friendship often ends in love,... but wud love ever end in friendshiP????

India
September 11, 2006 6:48am CST
hey ppl.. wats ur opinion... u al kno that fndships often ends in love... but will love ever end in frndship????
18 responses
• India
17 Dec 06
yes it happens lots of time . infact i have experience about this . i cannot share here . if you really want to know then mail me .
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
25 Nov 06
My mom always says you can love somebody but not actually like them. She is always saying she loves my brother but she hates how he is and what he does. But to answer your question yes I do think that if you respect each other and still mutually care for each other then yes it can. I am still friends with a few ex-boyfriends and I know a few other s who are too. I think if they know they have took the relationship as far as they can take it and still care and love each other but know they aren't right for each other then they remain friends even after they stop being lovers.
@asa010 (1128)
• India
13 Sep 06
forget it i wont...would feel jelious...would stay away
@sandoo (223)
• Jamaica
13 Sep 06
love can ends in friendship. if your think bout of you are better off as friend you dont have to malicee
• India
13 Sep 06
I don't think so .... Because the relationshp would be awkward cos u always think of the other person as your love and not your friend.
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
13 Sep 06
Well for being in love with someone u need to understand that person pretty well..... and a friend is the one who can understand one the best.... So friendship is the start for love. Love in Friendship.... ???????? I used to think that this is impossible.. but have seen it happen with many of my friends... they had some lovers who broke up and are now good friends.... So it is possible...
@allie4712 (130)
• United States
13 Sep 06
I dated this guy about a year or two ago and we though we were in love when we first meet. We had gotten engaged and dated for over a year. Turned out we weren't truly in love. Now he's my best friend. love can end in friendship. May not be true love but love is love. But if you really think about it love is friendship and friendship is love. We all love and care for our friends so i don't see the difference.
• Italy
13 Sep 06
I've always thought that love can't end in friendship, but I've been proven wrong by several people, so I guess probably it's possible. I think it's a great thing, it takes a lot of stregth and maturity to do that.
@vinumdas (261)
• India
13 Sep 06
It is always better if our love is 'converted friendship'. It gives the most intimate relationship between them. Yes love=friendship but love doesn't end in friendship, in fact true love never ends.....
@spikyarj (519)
• India
12 Sep 06
but dont think v will always be able to share d same relationship once v break apart...it wont b d same again...
@prasanta (1948)
• India
13 Sep 06
Wait and Watch.
@alveraks (37)
• Australia
13 Sep 06
It can be awkward when you break up. It's hard to be a friend without seeming like a jealous ex when you try to give advice. And when one starts dating someone else it brings back memories of good times and can make you jealous even if you don't want to be with them anymore.
@nymphy (139)
12 Sep 06
this is smth that bothers me right now
@itsmed99 (63)
• India
12 Sep 06
it can never be .. when you break up with someone it wouldnt be the same again between them... it will be kinda awkward
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
11 Sep 06
yep.everything is possible. anything can happen. i had boyfriends who were my friends at first. and when we broke up, we still are friends but it takes months or years before friendship is brought back. yet, not all of them turned out to be my friends at the end.
@alveraks (37)
• Australia
11 Sep 06
When I split with my ex we became better friends and shared a lot more with each other. It depends on what causes the split and why you were together in the first place.
• India
11 Sep 06
It is very difficult. It is very difficult to make a girl true friend once she comes to know that you love her.I am not sure but then she will always have a slight suspicion in mind that this fellow has other intentions.
@Johnboy1 (304)
• South Africa
11 Sep 06
"how can we be lovers, if we can't be friends"