First Love

Philippines
November 20, 2018 8:40pm CST
I realized as I am getting older that my first love was a puppy love but it was really a pure love and I learned to love a stranger unconditionally. Do you think your first love seemed like a puppy love to you as you got older?
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 18
puppy love
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@GovindaB (249)
• Accra, Ghana
23 Nov 18
Yes and No. My first love ?? had been "blind" because the one i loved didn't love me as much as someone else who loved me so much. And it did hurt ......
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
But if you were to choose. Would you love the person who loves you or the person your heart is beating for?
@GovindaB (249)
• Accra, Ghana
23 Nov 18
@geenwood88 I will choose the person who loves me. Because i believe that Love should be reciprocal
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@GovindaB to each his own. I would still prefer the person that my heart is beating but if there is no way we could be together? I will not choose the person who loves me just because that person loves me. It is like a lied to myself and I lied to that person. I don't want to hurt and play with their feelings so I need to be straight up honest.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Well my first love did not love me as much as i love him. I was just being ignored and we never had a chance of going steady when we were yet teens. How I wish we had some memorable moments together. Unfortunately we were not meant for each other. However he remains to be my idol. He is my cousin and will remain as is during our lifetime. We love each other and for him I am just his cousin. I love you coz.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
28 Nov 18
@geenwood88 yes i found another whom i am still married. I just don't know but my cousin has a very special place in my heart.
• Philippines
24 Nov 18
But he is your cousin. I think you can find somebody who is not your relative or someone is meant for you and it will come at the right time.
@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
21 Nov 18
I don't remember when is my first love hehe.
@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
21 Nov 18
@geenwood88 haha I think so
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
Maybe you have amnesia. Just kidding. Heheh
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@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 Nov 18
Getting old also makes me forget if I had one... ...now happily married to my true and lasting love...that is what I remember now..
@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 Nov 18
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• Philippines
21 Nov 18
And they lived happily ever after.. Hehe
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• Philippines
21 Nov 18
@ARN4567 Yeah!
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
21 Nov 18
Very nice. My first love is my boyfriend.:)
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
21 Nov 18
@geenwood88 We are together almost five years.
• Philippines
22 Nov 18
@Moon24 Good to hear you've been with him for that long. Hopefully he will be your husband.
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• Philippines
21 Nov 18
Wow! How long have you been together?
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@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 Nov 18
I still remember my first love. He broke my heart when he was interested in someone else.
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
It probably was painful since that was your first heartbreak. Is he still your love up to now?
@rakski (123401)
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
I cannot actually recall. lol Welcome kabayan!
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
Thanks for welcoming kabayan.
@nela13 (58667)
• Portugal
21 Nov 18
Honestly I don't remember my first love. Welcome, hope you enjoy the site
@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
21 Nov 18
I cannot really recall what my first love was. I was so into dolls when I was young, I don't know is this also counted as love since dolls are non living.
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
It can be but there is no emotional connection to it. Dolls can't feel and they can't even talk. Lol!
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@debjani1 (7202)
21 Nov 18
My first love......Not sure whether it's a crush or love.
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
If you felt it then that was love.
21 Nov 18
My feelings for my first crush is just a puppy love. So, is my first crush my first love? hmmm. I dont think so. Therefore, i concluded that my first love is not just a puppy love, rather a pure love.
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
Yes you loved your crush and it was pure love. We love deeper as we get older.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
21 Nov 18
My first love was my former husband and I have a child with him.