Which do u believe happens first: love at first sight or lust at first sight?
By sweetrala
@sweetrala (1436)
Philippines
November 28, 2006 9:07am CST
Personally I dont believe in love at first sight coz when u are attracted to a person it can be physically,emotionally or mentally and i dont equate that as love,lust perhaps...
Watcha think?
21 responses
@dunetrekker (339)
• United Arab Emirates
18 Dec 06
Love at first sight!?... Nah! I would say it's impossible & improbable. It's too far from reality.. i think no person had ever felt that. It takes time for love to flourish.
Lust at first for me would be "possibly" a close description of what someone will feel. I termed it as "possibly" coz i guess it would be more proper to define it as attraction or admiration at first sight. That is...as to what beauty your eyes behold at that instant.
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@smokin_gunner (124)
• India
30 Nov 06
In my opinion it can be both, there r sometimes when u see someone so beautiful u r attracted to him/her(in my case her, u can't imagine her without clothes u jst want 2 be wit her, but yes most of the times its lust at firs sight.
Very intersting topic i must say
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@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
yup,its a physical things first that happends.Love can grow from that i think
@kirthi_krn (117)
• India
30 Nov 06
ofcourse its just attraction, lust..love cannot devlope in one sight..its more mature...i really dont believe in love at first sight
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@tmnjyk (3486)
• Canada
30 Nov 06
Well you are right! I personally think the way you think lol! I don't believe in love at first sight myself. I believe in lust at first sight instead lol! Physical attraction on first meeting is however important but to love the person at first meeting nah! that's not true...it must be purely infatuation as you don't know the person yet:) You can only LOVE someone when you know the person inside and out. You have a great day my friend!
@vincent72 (1633)
• Australia
30 Nov 06
Have to be lust nowdays way society is concerned havent seen many love at first sites , live long and prosper :)
@selina0625 (1379)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
I think neither. What i think happens is attraction, it's not love nor lust.
@lossforredwords (3620)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
i think lust at first sight cause are designed to be physically attacted to someone in first sight. that what i think ha!
@pinoytypist (280)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
neither of the two.i believe "like at first sight" is more appropriate.there is no such thing as love or lust at first sight for me. i usually like a person first. then it will eventually develop and become love(platonic or otherwise). lust?uummm, i'm more into being intellectually aroused..lol.. (",)