Why do people avoid people then know and it hurts

@ajithlal (14716)
India
March 18, 2019 10:25pm CST
Sometimes when we meet some people in their homes or other places they would ignore us and would talk to someone else. Sometimes it do hurts especially when it happens when a relative or family member or a friend do this. Sometimes we give all our care and attention our friends and yet sometimes they consider us like an alien. I think this might happen to most of us. I always wonder why they do it?
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@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
19 Mar 19
Perhaps they need space. Some people need space and be of themselves.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
20 Mar 19
I also think some people needs personal spaces.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Mar 19
@Shavkat I am sensitive and I cannot help being it.
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@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
20 Mar 19
@ajithlal It indeed happens in the real world. We just need to be sensitive.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Mar 19
Well there must be some reasons and you have to find it out.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Mar 19
For the reason of the person's fault the person is avoiding. It is because of guilt feeling?
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Mar 19
@Janet357 I always wonder why people avoid us when the mistake is on their part.
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@Janet357 (75646)
28 Mar 19
@ajithlal sometimes we hurt people we dont know or sometimes guilt feeling, either of the two
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Mar 19
They might have some misunderstanding within their mind. If some one does to me that way, I won't bother and I just ignore in the same way. I don't have the habit of bowing a God, who never looks on me
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
20 Mar 19
You are right may be it might be of their first impression.
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• Midland, Michigan
21 Mar 19
Some of it may have something to do with how shy the person that seems to be ignoring you is. I once went to visit with my cousin and I took her mom with me, or maybe I went with her, I don't remember. But, neither of them talked to me much while I was there. I was still rather shy back then, and I realized that they probably were the same way. Sometimes it can be hard to know how to start a conversation and might be easier to talk with someone you've chatted with often already. For you, it may not have been a conscious oversight. Since that time, I can strike up a conversation with just about anyone whether I know them very well or not. So, if I were in that situation again, I'd find a way to get involved with what they were talking about. The difficulty might be to talk without interrupting. Otherwise, I'd have to say excuse me and go from there.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Mar 19
I think it is okay to avoid with shyness.
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• Midland, Michigan
18 Apr 19
@ajithlal i don't agree but some people can't help being shy and that's okay too.
@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
19 Mar 19
Especially if you have no money and got nothing.It also happens here in the Philippines people will only be good and like you if you are somebody and that is true.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Mar 19
It is true people do avoid when you have no money.
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• Philippines
27 Mar 19
@ajithlal yes and have a great day.So you have to save at least you have something.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Mar 19
@janethwayne Lots of time I got hurt by avoidance when people throw out when they do not need you.
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28 Mar 19
Not for me, I treat everybody the same because no one is better than the other; we are basically the same deep inside..
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
1 Apr 19
It is always great to treat everyone alike.
1 Apr 19
@ajithlal That's true..
@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
21 Mar 19
If I ever avoid someone but not someone else it's because I'm closer to the person i approach but also because i think the othe person wouldn't want me to approach them, maybe its just something like that
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
19 Mar 19
Most of us these happen, in one way or another, to be rejected or to reject someone. There are people who are irritating with the very appearance, they do not have to say anything.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Mar 19
Yeah it hurts a lot.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 Jun 19
@LowRiderX Yes it applies to everyone.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
27 Mar 19
@ajithlal Unfortunately, you can not do much about it, can not all love you, it applies to everyone