I do not socialise and that is not an over statement
@allknowing (137552)
India
December 29, 2018 7:00am CST
There is a wedding right across my house. You can see the bridal car parked almost touching our gate.
Yes I am invited for that wedding but I do no go for weddings and such events that involve spending hours at a go.
But those who invite me understand and to top it all they will come for parties that I organise 
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
My virtual world takes care of that (lol)
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Dec 18
@allknowing Good luck there with the virtual world
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
No such thing here. If I was selective then it would not be right
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Dec 18
@allknowing You would be called a bear in my place
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
@topffer No one calls me a bear here (lol)
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
It depends on the kind of relationship one has
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
30 Dec 18
@JustBhem I was a great one for that but now I prefer having parties at my own place but not attend those organised by others.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Dec 18
@allknowing
I see. I believe that there are some people doesn't like to socialize.
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.)@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
Nothing much goes on at those parties (lol)
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
29 Dec 18
Out of courtesy you are invited. You express well wishes and it seems, since you do this for all invitations, that it is okay with them.
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
If I had been selective surely there would have been cause for resentment
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
30 Dec 18
@allknowing Nowadays its all about competition in every way. And people now are more interested in taking pics to post on social media sites than enjoying the celebrations.
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
30 Dec 18
@mayka123 I have seen photographers asking for poses and it is never spontaneous
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
30 Dec 18
In the good old days there was more friendship and camaraderie but now they just want a crowd.
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
That is not right There is no obligation that one should accept invitations.
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
30 Dec 18
@sofssu Culture in other words is society norms and who sets them?
@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
30 Dec 18
@allknowing I also prefer to call people, but I do not like to go to weddings or big parties.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 18
Indian weddings go on too long. I agree with you. We have been invited to three this year. My wife will go but fortunately I am not!
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
30 Dec 18
You must feel grateful to god that you have such people in your contacts.
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
30 Dec 18
@Swayamsiddha There is no reason for me to do that as I am accepted and respected.
@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
30 Dec 18
@allknowing Also you can come back whenever you feel like. Be there for some hours. Then come back when you feel like
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
30 Dec 18
I have said that alread I do not attend events
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
30 Dec 18
@allknowing why did you not attend the event, have you not been told to attend the event?
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
The wedding was yesterday I read your response only now (lol)
@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
It all depends on the relationship and we get on well
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
29 Dec 18
You are doing enough I notice. Go for it if you can
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