Well, Hello Again!

@DianneN (247186)
United States
January 14, 2019 12:50pm CST
I’ve had a busy, busy weekend. My dinner party for my brother and his wife was fun on Friday, and more so, because my nephew decided to attend. He took an Uber afterwards to Miami and is flying back home to New York City this very minute. Saturday my husband and I spent the day shopping in Palm Beach where we had lunch on the porch of a hotel. We were invited to a dinner at our dear friends’ beautiful new house. It was fabulous! Sunday afternoon, we went boating with my brother and his wife. We were excited to pass our condo and see how much prettier it looked from the Intercostal. . The owner of the boat took us through a short passage for a ride on the ocean. I found the ocean rough and boring compared to all the activity on the Intercostal. I also felt seasick from the choppy water, but all was good. Now my brother and husband want to buy a boat. I think it’s foolish for six months a year, not to mention the upkeep and expense, and the fact that they both will need lessons and a boating license. Do you own a boat?
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Jan 19
My husband has three boats, two bass boats and a bigger boat. My brother has a big boat that he keep on Lake Lanier near Atlanta. We used to go down the Connecticut River with him over to Long Island for lunch when he lived in Connecticut.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Jan 19
@DianneN It was a lot of fun but now with Al's Parkinson's he can't go boating alone, one of the boys has to go with him except maybe when we are down at the lake house.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
@BelleStarr I think it would be much smarter for my husband and brother, none of them sailors or boaters, if they rent a boat rather then buy one. The one they were looking at costs as much as a small house in CT. Ridiculous. And then the marina fees are a fortune. We rented a fishing boat last year when our son and grandson came down and will do so again if they come again. Good enough. We have a few friends down here who own sailboats and cabin cruisers, and one has a small yacht. Even better. lol
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
Oh, how cool! I'd go for a ride anytime, but don't want to own one. Men and their toys!
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@allknowing (135813)
• India
14 Jan 19
You took me to a memory of that shikara ride in Kashmir. We were a group and each family went on different shikaras. It was on Dal Lake we were to take a long ride on that lake but the two of us got back pretty fast . It is only later we came to know that we were cheated by that boatman. He cut short the trip about which we were ignorant.
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@allknowing (135813)
• India
14 Jan 19
@DianneN Getting back to him was not possible as they normally vanish into thin air
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
That's so mean. Did no one say anything to him?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
14 Jan 19
I did have a row boat that fit six people comfortably at one time. We bought it second hand when we used to go camping. We had lots of fun with it. Does that count?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
15 Jan 19
@DianneN One can do a lot more with a big boat. It was fun to take the kids for a ride.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Jan 19
@1hopefulman I’m sure it was thrilling for your kids. Renting a big boat is what we should do. Our grandson loves fishing from them. Owning one for us is what I call ridiculous.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
It does count. I'd take that over one huge boat!
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@jstory07 (139442)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jan 19
I have never wanted to buy a boat.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Jan 19
Neither have I, but I do like to go for boat rides.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
17 Jan 19
@stbrians I’m on the water.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Jan 19
You had a great, busy, weekend. I love getting out on a boat but don't very often. My daughter and son-in-law own a boat.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
I remember you told me about the boat and posted a photo. It was beautiful I wouldn't mind one that size. It looked big enough for me.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Jan 19
@DianneN I did? I didn't think I had a picture of it. Ah yes, for her wedding reception. It would be a good size. Though they've gotten a new boat since that one, slightly larger.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
14 Jan 19
Having a boat sounds very exciting.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
It would be fun, but it's a pain in the neck to keep it well maintained. They are still thinking about it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
@Nevena83 Yes, it is, but not nearly as much as the boat my husband and brother would want. That would be close to the size of a small house here, if not more. No way!!!
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
14 Jan 19
@DianneN I think it's very expensive maintenance.
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@snowy22315 (180286)
• United States
14 Jan 19
Yes, sort of..it really belongs to my ex..but it is moored in the boat slip down here. The guy is so dumb he never uses it. He hasn't had it out in years.
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@snowy22315 (180286)
• United States
14 Jan 19
@DianneN don't think they would be interested in a small fishing boat..It wouldn't be appropriate for that kind of water.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
@snowy22315 Oh, no. They want a big, shiny, new, costly, boat that they won't ever be able to pilot or whatever it's called. It would be parked or moored in a boat slip forever.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
Give it to my husband and brother!!! That seems like a waste of a perfectly good boat.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
14 Jan 19
Nope and I don't think we'll ever own one. Guys, it seems that they want to start a new hobby.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
15 Jan 19
@DianneN Oh they truly are!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Jan 19
Guys and their toys! They are just nuts!!!!!
