Relationship goals or NO's

I think they should live together before they get married. I know a lot of couples who live together and are not married. I mean, it's individual..

I do think people should live together first, that way they can see how the other really is. The second part depends on each individual. As some expect them right away, while others want to wait a few years. But that is something the two people would have to talk about together.

More of half of the couples are not married in France. I have several couples of friends living together since more than 30 years and not wanting to marry. Or they do it secretly before retiring for a matter of reversionary pensions.

Hi there, Bre Me! As a bit of introduction, Philippine citizens are mostly conservative. Especially some families who are keeping the tradition. But there are also some who are open to the idea of unmarried couples living together. Personally, I think it is fine to have unmarried couple living together. It will naturally bring out each other's attitude to their partner. This is a way for them to know each other deeply. But it has its pros and cons.

Well.... Living together is a great idea... People now a days do that often, but yes marriage is sidelined... May be because living together and marriage are all together two different concepts.... You can always run away from responsibilities if you aren't married, once married the dynamics change.... Plus the set of involvement also changes... May be the fear of this extra commitment is pushing away all of us from the marriage. As far as waiting time is concerned, that depends on every single relationship. People can always walk off if they think they have waited enough.

I agree i think people should live togeather. Before they get married so they will see first hand each other's flaws and know if they really want to live with that person the rest of there lives .. I think its up two both people as to there lives how they see fit both people have to be in agreement on that special day as to when it best for both there lives No.matter the years ..it takes..

nope. fer the folks i've known that've lived together prior to marriage, seems their relationship changes 'ntirely once they say i do 'n 'fore long, they're sayin' i don't. i also believe'n long engagements ('round 2yrs), that way folks'll show their true colors 'fore walkin' down that aisle.

they can be together

My experiences about marriage is I think it is better to live together first before you really get married because you can have time for each other to know your dos and don'ts .Compared to when you rush to get married right away then if the problem will start of your differences then it is so hard already.

Depends on the couple's present situation

I think if both wanna know whether they are suitable for one another in the long run is to go for a couple boot camp.. they will each find out new things about the other.

In my opinion they should live together before getting engaged or married. I see no problem in that, as long as there's love. the rest just does not matter!

in my country after marriage