Have you ever had to deal with a difficult neighbour?
By Hope
@1hopefulman (45120)
Canada
March 9, 2019 1:56pm CST
It's good to be neighbourly. However, once in awhile it can be a real problem with some neighbours.
Have you ever had to deal with a difficult neighbour?
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I have a few difficult ones over the years. Here is one that became a special problem. Some years back, this woman moved next door to me.
She knocked on my door when she moved in and asked to use the phone. After that she came a few times to use the phone. She felt lonely and may have had some mental issues and would often want some company. She would know when I was home and kept wanting to just come in for some company. She had no bad intention. She was just lonely. I tried to get a few women friends for her so that she would have some companionship. I was so glad when she moved out.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
9 Mar 19
We've been very fortunate to have always had nice, helpful, friendly neighbors over the years up north. I believe it is due to living in a nice community on 2+ acres where the homes are close, but not on top of each other. Here in Florida, we did have Dr. Jay, but he's long gone.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
10 Mar 19
Yes, I remember the infamous Dr. Jay! Most of my neighbours ave been a pleasure but there were a handful over the years that I wished I never had them as neighbours.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
10 Mar 19
@DianneN Over the years I have had a handful of difficult neighbours. Life is life!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
10 Mar 19
@1hopefulman It's so different living in a house than living in an apartment or condo. We've been lucky other than with Dr. Jay.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
It's not pleasant! I'm glad that for many years now I have not had any troublemaking neighbours.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
12 Mar 19
@1hopefulman It has been a year only that this evil neighbor left our place.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
That's great! So, in all your life you never had a neighbour that caused you problems?
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
12 Mar 19
@1hopefulman When we lived in Monte Carlo in an apartment complex the old lady who lived nest to our apartment was a bit nosy, but she has never been a nuisance.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
10 Mar 19
Yes, I have had a few screamers over the years. They do not make for pleasant neighbours. I'm glad that things are peaceful in your neighbourhood. What a difference one neighbour can make.
@akalinus (43196)
• United States
10 Mar 19
@1hopefulman I don't know why those two could not get along. I think they used words I never heard before, and I was married to a Marine.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
I think in all my life I have had about 5 problem neighbours but had have mostly good neighbours.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
14 Mar 19
@just4him Good that you straightened that neighbour out!
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Mar 19
@1hopefulman I remember having one, just thought about her. She was my neighbor in California. She always tried to make my day a bad one. One day, I told her off. It was my birthday and I always felt empowered on my birthday. I wasn't going to let anyone ruin the day for me. She never was a problem after that.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
Yes, bad neighbours are not fun!
She was a nice woman but felt lonely and just wanted to be with someone but I felt I was being stalked as whenever I came also she would knock on the door. She needed to live with someone.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
14 Mar 19
@YrNemo I'm glad she moved out and I hope she found happiness.
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@YrNemo (20255)
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12 Mar 19
@1hopefulman 
(I could imagine you then, feeling like the noose was closer and closer around your neck ... )
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@snowy22315 (180678)
• United States
10 Mar 19
Where I lived previously, the neighbors were a bit difficult..They liked to complain about my dog. It was a townhouse community though and he liked to bark..and or whine at times..so I couldn't really blame them for that..but one time, my cat got out..and got in the guys truck..and he said he would take it out and drop it in the woods..that was mean! Apparently, they had problems with the woman who lived next to me and her cats though so I think I just got the brunt of that.
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@snowy22315 (180678)
• United States
11 Mar 19
@1hopefulman It was not at all..and they had cats themselves!
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
11 Mar 19
Threatening to harm your poor cat though wasn't nice! 
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
Glad that you have never had a bad neighbour!
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
1 May 19
@1hopefulman Fredo has no probs ever and has never had any probs!!
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@wolfgirl569 (106226)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Mar 19
Not too many, But I have mostly lived in the country away from people.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
I'm happy for you because bad neighbours can spoil one's happiness.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
@wolfgirl569 Ohh! Maybe you are the neighbour that makes trouble! 
