What Would You Want?

@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
December 2, 2018 2:16am CST
My husband's sister, her husband and their 2 children aged 9 & 10 will be coming home by the 26th of December from Melbourne , Australia. As a practice of the Filipinos, the one coming home will bring gifts or tokens for the family. She asked me what I like , my hubby and our daughter. Hubby likes perfume and so do I. I told her any of these : Bvlgari - Amethyst , Beautiful by Estee Lauder , Cool Water for Her or D & G Light Blue , which are my favorites. She asked hubby what specific perfume he wants. It's Cool Water for Men. As to our daughter, she will ask her. What would you want as a gift if ever you will be asked by a relative or family member coming home from abroad?
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Dec 18
I would be happy with anything that someone brings me.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Yes . Actually, me too. But friends and relatives insist to name something we want. So we tell what we want and they bring it when they come home.
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
3 Dec 18
A bit of it is also troubling another person. Most of the things we want are available across the world these days. So it kind of seems to be something of a botheration. Asking another person seems to be a good policy though.
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• India
3 Dec 18
That is very true.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Dec 18
I would just let it be a surprise. I would be happy with anything someone brought me.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Yes.me too. But this sister-in law always asks what we want as pasalubong or token. It's perfume she gives eaxh of us aside.from.other token. So she always ask for what perfume shall.it be.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD That is important as perfumes are all different. There are very few I like.
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• India
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD I understand this too while a gift is nice ,the giver also wants to get it right. I also ask for what colours a person prefers if I am buying clothes
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• China
2 Dec 18
I am surprised that your husband likes perfume,here perfume seems to be none of men's business.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Really! My hubby likes perfume. He would always buy the eau de parfum that are versions of branded perfumes.that are long lasting also and as fragrant as the original. We both are fond of perfumes.
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• China
2 Dec 18
@LadyDuck In winter,I use a bit face cream in case have chapped skin.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
2 Dec 18
@changjiangzhibin89 Same here, men use beauty products, after shave, but not perfume.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
2 Dec 18
I would ask something that you can only find in Australia, a special product of that country. We can buy perfumes everywhere.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
I am not interested in those though. I always wpuld ask for those perfumes which are my favoritea because they are expensive. What I buy for my everyday use are the versions of those brands that are really smelling like them and they last long on my blouses. Others would admire the scent when I walk by. I like perfumes.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
@LadyDuck Wow, that is so costly! Is that a strong scent or mild scent, Anna? Is it really fragtant tat it has a very expensive price?
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
2 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD There is only one perfume that I really like and wear since I was very yount, it is "Chamade" (Etrait Pefume) by Guerlain. I buy it, because I would never dare to ask to someone to buy for me a perfume that costs 400$.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
2 Dec 18
That's sweet. I would ask for chocolates.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
So, it's chocolates for you. We don't ask for chocolates anymore because she always send us those even when they last came here . Along with those, when she came home many years before, she has perfumes for each of us in addition to those chocoates and others like towels.
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• Philippines
2 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD because the towels are used to pad the balikbayan box
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD Chocolates are the usual items that people from abroad give as "pasalubong" but mostly (like you), people are already fed up with chocolates.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
I always feel uncomfortable being asked by relatives or friends as to what gift I'd want because I really don't expect anything.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
@sunrisefan I agree. That's how I am too, I ask what more or less would the recipient want that is somehow not so draining to my budget.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
That is true. Though most of my friends will bring me a perfume and they really.give a very fragrant perfume. But for this particular sister-in -law really asks what we each want.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD Perhaps she wants to make sure that you'll really like what she'll give.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
I would ask for chips! Australia has the most delicious potato chips.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD Pringles is a US brand. I forgot the potato chip that's only available in Australia.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Dec 18
@toniganzon I know. It's what she told me that she had purchased.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Potato chips. What in particular is the name of that, since she said she will be bringing Pringles and the like.
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Dec 18
I love perfume as well, I think that's a great choice! :) Either that or candles since I love those too.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
So, it's perfume for you too. What perfumes in particular? We, ladies are more into perfumes. We like wearing mildy scented perfumes, that can stay fragrant the whole day.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD I'm really not too picky but I like love spell perfume, tattooed, and cool water for women.
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@sofssu (23662)
2 Dec 18
Nope no one asks, we are expected to take what they give gratefully.. More so because we are taught from a young age not to ask for gifts even if asked.. this is our tradition.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Really, that is your tradition. Here, we ask what the recipient would want, so as to be sure that our gift is well appreciated.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
@sofssu Yes, that is so true.
