Divorce

@TessyB (39)
December 27, 2018 3:10pm CST
What's your view on divorce? Because I think the only reasons for divorce is either of the partners are having sex relationships else were but now its more like most people wake up and be like I no longer love you I want a divorce... Or I love someone else and boom we get divorce.. I really don't get it??
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
28 Dec 18
I do not think that an extra conjugal relation is the only reason that justify a divorce. An abusing husband, who beats his wife and may be also the kid is surely a good reason to divorce.
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
28 Dec 18
@TessyB I do not care what the Bibble supports, I think that a woman would never stay with an abusive man.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
28 Dec 18
@LadyDuck Absolutely agree with you Anna.
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@TessyB (39)
28 Dec 18
Oooh yeah true just that in the western world too many of it. But you are right abusive but still yet the Bible did not support such divorce
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
28 Dec 18
@TessyB I am divorced for quite a long time. No, I have no human children. I am divorced because we were not right for each other and we got married for the wrong reasons. I feel that only the two people in the the relationship know why they are or want a divorce. There are many reasons why people get divorced. I will share something with you. It is an example: I am Jewish and there are people that still arrange marriages. That means that the two people meet in a public place and do not really get to know the person and at times when they get married then they find out about the person. There are been those that had children with the person and something happens and they see that the person is not a good one and want a divorce but in Judaism mostly the man has to give the woman a divorce and at times will not so the woman cannot get married again and is stuck and the man does what he wants. There is an organization that helps the woman so they can get unchained from the man and be free to marry again but sometimes it take years. The ones that grant the divorce do not always help the women. It is hard to explain. I was married 6 years,. I was pregnant but lost the baby. I never got pregnant again. I wanted a divorce two years before I got it because my ex would not give me one. When he was ready two years later we got divorced. It is not easy to get a divorce as one would think and there are many reasons why people want a divorce. I hope I cleared some things up for you. This is Judaism and not any other religion I am talking about.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
28 Dec 18
@TessyB They do still exist in religious circles.
@TessyB (39)
28 Dec 18
@Hannihar yeah I understand now
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@TessyB (39)
28 Dec 18
Oooh dear so sorry and I understand that perfectly. But I taught arranging marriage no longer exist. That's bad.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
28 Dec 18
Welcome to myLot! I share your view on divorce.
@TessyB (39)
28 Dec 18
Thanks dear but what is the view of most individuals in your country? You could share
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
28 Dec 18
@TessyB Here they can create a valid reason by claiming "mental cruelty" or "incompatibility" which may be exaggerated at times.
@TessyB (39)
29 Dec 18
@1hopefulman yeah true but my point is the bible only ground for divorce which is funication
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
28 Dec 18
For me choose a better one you really love so you don't waste your time
• New Delhi, India
28 Dec 18
By the way welcome to Mylot. Hope you will do well here
• Bekasi, Indonesia
29 Dec 18
welcome to mylot friend
@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
28 Dec 18
Divorce is really rampant this days. I think people have made it look like something normal to separate when there is just some little trouble. People do not believe in solving problems together this days.