Life’s like that

Change is the only constant
@Shiva49 (26680)
Singapore
March 14, 2019 10:50pm CST
Change is the only constant. So much happens every moment but, thankfully, we are not directly impacted by most of the changes. I try to find a stable ground but soon pushed into stormy waters. I get a feeling I am skating on thin ice at times! I think that is built-in our conscience – “expect the unexpected”. It may be because we are made of sterner stuff. Being comfy is not life then, if we are not adventurous, something can be thrust upon us to test our mettle. Health can prove tricky; we worry about a death sentence that our time is nearing. Then the constant money worries; that something out of the blue can upset our plans. People can prove unpredictable too. At a wider level, natural calamities can affect us; we can be left to pick the pieces. We do not know when they happen; can be once in a lifetime, or in a millennium. We can find ourselves smack in the thick of nature’s fury like a humongous earthquake or super volcano. Things are sailing along in placid waters for us now though individually we are fighting battles constantly and moving on learning the lessons Life is some journey but we seem to want more of it and therein lay the beauty of it! I am okay for now, hopefully, you all are. Things could be better but thank our good fortune they are not worse! Do you agree? Image: Change is the only constant from Wikimedia Commons
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23 responses
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Mar 19
I do agree. It’s called life. We all have to take the good with the bad, whether we are ready for it or not. It’s how we handle it that counts. Things are going well for me now, but who knows what tomorrow will bring.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Mar 19
@Shiva49 Exactly. I'm trying my best to do so.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
18 Mar 19
Thanks, the uncertainty of life keeps us ion the edge; we do not know what tomorrow has in store. Enjoy the moments as they are not repeated - siva
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@ptrikha_2 (46947)
• India
14 Sep 19
@Shiva49 Yes in the recent times, I too am adjusting to enjoy things as they come, and do not fret excessively on things not in our control. Still sometimes mind wanders off, and needs some calming down.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
15 Mar 19
We go to bed and all seems well and we wake up to horrible news like that in New Zealand. We never know what the next minute will bring.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
15 Mar 19
@Shiva49 You are right on every point. Some people can be terrible!
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
8 Apr 19
There is a reason for why things are as they are
@Shiva49 "As soon as we abandon our own reason, and are content to rely upon authority, there is no end to our troubles." BERTRAND RUSSELL People are destructive, nasty, road ragers, etc etc, largely for no reason. We should not do anything without reasoned thought about it. Photo Credit: The photo used here was freely sourced from the free media site: pixabay.com There is a reason for why things are as they are. (The photo didn't work, There seems to be a glitch with Mylot at the moment. Photos can't be uploaded, it seems for now.) The glitch is fixed today. There is a reason why 2 + 2 = 4, and not 5, and it's not because the authorities said so.
@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
15 Mar 19
"We are our own worst enemy" is proved time and time again. I cannot imagine what leads people to kill others they do not know even. Gandhi said, “An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind”. Even animals kill for a reason - so it cannot be animal instinct as is often said - siva
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
10 Apr 19
It's all part of life and although we don't always like it, we have no choice but accept the bad with the good.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
10 Apr 19
@Shiva49 yes, definitely does do that
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
10 Apr 19
Yes, we are more alive in bad times than in the good. They test our mettle - siva
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@nela13 (58667)
• Portugal
8 Aug 20
I most confess that sometimes I worry too much about things that haven't happened yet. Life is so unpredictable and scary but at the same time so beautiful and worth living.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
8 Aug 20
Yes, I agree life is so beautiful and worth living. This I had posted BC (Before Covid), and even with this horrible virus that refuses to leave us, life is still worth it - siva
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@nela13 (58667)
• Portugal
8 Aug 20
@Shiva49 yes, I believe it worth no matter what.
