Why do many MyLotters not let us know where they live?

@TheHorse (218876)
Walnut Creek, California
October 21, 2018 6:19pm CST
I live in Northern California, where the weather near the Coast is temperate. I can grow corn and green beans in the Summer, and snow peas in the Winter. In the Summer, our temperatures are often in the 90s (F), and in the Winter, we get the occasional freeze (26 F or so) at night. I've noticed that many MyLotters don't tell us where they live. Some might say "United States," but that could be anywhere from Florida (where it tends to be warm) to Alaska (where they have long and cold Winters). Why are some MyLotters so "private" about where they live? Do they worry that @Vandana7 will stop by and suck their blood? I don't believe she's really a vampire, and I can (almost) guarantee that I will not stop by and drink all of your red wine. When talking about things like the weather, or what's growing and what's dying, or what animals are running around in your back yard, wouldn't it be helpful to know (approximately) where a person lives?
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
22 Oct 18
Yes, privacy matter in a small country. I am here from so long that all those who interact with me know that I live in the south of Switzerland in the Italian part. No reason that everyone on the web know. This site is "public" do your remember? So what you write is not ONLY seen by myLotters.
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
22 Oct 18
Exactly..it is a public site. If it was kind of close knit group, sharing would not be an issue.
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• Philippines
22 Oct 18
i agree, especially if you put your first and last name, your picture, your city and state.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
22 Oct 18
@hereandthere Exactly, then you write post saying that you are away vacationing and you put your house at a potential risk to be burgled.
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@sallypup (61120)
• Centralia, Washington
22 Oct 18
This morning National Public Radio reported that not many folks go out and experience the outdoors. That statement made me quite sick. Once a lady told me that she kept her car in a garage. She didn't know what the weather was until she opened the garage door. Perhaps people don't care where they live and many apparently don't connect the dots on their particular seasons. By now I'm pretty sure you think you know where I live.
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@sallypup (61120)
• Centralia, Washington
22 Oct 18
@sugartoes Your answer reflects why we are friends. In a few years I, too, am moving to a better location. I wish you well in your journey.
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@sallypup (61120)
• Centralia, Washington
22 Oct 18
@TheHorse "Lurking in my yard" says it all. Which yard? Three acres here. Maybe that's you behind the chicken coop?
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
Moses Lake, Washington. Do you sense my presence lurking in your yard?
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
22 Oct 18
Some people just downright suspicious of the net.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
22 Oct 18
@TheHorse I'll be dropping by Walnut Creek in an hour or so, see you then!
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@ptrikha_2 (46955)
• India
22 Oct 18
@allen0187 do share your pics with Horse !
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
You're in the Philippines? I'll see you tomorrow
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
22 Oct 18
Haha I haven’t noticed that but it does seem like some don’t expect us to be curious.
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
22 Oct 18
@myklj999 considering how much we moan about the weather, those times are appropriate!
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
Isn't curiosity a good thing? Or should I say, Thank you for your response, My Dear Friend?
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
@myklj999 I know where you live. Do you feel scared?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Oct 18
Yes, I also want to know where other myLotters live. Me, I always mention the exact place of residence here in the Philippines, so that my friends here will know already, as I also know where they are too already.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Jan 19
I show my location so I can discuss weather with others.
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@1creekgirl (41428)
• United States
22 Oct 18
I don't mind anyone knowing I live in eastern NC, but I don't know why NC doesn't show up in my profile. I don't use my last name, just a privacy thing for me.
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
22 Oct 18
North Carolina is a bad word perhaps for myLot.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Nov 18
@vandana7 Hmm. I'm looking for naughty words in North Carolina, but I can't find any.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
That seems like common sense boundaries to me.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
22 Oct 18
I so agree with you about wanting to know where people live. It makes their posts so much more informative. I don't mind who knows my city. I'm very happy here. I love sharing the joy.
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
24 Oct 18
At least the country and city. That helps. And in fact, that confuses these data mining systems, like myLife, which will end up offering wrong information. Worth creating such confusions.
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
25 Oct 18
@bagarad Pony here mentioned a middle east country as his residence for a while. Then he mentioned Walnut creek... I would think that when they search they are not sure which one is the final one. They'd end up thinking this is temporary residence.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
25 Oct 18
@vandana7 How does that information confuse the data miners?
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
22 Oct 18
Very handy for tracking progress on a world tour or similar, too ! . I am on a trip around the Mediterranean currently, so my location changes a little every week...
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@ptrikha_2 (46955)
• India
22 Oct 18
@vandana7 oh @pgntwo beware of the Spectre Men and Women on the lookout for you! By the way is "M" aware about your whereabouts?
