Can’t Have It All
By DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
United States
March 3, 2019 8:34am CST
We can’t have it all, but we’ll take what we can get!
Our older son texted me yesterday that he and our grandson will be coming for a short visit from Thursday, March 28 to Saturday, March 30. They have to fly home late Saturday due to an ice hockey game on Sunday in which our grandson is goalie.
Our Ice Princess granddaughter can’t fly down with her mom, because she can’t miss practices for her upcoming figure skating competitions.
We rented a fishing boat for that Friday, because that’s what our grandson loves to do. My brother and sister-in-law may even join us.
My husband and I are over the moon with this wonderful news, although we are a bit disappointed not to see our granddaughter, whom we adore. But we love our son and grandson, too, and will take what we can get.
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It's a long, long time.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
3 Mar 19
That's the way to look at things Something is always better than nothing. I hope you all catch lots of fish! 
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
3 Mar 19
@DianneN I'm not much of a fisherman but I have enjoyed some tasty fish in my life. Fishing is not just about catching fish but also about being with the people one loves just as a meal is not always about what one eats but being with the people one loves. Have a great time!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Mar 19
@1hopefulman I agree and thanks so much!
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@much2say (55902)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Mar 19
Oh yay - well at least you get one of 'em 
. . . I'm sure even with a short visit, the family time will be well spent. Hopefully your granddaughter can come out eventually . . . or is there anyway that you could have a short visit up there?
. . . I'm sure even with a short visit, the family time will be well spent. Hopefully your granddaughter can come out eventually . . . or is there anyway that you could have a short visit up there?2 people like this
@much2say (55902)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Mar 19
@DianneN Oh, ok, I didn't get how "establishing residency" worked - does that mean you have to physically be there at least 6 months and a day straight? Hopefully all the family will be able to meet up soon. Well yes, you have the perfect place to be "stuck" 
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Mar 19
Looking forward to seeing them. It will be my grandson's 5th trip to see us since we've been coming down for the winters, and our granddaughter only was able to come down twice. We can't go north this year, because we have to begin putting in our time down here to establish residency. Once done, we can come and go as we please, just as long as we live here 6 months and 1 day. It's a beautiful prison to live in.
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@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
3 Mar 19
You are lucky that they have the ability to visit you, with the distance being so great. Plus, with their busy schedules, it's still nice that they can squeeze in a family visit, even one so short. I know you will enjoy the time with them. The chartered fishing boat sounds like such a wonderful idea, I hope everyone has a good time and catches lots of fish!
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@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
3 Mar 19
@DianneN I wish I could travel around like that.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Mar 19
Last year they landed Friday night, which turned into very early Saturday morning and returned early Monday afternoon. And that was a few days before we were leaving to return to CT!!! We told them not to bother, but our grandson was looking forward to fishing, his other passion in life. He goes to private school, so can take a couple of days off without being penalized, unlike the NYC public schools. And my son gets lots of personal days, sick days, and vacation days, just as long as he doesn't abuse them. He's been in Nairobi and flying back right now, although he won't be back until tomorrow afternoon. I would have been fired on the spot if I had to do that, or docked pay.
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. You have a lot on your mind, so I sympathize.@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5 Mar 19
@DianneN Yes, I do know. I see you fixed the time machine. Oh man! My mind wasn't working yesterday. I see the dates were right all along. It was my thinking that was damaged. It must have been getting lost finding the insurance agency. 
Oh man! My mind wasn't working yesterday. I see the dates were right all along. It was my thinking that was damaged. It must have been getting lost finding the insurance agency. 1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
5 Mar 19
This will be a fun time for all of you. Hopefully, your brother and his wife will be able to join in, also:)
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 Mar 19
@kobesbuddy Too expensive. It's going to be our treat. Maybe our nephew can squeeze on.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
5 Mar 19
@DianneN Maybe they could rent another boat and join your family out on the water:)
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
10 Mar 19
@DianneN yes...stay happy always
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
3 Mar 19
That would be great! Though you will miss Ice Princess, you can have great time with your son and grandson. You will have fun with Ice princess some other time and I hope that will be soon. 
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Mar 19
@playertwo Thanks. We always enjoy being together.
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
4 Mar 19
@DianneN Have a great time. The wait must be seeming too long for you.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Mar 19
My husband and I are thrilled they can come, even if it's only for a few days. We have all kinds of plans already to keep our grandson happy.
Our son made all his arrangements while he was in Nairobi. He will be back in NYC tomorrow afternoon.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Mar 19
how wonderful. yes we take what we can get of our family love. 
beautiful family there. what a good photo
beautiful family there. what a good photo 1 person likes this
@allknowing (137553)
• India
3 Mar 19
Who are those two youngsters in the photo?
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
4 Mar 19
@DianneN Looks like this is not a new photo.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
3 Mar 19
Ah, pity that the whole fam can't be there, but you're right, at least you get son and grandson, that will be fun for sure
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
3 Mar 19
@DianneN Aw - that sounds like a bit off, but it will go quick
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