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
3 Sep 20
@Shiva49 I see that you still get some comments on your old posts here. I notice that wikinut finally closed its doors completely too. We cannot access the site anymore.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
13 Apr 19
This is a really great post. Well explained what life is.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
14 Apr 19
Thank you for your encouraging words, appreciated - siva
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
14 Apr 19
@Shiva49 Welcome
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
14 May 19
Life's journey is a process towards our goal in life. Practically speaking we are here on this earth to search for happiness. In doing so there are lots of trials and challenges in any form and it takes us the courage and determination to accept changes in charting such journey to eternity.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
14 May 19
When we have an eternal journey in mind, we become more focused. Otherwise, it becomes free for all, living without any responsibility - siva
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
14 May 19
@Shiva49 you're right. It's just enrolling in college with a degree to complete. Or else as you've said no final destination to reach.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
12 Jul 19
Yup, the universe unfolds as it should, fashions come, fashions go. In romancing our thinking, as we perceive and study things, one thing remains - truth.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
12 Jul 19
Yes, the underlying truth and the presence of our creator is overwhelming and comforting - siva
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@allknowing (136369)
• India
16 Mar 19
I remember when I was working planning was what the company did - a 5 year plan. Wonder if the Planning Department took into account unpredictable changes which perforce were there
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@allknowing (136369)
• India
16 Mar 19
@Shiva49 With upgrades at the blink of an eye we need to throw away anything that needs repair - spare parts would not longer be available
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
16 Mar 19
Nowadays the change is hectic. What the software engineers study in the first year gets outdated before they graduate! The energy and transport sectors are undergoing transformational changes with renewable energy and electric mobility. The Internal Combustion Engines can become obsolete in a decade. Many companies are trying to catch up and make sense of their relevance in this changing scenario - siva
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@RebeccasFarm (89882)
• Arvada, Colorado
10 Feb 20
Yes we must always be prepared for anything as that is change.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
11 Feb 20
Thank you, we have to go with the flow and be ever prepared to "expect the unexpected" - siva
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@LadyDuck (471497)
• Switzerland
15 Mar 19
Changes are part of our life, some are appreciated, but not always. I am fine, there are small problems, but nothing serious.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
15 Mar 19
That is good to hear. I have had some major ones from time to time but soon they are water under the bridge - siva
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@LadyDuck (471497)
• Switzerland
15 Mar 19
@Shiva49 It's better to keep only good memories and to forget about the problems.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 19
Some changes are not always for the better. We do need change at times to challenge us and motivate us to change the way we live our lives.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 19
@Shiva49 These old wise men certainly knew it! It is great that we still learn from these great people!
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
28 Mar 19
Change can be worrisome. I'm trying though to keep a more positive attitude
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
29 Mar 19
It is a fact we change with time and some experiences leave their mark. I try to take them all in my stride even the few knockout blows - siva
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
29 Mar 19
@Shiva49 A wise way to be
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
3 Sep 20
I have revisted your post for I am missing you. How are doing in this pandemic era? By the way, do you remember me?
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
3 Sep 20
I saw your previous comment. Maybe, you have changed your display name as I do not recall you readily. I am only responding to Steve and a few others, no new posts for now. I will respond to yours too as often as I can. Thanks for remembering me - siva
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@Stefoo (58)
• Sofia, Bulgaria
18 Mar 20
I like your existential thought! Give me an inspiring idea! Thanks!
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
19 Mar 20
Thanks, this ongoing virus is surely testing us - siva
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
15 Mar 19
Change is the only permanent thing here in this world
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
15 Mar 19
Even if we don't want it, we cannot avoid the change happening all the time - siva
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Mar 19
I am so grateful for things as they stand in my life. They only thing you can do is accept change and move on. I had done thus far and I may have to do some more. It is better to focus on the good things and let the bad ones take their course.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
29 Mar 19
The beauty is even the bad ones are soon water under the bridge. Time heals and how we accept the realities of life. Expect the surprises around the corner is my motto - siva
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
18 Mar 19
You're so right - some things can't be predicted and that's probably a good thing. For instance I wouldn't want to know if something bad was going to happen if there was nothing I could to avoid or change it.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
19 Mar 19
I too prefer that way to enjoy the moments. That is also the main reason I keep away from fortune tellers/doomsayers - siva
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
15 Mar 19
Ya know, I never think about all that doom and gloom. I live for today and expect good, if bad happens then I deal.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
15 Mar 19
Thanks, I like to think of all possibilities but live day-to-day, come as it may. I like to ponder how our forefathers lived, how we live and how our future generations might live. I feel we are in placid waters for now when compared to our past. Scientifically, we have come far and the change is gaining speed but as human beings, we are just the same unable to lift ourselves from internecine conflicts though nature has been mostly benign - siva
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• Sonora, California
15 Mar 19
So true!
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
15 Mar 19
We feel safe but let us guard ourselves against our own for now! siva
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@karakay (365)
• Philippines
15 Mar 19
We all have our ups and downs... Change is constant and nobody is perfect... nobody is happy all the time. We need to experience everything life has to offer in order to live a real life...
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
15 Mar 19
There is an immense variety in our lives. How we adapt to change decides how comfortable we are in life - siva
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