game! No?
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@DaddyEvil (137602)
• United States
2 Dec 18
@AKRao24 You do realize that you could "cash in" on the same type of thing by just writing fewer discussions, right?
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
17 Oct 18
That happens many times. The discussion I think should bring a lot of discussion bombs....but the fluff I throw out to have something new posts...attracts a lot of attention and comments.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
That is very true, that is why I have initiated this discussion...do you feel that people like casual and funny discussions with which they can correlate easily?
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@Morleyhunt , Yes, we have many people here whose native language is not English...So I am not very particular about the grammar! Yes, spellings can be checked by spell check!
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 that's part of it. Also something I can read that isn't full of spelling and grammar errors makes for easy reading. Some of the woe is me posts, I just skip over.
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@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
16 Oct 18
I don't post new discussions every day but I am also not receiving many responses.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
In fact I also don't post new discussions every dau, that is why I want to post some quality posts when I want to post, for which at times I do lot of research as my home work!
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@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
16 Oct 18
@AKRao24 I just post about my daily life or about something that is happening.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@nela13 , Yes, then it becomes easy to interact and continue further!
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
17 Oct 18
It happens at times. I don't know. It maybe because everyone just wants topics to be relatable as in real life. Take care dear
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
That is very correct! People always want to see themselves everywhere! You too care of yourself! How is life going on?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@Rashnag , Nice to know that! Don't you have Dandiya nights near by?
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 life is going good dear
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
16 Oct 18
I don't know, my friend. Maybe most people can relate with casual things.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
Yes, life is already a serious thing for most of us and I think we come here ti have some fun filled time so I think people don't want to engage themselves in serious discussions!
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
16 Oct 18
@AKRao24 Well, it is always depends. Ha ha. Sometimes when I'm a bit serious with my post people flocked with my discussion.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
@simplfred , You are lucky that your efforts are not got wasted! I appreciate that!
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@glyzane (81)
18 Oct 18
I guess it's a win win process
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Oct 18
Yes, it is, for that you need to respond back to every one who is responding you in every discussion of yours to gain the confidence that you always care their responses and reciprocate them sincerely!
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Oct 18
@glyzane , obviously, over some period of time you can win their trust too!
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18 Oct 18
@AKRao24 And to gain trust as well. Right?
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
1 Dec 18
I've been here for a couple of days, I still do not know everything, but I noticed that sometimes I have very little discussion, and sometimes a lot. I do not know what the reason is, maybe because I'm new. I do not know if it's always a short post or an uninteresting one, because I've seen a lot of posts with just one sentence and a lot of discussion underneath.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
1 Dec 18
Yes, you are right! Most of the people come hee to have some good and nice time with their virtual friends! I think hardly any one interested in making money as this site is poor in paying! So people like some light discussions and by participating in them they want to lighten themselves of their tensions, pressures and burdens!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
1 Dec 18
@Nevena83 , If you you want to make money you join some other sites!
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
1 Dec 18
@AKRao24 Frankly, I'm always on the net for the money, because I need it and I'm really trying. I always try to help others, and here I have seen people cooperate well, but you're right here many are not for profit, but because of socializing and relaxing.
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@maclanis (2406)
• Belgium
17 Oct 18
I guess this has happened to me as well. The popularity of your discussions mostly depends on how many people are interested in it, and if it is easy to respond to. Sometimes you can put a lot of effort into one discussion, but then not get many responses, and other times you can just say "what's your favorite ___?" and get 50 responses!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
So true...you got the crux of my discussion! I think after all it is the level of difficulty that makes the difference in the responses!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@maclanis, that is very true , here we have got many members whose native language is not English and they may be unable to express their feelings in a desirable manner!
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@maclanis (2406)
• Belgium
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 I think so too. Additionally, English isn't everyone's first language, and some people might find it hard to respond to the more difficult (but to me also more interesting) discussions.
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@May2k8 (18389)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 18
depending on the interest of each person, I have not found a bright spot.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
16 Oct 18
Yes, very true! I understand that! have to sincerely tried to locate that spot?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@May2k8 , I agree!
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@May2k8 (18389)
• Indonesia
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 If the use is not correct, it will become more complicated
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
17 Oct 18
for me, i think i should not think hard if my discussions do not get likes or comments in the first few hours. whatever i do or share or feel, i share them by discussions. i even do not think about topics, and i type as if my mind is a tape recorder, encoding the situations without even editing the thoughts and ideas. that is why i have so many grammatical errors and in spelling, that i edit once i respond to a comment on the same discussion.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
Generally such spontaneous discussions they get good number of responses! What is your experience?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
20 Oct 18
@ridingbet , yes, if people can't connect themselves with the topic they may not show any interest in the discussion!
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Oct 18
@AKRao24 i like to think that my discussions are my own experiences and no lies are posted. but it seems many users do not agree with personal 'blogs' and prefer other discussions or issues in posting. before i can fetch up to 25 responses and comments but now, i sometimes get single digits only
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
17 Oct 18
It does. I think discussions on casual things attract and interest more people.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
Yes, because they need not exert a lot to continue the discussion and interaction with such light topics!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@arunima25 , That is the beauty of casual discussions , we can take the conversation to anywhere we like!
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 Yes that even I felt. People connect well to regular casual topics than the thoughtful ones. They can also carry on with conversation with more ease.
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@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
17 Oct 18
I will see many spelling mistakes. English is not my native language.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
Yes, these can be rectified with spell check! No problem at all! English is not even my native language!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@theend , Yes, I know that...You are going to be an expert soon! My best wishes are always with you!
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@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 Things will change as I become more fluent. thank you.
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@Rosain (639)
• India
16 Oct 18
I'm new here.. So I'm still learning
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
Yes, I am sure within few weeks you will come to understand how the things they work here! All the best!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Oct 18
@Rosain , just keep on indulging in responding....for that matter you can gate crash anyone's conversation...that is valid here!
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@Rosain (639)
• India
17 Oct 18
@AKRao24 thank you.. I hope so..
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