A monumental error by a monumental mason

@JudyEv (339930)
Rockingham, Australia
November 7, 2018 2:45am CST
Last weekend we went to our home town where we both went to school. Vince went to a Catholic school which was run by nuns and it was having its centenary celebrations. While we were there we took the opportunity to visit the cemetery and inspect the headstone which had been erected for my brother who died in October twelve months ago. We were a bit shocked to find that it wasn’t as we had ordered. In our original order we had requested that six lines be left at the bottom to allow an inscription to be inserted for my sister who wants to be buried in the same plot. There should have been six lines in total instead of nine. This would have ensured space for my sister’s inscription. The date of birth is also missing. Luckily we had a copy of the email we sent to the monumental masons which included precise instructions. They have responded to our new email, apologised for the error and promised to fix it which is all fine. However if we hadn’t gone to view the site, the error could have stayed there for ever and a day. It’s a bit annoying. Luckily it is their mistake and it won't cost us another small fortune.
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@NormanDarlo (1071)
• Ireland
7 Nov 18
It is surprising that they were so careless. This will prove an expensive mistake to fix. I am so glad that you had the details. I am sure in the past many people gave them instructions on a piece of paper and kept no copy. In such circumstances it would be much more difficult to argue your case!
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
We were really pleased to find we had the signed quote which clearly laid out how we wanted the wording etc. You're right. It will be expensive to fix. I should imagine they'll have to start again.
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• Ireland
7 Nov 18
@JudyEv Hopefully they'll learn to be more careful in future. Did they come recommended?
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• Ireland
8 Nov 18
@JudyEv There's a bit more choice around here, but often such decisions are made at a time of high stress and grief, which is not an ideal time for organising anything, yet needs must.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
7 Nov 18
I am glad that you had the email so now they can correct their mistake.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
7 Nov 18
@JudyEv I am sure they would have tried to say that they followed your instructions. I always leave a written note... just in case.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Nov 18
@LadyDuck It is a shame but we all need to do this in case of a dispute. You really can't trust anyone in these matters.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
Without the email they might have challenged our version.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
7 Nov 18
Wow! So glad you found the error, and it will be fixed. It's a huge nuisance. I'm sure you will have to check it again to make sure it's been done correctly.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
8 Nov 18
@JudyEv That's wise.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Nov 18
Yes, we will be making the trip again to check that it has been done properly.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Nov 18
I'm glad they will fix their mistake without cost to you.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Nov 18
@JudyEv Yes, it is.
@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 18
It is lucky that we have the proof that it is their error.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
7 Nov 18
Wow that is more than a bit annoying what in the world is wrong with them making those kinds of mistakes?
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Nov 18
The instructions are very clear. How they came to leave off the date is beyond me. Didn't they think it looked funny and wouldn't they have checked?
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 18
@Courage7 Some companies just don't seem to care.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
8 Nov 18
@JudyEv It is totally unacceptable and so disrespectful in my opinion Judy. So sorry this happened.
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@porwest (90823)
• United States
8 Nov 18
Better to find the error now and be able to address it. Yeah, that would be an annoying situation. I hope they are good about making it right for you.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 18
They haven't queried it at all. Just apologised profusely and said it will be fixed so that is reassuring. We'll still be checking later.
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@porwest (90823)
• United States
12 Nov 18
@JudyEv Yeah. Hope they fix it. A headstone is kind of an important thing for most people.
@snowy22315 (180678)
• United States
7 Nov 18
Geez, He must have been carving whilst in his cups. I am glad they will fix it for you for free, as they should!
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Nov 18
It will be an expensive fix so we're really pleased we have the original quote. It's ironic as on the bottom of the quote which we've signed is something like 'please check your instructions carefully as any errors will incur additional costs'. They should have taken note of that bit themselves.
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@wolfgirl569 (106226)
• Marion, Ohio
7 Nov 18
Glad you checked it and it will be fixed. Make sure to check when the new one goes up also.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
Yes, that's a good idea. I'm not sure when it will be done but we'll ask to be informed when it happens.
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@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
8 Nov 18
There's a memorial bench at our local Bowls Club with a commemorative plaque to the "passed President". OK - in one sense that is true, but it should have been "past President". In this case it was a double mistake - his widow had written "passed" on the order form because she can't spell, but the engraver didn't query it. The widow doesn't see that there's any problem, so nothing will be done.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 18
I hate mistakes like this but for some people it doesn't worry them. At a very flash memorial in Geraldton, there is an 'its' in the commemorative plaque which has been given an unnecessary apostrophe. I think it is a great shame to have such errors especially in official documents and plaques.
@moffittjc (121582)
• Gainesville, Florida
8 Nov 18
Looks like somebody fell asleep on the job and didn't get the order right. Thankfully, you kept the back documentation to help support your claim against them. How many people would have just deleted the email? I hope they get everything corrected to your satisfaction.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 18
I feel sure they will but we are very glad we kept the quote. We might have had a fight on our hands otherwise.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
7 Nov 18
Sometimes we are brought to a place for a reason. Its good you see it and told it to the monumental masons.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
We really have no-one left in our home town now so it could be a long time before we go there again so yes, we must have been brought there so we'd see this.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
7 Nov 18
I'm happy they will take care of the error at no cost to you
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Nov 18
True. It was expensive enough in the first place without having to have it redone.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
7 Nov 18
Glad that they realised mistake .
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
It was us that found the mistake but at least they are not arguing about fixing it.
@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 18
have it been replaced with the new one?
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 18
It hasn't been replaced yet but it will be soon.
• Philippines
7 Nov 18
At least you were able to complain and get their attention to have it fix.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
Yes, they didn't argue about it at all which was good. Luckily we had kept the quote.
@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
7 Nov 18
I hope they fix the error.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
They have said they will fix it so that is good.
@xFiacre (13013)
• Ireland
7 Nov 18
@judyev I’m in charge of a graveyard (whoopee) I dread mishaps like this. I’ve seen people buried in the wrong grave even and it takes a court order to exhume and rebuttal and quite a lot of money. It’s important to get these things right.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
We were just so pleased we had a copy of the original quote which we'd signed. Although this is quite plain in a way, it still isn't cheap.
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@Deepizzaguy (102812)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
8 Nov 18
That is good to know that the minor error on the tombstone is being corrected.
@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 18
We would like it to be correct and my sister's details will need to go underneath at some stage.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Nov 18
One must always inspect work that has been done.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
I guess so but really it shouldn't be necessary.
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@Ronrybs (19281)
• London, England
7 Nov 18
You would think they would take a little more care as it is upsetting for the family and it will cost them to repair/replace.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 18
Although it's not a fancy headstone, it is still a lot of money. Thankfully they have accepted responsibility for it.
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