Do you have a hard time making decisions

@amadeo (111938)
United States
June 24, 2019 3:06pm CST
Do you have a hard time making decisions For me I do very much.When I was much younger did not have this. Now that I am older it is very difficult to make a decisions.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
24 Jun 19
I think it depends in the situation and what you are trying to decide on.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Jun 19
good evening and yes your right
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Jun 19
@hillhjill yes your right there.Good evening to you
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
24 Jun 19
@amadeo good evening.
@pumpkinjam (8754)
• United Kingdom
25 Jun 19
I do have a hard time making decisions. Sometimes, I want to do so many things that I try to do them all or I decide on none at all. When I need to make an important decision, I will ask my other half what he thinks. There are things I try to do to get around it. I might decide some things I want to do, write them down, leave them for a while, and then decide if I still want to do them when I return to the list. If I need to make a decision sooner then I might write down the pros and cons of each possibility. I've also realised that if I decide on one particular 'big' thing, I can get it done when it is in my control.
• United Kingdom
25 Jun 19
@amadeo I have come to realise that I can be quite successful at things if I have control over them. It's the things over which I have no control that cause trouble!
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@pumpkinjam yes you have to be in control.Your right
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@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
25 Jun 19
It depends on what the decision involves. Most I make pretty easily but some are harder.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Jun 19
@Lolaze good morning.nice to meet you.Challenge.Thank you and nice to meet you.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
25 Jun 19
I do what I think it the right thing to do. I used to have problems years ago making a decision. But, lately t has occurred to me that life is too short to use up a lot of time worrying what to do.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@Marilynda1225 I know the feeling.Have a good afternoon
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Jun 19
Depends upon the situation.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Jun 19
@JohnRoberts yes very much so
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• Peoria, Arizona
24 Jun 19
I am terrible at making decisions, I have to let other ways decide on things for me.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Jun 19
@DesirousDreamer that is too bad there.
@ichipink (541)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
I absolutely do. I think decision-making becomes harder and harder as we get older. A lot of things get more complicated as they add a number to our age. And our responsibilities get bigger as well and I think that is why making a decision becomes harder because of the importance attached to it.
@ichipink (541)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@amadeo Thank you.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@ichipink that is very well said there .your right
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
Sometimes, I find it hard to make decisions. WHen that happens, I ask my husband what is his opinion, specially about some office procedure I find not agreeable.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@amadeo Yes, he does. He also always ask my opinions in some of his office works. He wants confirmation that what he is doing is good.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@SIMPLYD and your husband give you some help or hint there?
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@Tampa_girl7 (50179)
• United States
25 Jun 19
Sometimes I have a difficult time.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@Tampa_girl yes your not alone Marie many do.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@Tampa_girl7 thank you and do my best to enjoy the rest of the day
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@Tampa_girl7 (50179)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@amadeo I hope that you are enjoying your day.
@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Jun 19
My hardest decision is what to wear for the day. Or what book to work on. Other than that, I don't find it hard to make decisions.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@just4him Good afternoon.You seems to have this down.Good for you
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@just4him I do not blame you same here
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Jun 19
@amadeo Thank you. I don't like hard decisions or a complicated life.
@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Jun 19
No, I just do what feeis right.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@andriaperry how do you know when it feels right?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@andriaperry yes I get that feeling now and then.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Jun 19
@amadeo Something inside just says yes or no.
@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
25 Jun 19
For me it depends on the situation and if it is very important to decide immediately. I have to weight the positive and the negative sides before I can decide.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Jun 19
@thelme55 Good girl.Great way looking at this.
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@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
26 Jun 19
@amadeo Thank you very much.
25 Jun 19
Most times because I get terrified it would be the wrong one
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@yankeesfanin I see.So are you a Yankee fan?
25 Jun 19
@amadeo very much so
@reti_9 (386)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
I think its depends in your situation if it is need to be think or what, but just think it wisely so that there's no regret if you look back at it.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@reti_9 good advice there.I liked it
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@reti_9 (386)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
@amadeo thank you for the compliment. :)
@much2say (55507)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Jun 19
I am a Libra - I think we are known to be indecisive (ok, I don't really believe in that stuff ). Decisions have always been hard, but I think as I age I am faster as resolving things - I don't want to take too much time stressing like I used to.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@Kahl39 very well so.Yes we do need people around us
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@much2say good thinking there.I do not blame you
• United States
25 Jun 19
No but sometimes I regret making an impulse decision. Sorry this is happening to you Fredo. Nice photo.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@TiarasOceanView Good afternoon.Thanks.
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• United States
29 Jun 19
@amadeo Welcome
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
24 Jun 19
I am pretty decisive, I may regret some of them but I have no trouble making them.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@amadeo I am but I always tell Al that he is my strength, I get it from his love. OH boy there I go getting all mushy lol
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Jun 19
@BelleStarr I figured you to be a strong woman there.Good for you
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@nela13 (58594)
• Portugal
24 Jun 19
It was always difficult for me to take decisions and it is getting worse as years pass.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Jun 19
@nela13 why is it getting worse there?
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@nela13 (58594)
• Portugal
25 Jun 19
@amadeo now I have children and my decisions my influence them.
@dya80dya (36579)
24 Jun 19
Yes, it's hard to make decisions for me.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@Kahl39 yes it is at times
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
25 Jun 19
@dya80dya I see.thank you
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
24 Jun 19
I'm the same. While I was young, there was no problem, and with years it was getting worse and worse
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Jun 19
@LowRiderX I see.Wonder why that itis.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
25 Jun 19
@amadeo We probably do not want to make a mistake, we are aware of certain consequences of a bad choice of anything. We are wiser with age