Healing
@Jamaicancurvydiva (42)
Montego Bay, Jamaica
February 8, 2019 8:44am CST
So I am on a healing journey from being molested as a child. Learning to love myself, trust (which is a biggie), forgiving the prepretrator, seeking a fulfilling relationship. I can tell you from my experience the psychological effect is the worst part of the ordeal, but one day at a time.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
8 Feb 19
Yes, one day at time. It does get better. It took me years to get to places where I was okay. My husband understands that some days are easier then others
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
8 Feb 19
@Jamaicancurvydiva ah, I haven’t done that yet. I think my messed up meshes well with my husband’s messed up.
@Jamaicancurvydiva (42)
• Montego Bay, Jamaica
8 Feb 19
I have managed to sobatage every relationship I have gotten into. I have trust issues.
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
8 Feb 19
You are right. It takes time to heal from your past memories
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@Jamaicancurvydiva (42)
• Montego Bay, Jamaica
8 Feb 19
Yeah, I am trying to get through, even this happened years ago. It seems like yesterday, and I have managed to let every men pay dearly for what happened to me back then.
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
8 Feb 19
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
31 Mar 19
@Jamaicancurvydiva
That must have been very hard for you. I am glad you can heal and yes finding the right patient person will help you.
@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
8 Feb 19
I feel you.I also experienced to be treated that way and then feel the painful memories I had but God is there watching and I knew that he will never leave me and build me again as a whole through his grace and power and love.
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@Jamaicancurvydiva (42)
• Montego Bay, Jamaica
8 Feb 19
Yes, he is the only one that can give you the healing we need.
@internetmom (101)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Yes take healing slow and be an inspiration to those that are going though what you are. I'm so sorry that happen to you. You are stronger because of it.
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