One Difficult Question....

@Aansh13 (11362)
New Delhi, India
May 27, 2019 11:06am CST
Having Love for someone is totally different than being in love. I know this is confusing. I was reading one article, where a woman was talking about loosing feelings for her husband, not exactly disliking, but just that she lost interest. So basically, she started living in autopilot mode, which keeps everything going, and somehow fine. But the point is, will this bring happiness....?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
27 May 19
I don't think that someone else can make us happy. We have to find a way to make ourselves happy.
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@raveeen (3457)
27 May 19
Ohhhhh I felt that before to my boyfriend but it's his fault because I caught him cheated many times before and I really loose my interest for him and my feelings (a liitle bit). For me my answer to your discussion is that it really depends on the situation like me based on my experience. If you choose to stay and doesn't leave your partner then I think you're still waiting/hoping that your relationship has still a chance and also hoping to yourself that you can bring back that feelings and interest to your partner. It will bring happiness if you'll give your relationship a chance to be happy and to make your relationship healthy, you know. It's normal to feel that feeling like you don't know if you're still happy with your partner or if you still love him/her, I felt that too but I didn't break up with him because I know that it's normal to feel that even tho you're not cheating lol haha me and my boyfriend is still together for 4years and counting, we started our relationship since we were at 9th grade haha and now we are 2ndyr college.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
27 May 19
That's beautiful and also something to look up to.... I am so happy you shared this... Thank you so much
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@raveeen (3457)
27 May 19
@Aansh13 I'm also happy that you shared that article that you've red :)
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
28 May 19
You can't find happiness everywhere in your life. Sometimes life goes on.. just as formal. But things will change for sure.
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• Philippines
2 Jun 19
This question is not difficult to answer. Because there is love chemistry on a relationship and both must feel the mutually of the affair. Being cold and changing affection is a part of getting matured. just always talking to them about it so they can understand how is going on in relationships.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
2 Jun 19
Talking and opening up is one of the vital aspect of any relationship....
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• United States
27 May 19
I don't think being on autopilot will last very long. It certainly won't bring happiness.
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@nela13 (58669)
• Portugal
27 May 19
That is a difficult question, she most do what makes her happy and I think that situation don't make her happy.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
27 May 19
If she continues to hang around him enough the fire will return!!
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
27 May 19
I don't want to marry if girls think this way
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