Class reunions- have you gone to one?

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By Hope
@1hopefulman (45120)
Canada
March 7, 2019 8:43pm CST
I was contacted to attend a 50th year high school class reunion. Would you go? Have you ever gone to one? What was it like if you did?
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
8 Mar 19
That is great. I have been to one long back.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
After how many years was yours?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
@shubhu3 That is nice!
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
9 Mar 19
@1hopefulman It was close. Like we have our reunions every year.
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@wolfgirl569 (106362)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Mar 19
I havent went to mine as they always have it at a high dollar club.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
I guess some of your classmates have done quite well financially.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@wolfgirl569 I wonder if one reason for class reunions is to show off? That would not appeal to me.
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@wolfgirl569 (106362)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman No but many were the type that have to put on the show. Even while drowning in debt.
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@FourWalls (68082)
• United States
8 Mar 19
I've never gone to a high school reunion (and I wouldn't: I was severely bullied in school). They have reunions at college all the time, but I don't go to them, either, mainly because they're more about the university wanting the alum to donate money than about class reunions.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
That is very understandable that you feel that way. I have a feeling that it will be hard to find many students. I tried to organize one a few years ago and I was only able to locate a handful.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
@kepweng Here is my High School.
This is John F. Kennedy High School in Montreal. It is the High School I attended from 1967-1969. I skipped the 2nd school year by taking a couple of summer ...
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
@kepweng Yes, high school was free. We only had to pay for books and supplies. However, university is not free and I went for one year and then I got married and had to work.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 19
I never went and I would not go, there were only a few girls that I really liked, so I would see no reasons to go.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
I understand! In a Catholic school we were divided. The girls on one side and the boys on the other. So, I don't think I know any of the girls. I had a part time job all through high school and so did not hang around much. I remember 3 friends that I was close to but I have tried to find them a few times and I was unsuccessful. I'll see how it develops before I decide whether I will attend or not.
@1creekgirl (41444)
• United States
8 Mar 19
I went to my last two years of high school in Hawaii and graduated there. That's too far away to attend a reunion! But I went with my husband to his reunion in Arkansas...he went all 12 years with the same 16 kids.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
Interesting! So they had one every year?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@1creekgirl I see!
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@1creekgirl (41444)
• United States
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman No, they didn't have their first until about the 40th year. Then they've had two or three since.
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@YrNemo (20255)
8 Mar 19
I couldn't attend any so far (the genuine classmates ones) due to distance, conveniences etc. BUT I made an effort every now and then attending the schoolmate gatherings (just people from the same schools or unis ).
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
I think that if we had kept in touch over the years it would be pleasant but we have had no contact in 50 years and I have a feeling there won't be many if it goes through.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@YrNemo I'll see how it develops before I decide whether I will go or not.
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@YrNemo (20255)
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Let people remember you as they had 50 yrs ago. It is better that way I think. (I saw some old friends' pic currently on Facebook, and wanted to cry a bit.)
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@rebelann (112875)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Mar 19
I have no interest in going to any of those stupid things, I wasn't popular and actually didn't know a lot of my classmates.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
I understand! I had 3 close friends that I hung around and if they will be there I will go.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
@rebelann I see!
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@rebelann (112875)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Mar 19
Lucky you @1hopefulman Since most of my school mates back then were Army brats many did not stay long enough for me to get to know them or visa versa.
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Mar 19
I went to the ten year reunion and that was it.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
Yes, after 10 years it would have been interesting but 50 years later it will be a big challenge.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
8 Mar 19
I went to one a long time ago and loved seeing most of my classmates. It was wonderful catching up. The women looked much better than the men as far as aging went. I missed the other one I had planned to attend due to my husband's neck surgery.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
That sounds good! How many years after graduating was the reunion that you attended?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@DianneN 20 is not bad. Ours will be 50 years later and I doubt they will be able to find many students. I tried to organize one a few years ago and was only able to locate a handful of students and they were scattered throughout this big country.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman 20 I believe.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Mar 19
I have been to a few and have enjoyed them. Some of my class mates had changed so much I couldn't recognise them but others hadn't changed much at all.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
Glad it was a positive experience for you. If ours works out, it will be 50 years later and the only one that we have ever had.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
@JudyEv I am waiting to see what develops before I decide whether I will go or not. If my close friends are not going to be there then I see no reason for going.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Mar 19
@1hopefulman I do hope it works out. We have had quite a few get-togethers now although not everyone gets to them all.
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@nela13 (58669)
• Portugal
9 Mar 19
That is nice, i would go.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
I will go if any of my close friends will be there but when I tried to organize one, I was not able to locate any of them. I think that they no longer live in the area.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
@nela13 That's the way I view it!
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@nela13 (58669)
• Portugal
9 Mar 19
@1hopefulman I understand, if you don't have your friends there then It doesn't make sense being there.
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• Belews Creek, North Carolina
8 Mar 19
Never been to one of mine but went with my husband to his 10th.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
I think the tenth would be interesting but we have had no contact for 50 years and so if it goes through it will be with only a few people.
@WiseGhots (14606)
8 Mar 19
Yes and it was so nice!
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
What was the occasion?
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@WiseGhots (14606)
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Five years after graduation
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@WiseGhots We have never had one. So 50 years later is going to be a difficult one as it will be very hard to assemble many students since we will all be 65 years and older and scattered far and wide. I tried myself a few years ago and was not able to locate more that a handful.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
8 Mar 19
I have gone to my school reunion.. it was fun
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
Well, you are very young and so that made the reunions more memorable. Mine will be 50 years later and I wonder who is still around and able to attend.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@Sheali I have tried to find them a few times but have been unable. I have a feeling they are no longer in the area.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman I hope you meet all your besties
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@lot0724 (115)
• Henderson, Nevada
8 Mar 19
I graduated in 2003 from high and have yet to go to a reunion. Is it worth it?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
I don't know! We have never had one and I have never gone to any school reunion and so I have no idea if it is worth going. I guess it would be nice to see the friends we had while in school.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
8 Mar 19
I have attended a lot of reunions and only enjoyed a few.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
What happened that you did not enjoy most of them?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
11 Mar 19
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
11 Mar 19
@1hopefulman There are those who are too good to be true.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Mar 19
I've never been to a high school reunion, but I went to a college reunion about five years ago. It was bittersweet. It was good to see people I hadn't seen in years. But I missed the people that weren't there.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
I understand! I think we especially want to see the ones that we were close to.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
@TheHorse I had 3 close buddies and I lost touch with them many years ago. A few times I have tried to find them but they have seemed to have disappeared.
@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Yes. And I still communicate with the ones I was close to.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Mar 19
My last one was the 45th, and yes, I went. Never again. I was treated the same as I was in high school, as an outsider.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Mar 19
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
That was not a good experience!
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman No, it wasn't. I have no intention of repeating the episode.
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@JESSY3236 (19942)
• United States
8 Mar 19
My best friend and I went to our supposedly 20th class reunion, but no one showed up. My best friend refuses to go to another one. My fiance has a class reunion coming up in April. He asked me to go with him, but I don't know if I will. He lives in New Jersey and I live in North Carolina.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
That must have been disappointing if no one one showed up but what about the organizers, were they there?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@JESSY3236 Wow, fake news, fake reunions. What is going on?
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@JESSY3236 (19942)
• United States
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman no. My best friend thinks it was fake news because we can't find out who was behind the posting on facebook.
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
8 Mar 19
I meet a few of my old friends from high school, college, early working years. But so far no class reunion - siva
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
I is good that you meet some here and there!
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