sleeping in separate beds while married

Pass Christian, Mississippi
January 19, 2019 8:44pm CST
is it ok to sleep in separate beds when married.....its not because we dont like each other just more comfortable. we are still in our 30's. if it was up to me i would have my own room too,
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Jo Miller
@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
20 Jan 19
Well, we are aging and there are definitely times when it is easier to sleep in separate beds so that we can both get a good night's sleep, but I just really miss our sleeping together, so we usually sleep together.
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PAMELA Fucich CROCKER
@pfucich150 (10)
• Pass Christian, Mississippi
20 Jan 19
ahhh thats really sweet. I miss my husband at night but grumpy in the morning when i dont sleep
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Jaycee
@fivecandles (435)
• United States
20 Jan 19
Every marriage is different. I often sleep on the couch due to pain or illnesses. But hubby and I both hate when it goes on for more than a week straight so I don't think separate rooms for sleeping all the time would work for us. I wouldn't mind having my own room in general though!
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PAMELA Fucich CROCKER
@pfucich150 (10)
• Pass Christian, Mississippi
20 Jan 19
i know right . like a woman cave....and then you can just sneak off at night to sleep in there too and return on the morning. lol
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Swayamsiddha Dash
@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
20 Jan 19
Well I dont like this.
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Christina Ladanger
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
20 Jan 19
I love cuddling so i wouldn't like that but if i was to do that i would feel to distant from my partner.
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DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7202)
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22 Jan 19
No. After marriage I don't think beds are separated.
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relcap23
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jan 19
Maybe just a big bed where there will be an ample distance between the two but still in one bed in cases that you may want to hug each other in the middle of the night.
Boingboing
@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
21 Jan 19
I used to know a couple who slept in separate rooms. He was a terrible snorer and it was the only way that she could get any sleep. Even on holidays they had to book two rooms.
The Horse
@TheHorse (218891)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Jan 19
I haven't tried it that way, but I think it's different for each couple.
Merryjoy
@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
26 Jan 19
For me, married people should be sleep in one bed
dhia eddine
@didinedhia (8470)
• Algeria
23 Jan 19
i think it's not okay!!!!!!!!
mcnathan
@mcNathan (186)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
Hi Pamela...for me if its been agreed both you and your husband there is no wrong on it. but, at your age, i guess there must another reason why you seriously doing this to your husband. If im your husband, i wont agree. Well, for maybe a night or two I would but on the third night thats already too long without you by my side during night time..Interesting post...