Loneliness is ...

@karibe (686)
Venezuela
March 7, 2019 3:16pm CST
There are many songs and poems that touch the theme of loneliness. A song by an Argentine singer called Leonardo Favio says in one of his phrases: "Loneliness is a friend that is not ...". There are many people who enjoy being alone without the company of other people and there are those who can not be alone for long. There are many ways to perceive loneliness. Each person has a different concept of what it is. What solitude means to some is not what it means to others. How do you perceive loneliness? What does it mean to you? Do you like to be alone or would you prefer to be always surrounded by people?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
Since I live alone, I get my alone time at home. When I go out, I'm friendly and will talk to people anywhere.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
@karibe I think that loneliness is a longing and not having a mate that is compatible and suitable and with whom you are happy to be with and with whom you enjoy enjoying God's creations.
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
9 Mar 19
Very well!! You get along well with the lack of company, but you're not hostile to her when you have her with you. But, tell me Felix, what does loneliness mean to you? Have you reflected on that?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
7 Mar 19
I am alone every day for half hour or so when Mike is out. I loved .Play my music.A little mediating etc
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
12 Mar 19
Who is Mike, Alfredo?
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
12 Mar 19
@karibe You mean you don't know who Mike is??!!!!
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
12 Mar 19
@db20747 No, I did not know, but now I think I know who he is. Your question awoke my curiosity and I went to Alfredo's profile, and through the lines that describe it, I imagine it.
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@franxav (13849)
• India
8 Mar 19
I like solitude but loneliness is a depressive feeling.
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
9 Mar 19
Well, you enjoy your time alone (solitude), you do not have problems with the lack of company, however you think that when people feel alone they are falling into depressed feelings.
@Plethos (13581)
• United States
8 Mar 19
i like being alone.
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@Plethos (13581)
• United States
12 Mar 19
@karibe - being left alone.
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
9 Mar 19
Ah! Does not it bother you to be without the company of other people? But what does loneliness mean to you in a deep sense?
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
7 Mar 19
I like to have people around but i like to be quiet and alone often once i go in!!!
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
12 Mar 19
@karibe Yes they do!! Don't want to be around too many too often!!
@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
12 Mar 19
You like to be in the company of other people, you do not have problems with that and it's fine, but you often look for moments without close people because you like tranquility. Do people restrict your tranquility?
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• Agra, India
17 Mar 19
There are times when I want to be lonely. While there are also times when I want to be close to my family.
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• Agra, India
18 Mar 19
@karibe yes....I have faced this phase as well..trust me, it sucks.
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
18 Mar 19
Hello Kokil. it means is that there are times when you want to be without people by your side (solitude) and that is natural when we want to be with ourselves and, those who are believers, with GOD. But have you ever experienced a feeling of loneliness, of abandonment, that is depressing, bad?
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@pjmurphy (2499)
• United States
7 Mar 19
Solitude and loneliness are two very different things. I love my solitude, and believe I may need more of it than some people, but I am seldom, seldom lonely.
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
12 Mar 19
This answer of yours is very interesting because you touch something very important that is the difference between solitude and loneliness and you say I love my solitude and I'm rarely lonely. So solitude is desirable and lonely is not. Can you establish a point of difference between the two terms?
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
7 Mar 19
To be alone and be loneliness are two different things. I feel very lonely, and that is not something I want.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
9 Mar 19
@karibe I feel lonely, because I have no love beside myself.
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
12 Mar 19
@Nevena83 Excuse me if I'm very inquisitive (you stop me when you consider it appropriate) Why do not you have love by your side?
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@karibe (686)
• Venezuela
9 Mar 19
Being at times without the presence of people nearby (solitude) is one thing and feeling alone (loneliness) is a different matter. And why do you feel very lonely, Nevena, if we can know?
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