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@sofssu (23662)
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD yeah it is .. no joking.. we always say.. its fine thanks you ..i don't really need anything even though there maybe something we need.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Dec 18
That's a nice tradition, but I would not want anything except something local from Australia. I buy my own perfumes which are probably not even sold in Australia.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Yes, that would be nice too - Locals from Australia. What perfumes do you usually buy? I know you are into perfumes.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
@DianneN Wow, those are expensive! Are they light smelling?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD My favorites are Courtesan by Worth, which I was only able to purchase in London, and here, I only buy scents from Bond New York #9 which sells a variety of "New York" scents. My two favorites are Riverside Drive and New York City. I have a couple of others I also use, but at almost $400 a bottle, I make them last.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Perfume also and my favorite is also Bvlgari. Oh wow good for you .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
So you like Bvlgari too? What particular Bvlgari perfume are for men? I was actually gifted with Bvlgari last 2016 by my batchmate who came from Canada. It actually has Bvlgari and in white bottle. I didn't know its particular name. It was so fragrant. Then the other month i was enticed by a salesgirl in the lobby of the mall to test their Perfume versions of branded ones. So, i asked do you yave Bvlgari? Yes, Amethyst she said. So, i tested it in my pulse and wow, it was the scent of the Bvlgari given to me. It is long lasting also and so fragrant. In fact, a salesgirl in SM when i bought a lipstick, said " i love your perfume mam. And she said Bvlgari Amethyst. I just smiled and said thank you because it's Ian Darcy's version of that. But it was mistaken for the original.
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
3 Dec 18
I think I would go in for perfumes too and chocolates. Enjoy your gifts.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
So, what perfumes in particular would one give to you?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
@responsiveme Those are nice. I like light scents.
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• India
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD I would like light floral perfumes or sandalwood ones
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
2 Dec 18
I want only is perfume too. I love the scent of perfume there
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
What particular perfume do you want to be gifted by those coming from abroad ?
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
2 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD anything perfume important is they give it with with open hearth.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
@resukill22 Yes that is true. But actually, it's hard to give perfume as a gift because the scent.might ne.not to the liking of the recipient. 8
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@Janet357 (75646)
3 Dec 18
Ahhh this $$$$ hahhahaha. Which i will buy something i really like. My family used to give me things like watches and perfumes or what. But our tastes were different so i couldnt use what they gave me. But $$$$ is safe to give:))
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
So,you are just like my daughter, she likes $$$ too. That way, she is sure she can buy something she really likes. Then, she takes a picture of it and show it to the giver to thank. Smart!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
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@Janet357 (75646)
4 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD absolutely! Practical thing to do on their part:)
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Oh not too interested in perfumes. I always prefer food over perfumes lol.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD yeah love eating, although tshirts can do but I appreciate foods the most.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Hmm, should I say, it's obvious, on how healthy you are.
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
3 Dec 18
I have no idea. But maybe they can get a good deal on it since they are traveling internationally and often there are duty free shops in the airports!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
Yes, there are duty shops indeed in the airport. Though, when they buy it from there they're cheaper, she said even if here it is in duty free.
@much2say (55655)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Dec 18
I can think of a lot of things I actually like . . . but when someone asks me what I want, I usually say "anything" or "whatever you think". From abroad, I would love food gifts .
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@much2say (55655)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD My dad said that was customary for people here too when they go back to Japan. My dad hadn't gone for decades . . . and when we did go, he brought all the stuff he used to take (Hershey's chocolates, coffee, etc) but the most recent trip he realized Japan already has that stuff .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
@much2say Japan has lots of chocolates indeed. When my niece came from a vacation in Japan, she gave us a huge Hershey chocolate.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Food gifts are usually the ones she send from Australia in the box she would send every six months, to us here in the Philippines. But now that she will be coming in person, she wants to give something that each of us would want for ourselves. ,
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
4 Dec 18
I would tell them whatever they choose. A gift is something we do not ask for plus I don't know their budget so that could end up being a problem.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
I think it is up for the recipient to choose a gift she likes but see to it that it is something affordable more or less to the giver.
• New Delhi, India
3 Dec 18
Support from everyone .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Financial support?
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Wow! We have the same taste when it comes to perfumes. I love D&G Light blue and Bvglari-Amethyst as well. Lanvin Eclat smells good, too! As for me, I usually ask for bag, makeup and perfume
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Wow, we really have the same taste, because I would also like for those 3 also. But, she still have to give the others too. I have to consider that. Hmm, I haven't smelled nor seen Lanvin Eclat. I guess, that one is mildly scented too, since we have the same taste.
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• Philippines
3 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD You should try it, ma'am.
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