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@wolfgirl569 (105760)
• Marion, Ohio
14 Jan 19
Not near any big bodies of water so dont have one. Cant see having to haul it all over to use it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
There are so many marinas here. I just can't fathom spending more than the cost of a small house on one.
@wolfgirl569 (105760)
• Marion, Ohio
14 Jan 19
@DianneN That is a good reason too.
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• Eugene, Oregon
15 Jan 19
That is what happens when you get a man near water and give him a ride in a boat.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Jan 19
Exactly!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Jan 19
My second Brother owned a boat before. Kidding. A play boat. Lol Sounds like you are really having fun Miss D.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
. Yes, we are enjoying ourselves. It's easy when the weather is so nice.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
@JustBhem Not cold, but cool and refreshing.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Jan 19
@DianneN Yes, when it's sunny and at the same time, the breeze is cold.
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@nela13 (58543)
• Portugal
14 Jan 19
I can't afford having a boat and besides That as I don't swim that good I would probably be afraid of boating Glad you are having a great time and by the way you look fantastic as usual
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
You could always have your two kids rescue you! . Thank you and
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@nela13 (58543)
• Portugal
15 Jan 19
@DianneN they both swim quite good. You are welcome
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
15 Jan 19
I do not own a boat. But if I had one, it would be on the River Thames in Oxford..for now.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Jan 19
Oh, that would be a wonderful river to be on with a boat and a beautiful town.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 Jan 19
No, I never cared for boats after getting sick going deep sea fishing.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
That happened to my husband when he was a kid, but now he's fine. I'm the one who needs a patch on cruises or out on the ocean.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Jan 19
@CarolDM We caught a huge barracuda in our backyard. Ugly looking thing.
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
15 Jan 19
@playertwo It was great until I got sick. The fish are massive in size.
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@popciclecold (38586)
• United States
14 Jan 19
No, I don't and even if I could afford one, just too much water for me.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
Well, hello again!
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@CinnamonGrl (7084)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
14 Jan 19
No nobody in our family has a boat. When I was a kid, my dad had a little boat for awhile. It was the only thing I ever saw my mom get mad at him about -- he bought it without asking her! And then the one and only time she went out in it, she got horribly ill with what the doctor thought was an allergy to the lake algae. The boat did not last long!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
Oh, that must have been awful for your poor mother. Your father must have been sad to have to give the boat up. I think renting when we want to go out would be the best option for us all.
@LadyDuck (471217)
• Switzerland
15 Jan 19
I also dislike the ocean, the Intercostal is a lot more interesting. My husband wanted to buy a boat when we lived in Monte-Carlo. I am glad that I arrived to convince him not to buy one. Here a boat is not interesting, you can only use it a few months a year on the lake.
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@LadyDuck (471217)
• Switzerland
17 Jan 19
@DianneN I am happy that I convinced my husband that the best was to rent one when we wanted to spend a day or two on a boat. A boat needs so much maintenance.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Jan 19
@LadyDuck We looked again all day yesterday. It's mind boggling, but today we are taking the day off. I'm still trying to convince my husband that the expense and work is not worth it. He may be coming around.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
17 Jan 19
Yes, where you live it doesn’t make sense to have a boat. We spent the last two days looking at boats.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
14 Jan 19
Yes I own a boat but I am not licensed but Tony is, I usually let others drive me around in it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
Sounds like fun!
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Jan 19
Boating is like a hobby. Think of it that way.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Jan 19
They have enough hobbies. Renting is better and much less work.
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@YrNemo (20255)
15 Jan 19
Not that rich ever to own a boat. But a friend of mine bought one for her 5 yr partner since he wanted it as a proof of her love. THAT and a brand new 4WD. Once the paperwork was OK (she paid for the whole lot), he said he would love to go to Thailand for a trip (a month holiday). She never saw his face again. She found out he also incurred some sort of debts in her name, about $200,000. A beautiful love story, right? (any mentioning of a boat, always made me think of my friend and that loving partner of her.)
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Jan 19
Oh, how deceitful! He sounds as bad as our former neighbor, Dr. Jay. I would never give a man anything as proof of my love except my love. He should have been wooing your friend with gifts. Men!