My sister just had a misscariage

Well there really isnt much you can say to make her feel better, other than you love her and that you will be there for her. Just listen to her when she needs to be heard. Hug her when she needs a hug. Just being there when she needs you is all you can do. +

Tell your sister you are sorry for her loss of her baby, after all, the baby is your neice or nephew. Give her a condolence card, and a pretty tearose potted vine in memory of her baby. Let her cry. Don't tell her she'll have "another one" or that its "nature's way." Just let her be with you and acknowledge that no matter how early in pregnancy a loss occurs, you grieve with her. She'll know how much you love her, and that's worth everything.

Tell her you love her, that it wasn't meant to be and there will be another chance.

Never say that you know how she feels. You can never imagine the pain (emotionally or physically) that she is going through. I never had 1 but I know a couple people that have and it sucks. Just be there for her to cry on, to talk to. Just listen to her. Let her know that if she needs anything, anything at all, to call you, email you, stop over, whatever it may be. She may not want to talk to the dad of the baby about it, it may be too hard. She needs to know that you are there for her anytime, anywhere. Good Luck!!

Nothing really. But I can tell you somethings not to say: It wasn't meant to be. It's with God now/in a better place... Things of this nature. The best thing you can do is let her know that you are there for her if she needs someone to talk to. And just listen.

The worst thing you can say is nothing at all. Let her know you acknowledge her loss and you are there for her. Don't go on about babies and baby showers, people you know who are pregnant, unless you see she is fine.

Unfortunatly anything can be missinterprated as wrong, all you can say to her and this is gonna sound cliche' "you'll be there for her if she ever needs comfort" but I am sorry for her loss.

Whatever you do don't tell her it was God's plan. I had too miscarrages last year and that's what people told me both times. It actually made me feel worse. Like that's an excuse people give so that they don't have to talk about it with me. Just tell her that you love her and that you will be there for her if she needs to talk about it.

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I personally have had 6 in my lifetime, and now have 4 beautiful healthy children, and feel blessed. I would say that there isn't much comforting you can do other then: lend her your ears and shoulder, give her a humongous hug, let her know you are there for her no matter what,......avoid saying things like " Oh you'll have another a child, or blaming the miscarriage on a certain thing. I believe in my heart that everything happens for a reason, and it wasn't the right time for her to bear a child. Actually maybe ask her once.."Sis, I want to know how you feel about your miscarriage, because I love you and want to know how is it affecting you and what I can do if anything to comfort you or try to ease your pain", then after you talk about it.....let her know your not going to bring it up anymore unless she needs to talk about it, then you'll listen. Dwelling on the issue, or becoming obsessed with becoming pregnant again will only make things much worse for her......after a miscarriage your body goes through the same things as after having a baby (depression, hormone changes, etc.), but on a smaller scale. JUST MAKE SURE TO GIVE HER A BIG HUG....BUT DONT SAY "I know what your going through, unless you yourself have gone through this", I had someone say that to me who still to this day hasn't had a child...let alone be pregnant...so they cant possibly know what your going through. Good luck, and give her a hug from me.

I think that you should tell her that its ok and its not her fault. God took her baby for a reason. I think that everything happens for a reason. Maybe the baby was going to have some complications or something. Just be there for your sister don't say to much but just let her know that you are there for her! Let her know that she is not alone with this it happens more than she probably thinks it does. Everybody probably knows somebody this has happened to or its happened to them. So just tell her to keep her head up!

I think that you should tell her that its ok and its not her fault. God took her baby for a reason. I think that everything happens for a reason. Maybe the baby was going to have some complications or something. Just be there for your sister don't say to much but just let her know that you are there for her! Let her know that she is not alone with this it happens more than she probably thinks it does. Everybody probably knows somebody this has happened to or its happened to them. So just tell her to keep her head up!

Dont do anything, Hug her , that would give her much support and love...

I'm sorry for your loss is never the wrong thing to say. Other than that you really can't say anything to make her feel better. Just be there and listen and offer her your unconditional support.

I had a girlfriend who had a miscarriage. It was hard for me because I had just had a baby, we were preggers together. She siad the doctor told her something that made her feel better. He told her that it was just her turn, that it just happens that way. There is no rhyme or reason, it just strikes randomly. It is important that she knows that, so she doesn't beat herself up for doing anything wrong. My friend found out that the baby had massive birth defects, so it was God's way of saying it would have been more than she could handle, I suppose.

Giving her love and let her know your love wiht her.

I don't know that there is anything to say that is the right thing. You just need to let her know that you are there for her in anyway that she wants. Just be there for her... that is the best thing that you can do.

Say her, God always do best. so don;t worry

I had a miscarriage 4 months ago and personally I didn't want anyone to say anything to me about it. I was only 2 months and one lady had the never to ask me if I got to hold the baby or bury it. I just shook my head in awe. Basically my point is sometimes its better to leave things unsaid rather then say something that might upset the person.

I wouldn't know what to say, besides that you will be there for her if she ever needs anything. Good luck with things and sorry to hear about that.