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@wolfgirl569 (106226)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Mar 19
@1hopefulman I know ways to make them want to move 
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
Yes, it is good when there is some space. The bad neighbours were when I was living in apartments.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
10 Mar 19
In the early seventies, we had a crazy neighbour who physically attacked a few neighbours. He also attacked me and pummeled me with his fists and I had to go around with a black eye for a few weeks. Thankfully, they evicted him and we never had another bad neighbour in that area again.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
11 Mar 19
@Shiva49 Once in awhile I have had a bad neighbour but over all life has been pretty good.
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@Shiva49 (26681)
• Singapore
11 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Sorry to hear that; it is awful.
I recall some family quarrels and shouting that disturbs the peace at odd hours - siva
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Mar 19
All too many through the years.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
Thankfully in all my 69 years on this earth I have had only about five. Thankfully I have had many good neighbours most of the time.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
That must have been disturbing! So, now everything is peaceful?
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
17 Mar 19
We could write a book.
When on the bubblews site, I wrote an article that was titled something like
When neighbors trespass and vandalize.
Should repeat it here! Yes, it is sad to say, but some neighbors could move and make me happier.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
18 Mar 19
Wow! You have had some terrible neighbors. I had one that actually hit a few neighbours including me.
@KristenH (33386)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
9 Mar 19
Yes I have. I had two neighbors--both lived in the same apartment next to me, but not at the same time. I both had to deal with loud noise at night--partying, playing music, talking loud. And they weren't supposed to, since it's against leasing rules. But they stopped after I told on them.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
Neighbours like that can make life unpleasant. I'm glad they quieted down and behaved once you talked to them.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
14 Mar 19
@KristenH Hopefully, all is peaceful at this time.
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@KristenH (33386)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
12 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Yeah they were. Me too. I did talk to my former neighbor but not my newest one who's been here almost a year. I mostly talked to my landlady about it.
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@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
20 Mar 19
Luckily not now but when it was it was difficult to cope up with
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
21 Mar 19
Yes, life is not pleasant when we have a bad neighbour close by.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Apr 19
I've had disputes with many of my neighbors!! But many are good people!! The neighbor U mentioned is a lot like me!! When I got bored I knocked on his door all the time!! He was a nice neighbor!! I thought he was my boyfriend!!
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
1 May 19
I was not looking for a girlfriend and I did not want her to get the wrong idea. The day she moved, my life became easier.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
1 May 19
@db20747 There must have been something wrong with him. How can anyone get sick of you?
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
1 May 19
@1hopefulman I was going to say something but when I went to type it the page went haywire!!! I think the guy was sick of me too!!
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
29 Mar 19
@1hopefulman
Where I lived before I had horrible neighbors that caused me so much trouble. I was hoping to get away from here but the ones above me for about two years were fine and others were not. Then this couple moved it and for two years caused me nothing but grief. Now, there is a jerk about me and he is horrible and nothing can be done. I have white noise machines and am getting another so put them on when try to sleep.,
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
29 Mar 19
I know the feeling and sympathize with you. I hope the machines will help you sleep!
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
31 Mar 19
@1hopefulman
They cut out a lot of the noise when they are set right but he is not going to change so most of the time I ignore him but when I do not feel well and his noise really bothers me. Thank you for sympathizing with me.
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@dgobucks226 (35608)
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10 Mar 19
Yes, and I currently still have them next door. From leaving their 5 dogs outside barking most of the day to damaging my fence by leaning stuff against it I would rather live next to the Clampett's of Beverly HIlls 
You were a good neighbor to help her out
You were a good neighbor to help her out1 person likes this
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
12 Mar 19
So, your neighbour troubles are far from over?
She really needed to live with somebody.
Now if the Clampett's were my neighbours we could enjoy some possum and moonshine.
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@dgobucks226 (35608)
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13 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Ha, ha! Those neighbors of mine just might have some for you 
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