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
23 Oct 18
@pgntwo More than espionage I think....evil grin.. if I had to calculate how many minutes of a Bond movie are spent on or with Bond girls...then espionage will certainly take a back seat, right? LOL
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
22 Oct 18
You doing 007 job? I can imagine you introducing yourself, my name is pgn..pgntwo.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
22 Oct 18
It's probably because of Vanny. haha
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
24 Oct 18
I love Japanese. They are so beautiful calm cultured and VAMPIRE FEARING.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Oct 18
That's reasonable. She's dangerous.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Nov 18
@vandana7 Are they tasty?
@KristenH (33386)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
22 Oct 18
Good point. I wish they would take a hint and do it.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
If you're in Ohio, I know the weather is going to be kind of like what it is in my native Chicago. It could be 55 F today, or maybe 72 F.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Oct 18
@sugartoes Much of Ohio is pretty flat.
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@KristenH (33386)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
24 Oct 18
@TheHorse Right now it's in the mid-40s.
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
22 Oct 18
I had written about what people share in their profile. Some remain anonymous and we do not even know their gender. Basic information helps better interaction - siva
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
26 Oct 18
I agree. At least we are not mistaking lady to be gentleman, which I admit I did here once.
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
26 Oct 18
@Shiva49 I think there is assorted variety here. Some interactions are meant to be just fun without depth. Other variety is more informative, and sensitive. I am fine with fun too.
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
26 Oct 18
@vandana7 If no information is given, the interactions become superficial, lack depth, ring hollow - siva
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• Japan
22 Oct 18
I don't like letting people know my exact location, but Western Tokyo is pretty broad.
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@ptrikha_2 (46955)
• India
30 Oct 18
@petatonicsca yes exact location could be risky.
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@ptrikha_2 (46955)
• India
31 Oct 18
@TheHorse criminals are less probable but not impossible.
@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Oct 18
I don't think I could find you if I flew over there tonight.
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Oct 18
I have to check why my home province Ilocos Sur is not visible in my profile. Now I remember why it was not indicated, its so happen my province and city was not in the list to choose from.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Jan 19
Can you enter it "manually"?
• Cuddalore, India
22 Oct 18
Maybe they don't want someone to know.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
Why would they not want someone to know? The Bay Area is a big place. You would have a hard time finding me here if you didn't know my real name and address.
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• Cuddalore, India
22 Oct 18
@TheHorse yes I agree
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
@Lignitecityabishek96 Even knowing you live in India...I know it tends to be hot...but I'd have to as you how far North Cuddalore is. India is a big country.
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@ptrikha_2 (46955)
• India
22 Oct 18
Well some have safety and security reasons- from thieves, dacoits, terror groups or some enemies.
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@ptrikha_2 (46955)
• India
23 Oct 18
@TheHorse beware of Vanny and @DaddyEvil 's cunning ways though!
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Oct 18
I hope there are no terror groups after me.
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@May2k8 (18359)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 18
Maybe they are afraid of being visited by people who claim to be their friends and don't seem to be.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
I doubt someone from Hon Kong would show up at their door step.
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
22 Oct 18
Don't mislead poor innocent souls...you will go to hell for sure.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
There there. More blood is in on its way.
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@much2say (55608)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Oct 18
I just changed it to United States, California . . . but it still says United States. I know I could put the city, buuuuut it's a little tmi for me to put out there. I am in LA, but it's LA county . . . and I'm in the San Fernando Valley . . . but I'm just not comfortable putting any more than that there (though one might be able to figure out what area by reading clues in past posts). I wish there was a Southern California option!
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
I would just put Los Angeles. At least then I'd know your weather is (often) similar to ours but a few degrees warmer.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
22 Oct 18
I have no idea, I am very proud to be one of about 10 South Africans on the blog, and probably the one that posts the most. Anyone interested in reading about my country can log in. I like to know where people are from.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
28 Oct 18
@MALUSE I can believe you - I met the first Portuguese person the other day (we have about 10 but I think I am the only active one - SophieY is here now and then, and Diana Abrahams is back, Terry and Teresa don't write any more, Chantiele leaves a note sometimes, Catherine is writing again, Stacey Smith was here and then there is Gina that pops in every now and then
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Oct 18
I enjoy learning about countries I've never been to. I do have a friend who came here from South Africa.
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
22 Oct 18
I have my city listed, but I figure it's a large enough city that I should avoid a stalker at my door. Besides, my phone number's an unlisted one.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Oct 18
I get a sense of where you are (a bit South of me) but will not invade your boundaries unless you're cooking tri-tip and baked potatoes.
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@TheHorse (218876)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Oct 18
@spiderdust Oh, it must be both! I'll bring the salad. Heh. Knowing that you're from the South Bay and that I'm from the East Bay actually helps, because we can discuss things like "Is it smoky there?" or "Did you feel that earthquake?"
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
22 Oct 18
@TheHorse At the same time or just at least one of them?
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